sometimes you will encounter the person at wrong time in love
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
October 28, 2012 3:35am CST
i am not saying i do not love my boyfriend. and were on for eight years now. along that time, i cannot really avoid that my old friends and new acquaintances would court me. i even just laugh at it and because maybe i do not want to hurt that person, my refusal is not being said or stated directly to them (wee, as in used the pronoun them). i just let it slipped and let the other party that i am not interested to go further beyond friendship relationships. i am so glad that they can understand what i am trying to portray and they will just stop courting me for that.
like now, my high school classmate used to court me frankly. and i hate him for that. i do not want our friendship will be destroyed because of refusing him so and so. i noticed that he had a crush on me before but i was not that friendly and was not approachable enough. yes, that is true and he even affirmed that to me. and what happened to him that he have this spirit to tell to me what he felt. he worked in usa i guess as a marine and wanted to go home to see me personally 
and i do not like that idea again because i am a committed person already. gee, he left me hanging.
what about you guys, had an experience like that, when you are settled the least, there are someone who interfere and could distract your composure. chastise me so if it is right to do so.
and i do not like that idea again because i am a committed person already. gee, he left me hanging.
what about you guys, had an experience like that, when you are settled the least, there are someone who interfere and could distract your composure. chastise me so if it is right to do so.7 responses
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Oct 12
This reminds me of my experience when I was in high school. I was the typical nerd girl. I'm on scholarship, I'm fat, I'm short, I'm dark, my hair's always a mess, I don't have cool stuff (scholarship girl!) and I wear those awful glasses because my mom won't buy me the fashionable ones. So there's this guy whom I really had a huge crush on. But sadly, he's one of those who bullied me for being a "charity case" and a fatso. Well, he isn't really one of those, but let's say he hangs out with the very crowded that did that to me and he didn't even stop them. He just didn't care. Fast forwardtio a few yedairisd later, we're both college seniors and we met again in the university belt. I was no longer the chubby girl with big hair. And awful glasses. Thanks. To contacts, Wiifit and our life turning around. When he saw me, he wants to court me. I just smiled and politely declined because I was already going out with a guy back then from another college. It's just funny, I mean had he cared for me back in high school, I would have appreciated it.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
this guy blamed me for being so tough way back then and the as added to say to me that i was so boyish and will get angry when he gets near me. admit that i was like that before and that if someone do like me, they must really like me for if not, they will surrender because of my toughness. he told me that he liked me even before. well, to say he did not expected me to like him in return and that not forcing me. i was just so amazed what had happened with him today that acted so weird and formal. and he said he courted me, well i asked you did? when? he was then an experienced man in this time that is why he become a direct or frank person. would say what he wanted to say. that was terrible . but there is one thing i agreed upon, that when he just courted me before there would be chances that we established a relationship as he said to me. :)
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
28 Oct 12
not once but more than one occasions i have seen that and it happens to even the best of us,we need to be alert in love
@GemmaR (8517)
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28 Oct 12
Yes I think that a lot of people tend to go through times like this in their life because it means that they have met somebody who they like, but the timing just isn't right to be able to get with them. I went through this when I was younger and one of my friends liked me in a romantic way. I didn't feel the same about him at this point, but I developed feelings for him later when his feelings for me had long gone. So we had both loved each other at one point, but neither of us had gone through this feeling at the right time for the other.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
Yes, and I was in a very difficult situation that time. I guess, I was vulnerable and let that other person come in to my life. I know from the start that the relationship will be useless but then, I have let my hear overrule my head! Stupid me!
But it has been years since that happened. I am glad that he never bothered me again.
But it has been years since that happened. I am glad that he never bothered me again. @xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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28 Oct 12
I do have a similar situation way back 4 yrs ago, the only difference is that we broke up because of that someone. And that someone is not worth it... I regret dumping my old x-bf....
Here's my advice, don't let your friend ruin your relationship..
@gary23 (425)
• India
28 Oct 12
Ummm I had a guy with whom I worked in projects . He used to admire me a lot. I always discussed about my boyfriend with him but after 2 years, he confessed his love for me and when I tried to avoid it, he started saying nonsense. So such people always stay and are best to be ignored.
