Wife tells me I am not who i was anymore, what could that mean?

well, try to figure it out to be sure and so that you can answer your own question. but when you ask me, i will say that i guess, what she meant is that you change the way you are the unlikely you. but what i am not certain of is that you had changed for good or for worst. so as say again, ask her to make it sure. thanks :)

I think that she mean that you have changed. Most probably, it has something to do with the way you treat her which includes the time and attention you give to her. Most men do change after the wedding like he no longer send her flowers, he doesn't take his wives for a special date anymore, he no longer calls her when he is at work, which are the usual things he does when they are still in boyfriend-girlfriend stage. The problem here is those are some of the major reasons why she married him. So when she no longer sees his husband doing all of those, she will definitely thinks that he has changed. Study shows that this could lead most women to fall out of love because they feel neglected and so, no longer feel that they are important. But there could also be other reasons. The best you could do is ask her. It is a good thing that she tells you how she feels towards you. As this is also a way of saying that she's giving you a chance to prove to her that she is wrong for thinking that way. It's a red flag so better spare some time to talk to her seriously about your relationship. No matter how busy you are, you should not forget to communicate with each other as communication is very vital not only in marriage but in every relationship.

She said like that? Means she noted that you have change in terms of your treatment to her. Nothing else. The way you look at her, the way you together alone with her, the way you talk to her, the way you spend time with her and many more all related to here. This is normal after few years of marriage. And I believe you also sometimes feel the same way. It's not a problem, she's yours, so you should be able to manage it and change her perception to you. Think to yourself how you treat her before and now, there must be some reduction or changes, definitely, otherwise she won't said like that.

I think that this must have been a hard thing to hear, but I think that everybody changes over the course of their life, and not all that many people are the same as they might have been at some points in the past. It doesn't always mean that she doesn't love you, because she will have changed as well and I very much doubt that she is the same person who you fell in love with. But that doesn't mean that you can't adapt to these changes and make the most of the things that have changed, and remember which bits of each other you really like.

Hi:), She's obviously saying that you have changed, maybe she's missing something that you used to do with her or how you used to treat her. She's the only person who can answer your question, so you should talk to her and stop assuming things. You will not solve the problem unless you set down with her and talk about it.

Unique personality? You can't ask her anything? That way distance would grow up between you two day by day. Take her out on a date as you did earlier and see may be she will feel better.

Hello seliokas! :) Your profile says you are 16 and you already have a wife? Haha, yeah, if you are the man in this photo of you, I can say you are not 16 anymore. Anyways, why didn't you ask her what does she mean then? What was her feelings when she said that and how did she say it? There can be reasons like a positive or negative one why she said such thing. Maybe you have really changed a lot way back since she met you. It's either you changed in a positive or a nrgative way. There's nothing wrong to ask her, anyway...

How did she tell you that? Was she mad, sad or happy? I mean, just by that simple question, it could mean a lot but it would depend on how she said it to you.

I am not sure why your wife had said that. If I were in your shoe, I will ask her what made her say that. It would be better to ask directly, instead of being puzzled. Talking to her is the best way to find the answer and let's see what will be the next thing to happen. From there, you might find the better options of how are you going to do your actions.

Have you changed? Sometime people change and not always for the good. You need to sit down with her and have a talk. Ask her what she means. Do it now- before its to late.

Personally being a lady it probably means she misses being in that dating stage I'm not sure how long you have been married. But think back to the little things you used to do.