Trick or Treat

@NailTech (6874)
United States
October 31, 2012 2:56pm CST
What do you think of the houses that put up a "No Candy" sign for Halloween? Is it better than them not answering the door? Or should everyone give the candy out? I have heard that in some places they have rescheduled it this year due to "Sandy" and the hurricane effects. There are still many areas around here without power. I don't expect alot of Trick or Treaters this year but we don't give candy out anymore for years now, but did awhile back. What if the family has an infant or a dog that will cry on end when the doorbell rings? I know in the dark it probably isn't that obvious to see a sign, either. Usually turning off the lights helps to tell people you don't have any candy to shell out.
3 people like this
15 responses
@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
31 Oct 12
i have never heard of hanging a sign on your door like that. ever since i was a kid the rule was if the house didn't have their light on, you didn't go to that house.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
1 Nov 12
Same rule as here. We still got them ringing the bell sometimes even with the lights off but didn't answer the door and they moved on to the neighbor's.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
Yea, that is how I always knew it to be when someone didn't have the candy to give out or want to give out candy. I am wondering what happened to the dozens of Halloween decorations one of the homes around in the next town did with the decorations during the storm or if any were damaged or missing. His house is always in the paper cause it is so elaborate with the deco.
• United States
1 Nov 12
I agree with you cher, "If the yard/porch light isn't on , don't come knocking." Some people may not believe in Halloween or for any other matter and they don't leave their yard/porch light on. However, some people don't respect or know about this sign, and still trick ortreat.
• United States
31 Oct 12
Hi NailTech, Our Halloween was cancelled here where I live in Ohio until Sunday, which is fine with me. There is no way the kids should be out today with all the rain and flooding in spots. It's fine if you don't give out candy, not everyone does. We just go out with my granddaughter and just pass up the houses that do not have lights on. It's all good and no problem.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
1 Nov 12
I think so here now that it's so very quiet outside. Maybe that was why I was feeling like it wasn't halloween either earlier plus other reasons too.
1 person likes this
• United States
1 Nov 12
You can probably do some researching online and find out if your city is doing Halloween or not. This way if the kids are doing their trick or treating on a different day, you won't be surprised when or if your doorbell rings. Or at least you can put out your sign. I know where I live they changed the date because of the rain and flooding, so maybe they changed yours too.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
They did post pone it, I just hope by then the kids and other don't forget about it and just say the heck with it but it's their problem not mine anyway I guess since I don't give out candy. We haven't in years but I miss the noise outside of them running around on Halloween.
• United States
2 Nov 12
I think a sign is a brilliant idea. I would make a white waterproof sign and put it on the door and have my outdoor light shine on it! brilliant. not every household likes children or will answer the door!
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
well, some might like to try the idea and if so then that is fine with me. either way, lights off or not it is just something to think about.
1 person likes this
@leateagee (3667)
• China
1 Nov 12
Oh that's too bad. We did gave some candies to our students here. Though students in China are little by little knowing more about the western culture, the kids appreciate the efforts we did for them. Maybe to avoid disturbing the whole household just wait for these kids by the door. Anyway, this activity just happens once a year.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
9 Nov 12
Help each other.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
We will live, the most important thing is that out gas supply and electric all gets back on and then maybe some effort on the part of the clean up can be better manuevered as well.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
1 Nov 12
I think a sign is fine if you need to keep your lights on say for a handicapped or elderly person. We always go by the lights out, no candy rule, and the kids can always use the extra walking to pre work out all the candy they are going to ingest.
@capirani (2817)
• United States
2 Nov 12
Your avatar scared me Pegasus72 because on my monitor it looked like someone had written on my monitor with an ink pen. My grandson who is 5 is here visiting and I was in the kitchen making dinner and saw this when I came back to check the screen. Thankfully I realized it was not ink on my monitor as I scrolled and it moved with the page. :)
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
yes, pegasus we have always gone by that rule here as well. it is tradition. i agree about the extra walking, those candies can pack on the pounds and we don't want that on top of their no activity mentality these days of using the computer so much these days. capirano, lol. it does look like scribble in a way to me as well. i'm sure pegasus didn't intend for it to be that way though. thanks for pointing it out though lol.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Nov 12
Here if they don't have a light on means they arnt giving out candy, or after a certain time you shut it out. When we run out of candy or after 10pm we shut out lights out. My Dad loves handing out candy and has been sitting by the door handing it out tonight.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
How nice of your dad to hand out the candy to strangers, ha. If only he would be that generous to you to drive you somewhere when you need it right? I do agree with the lights being off being a sign itself to tell Trick or Treaters it's no candy at that house.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Nov 12
I can see when people say they dont have candy, it is expensive. Also, if they work or work midnights. I worked 8 years on midnights, and wanted to yell at the kids and their parents since my lights were out and they kept knocking on my door.
@celticeagle (189838)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Nov 12
Whatever happened to the old trick or treat? When you either got a treat or you tricked the house with eggs or toilet paper. No they put up a sign? What a bunch of whimps! I think that they should probably not do trick or treating in the Sandy areas. I would think that only right.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
Yea, they didn't do the, in the areas hit hard by Sandy, another sad fact for the kids this year in that dept. I have seen piles of stuff put on the outside of people's homes who did survive the hurricane and it reminds me of the area in the next tow or so which had to do those things here. It is just so sad, I want to cry every time the news is on.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
1 Nov 12
NailTech: I think it is perfectly alright for people to put a note on their own doors if they do not wish to be bothered with trick or treaters. Where I live, we just simply leave our porch lights on if we are handing out candy, and leave the light off if we do not have candy. I do not believe everyone has to give out candy. I believe that halloween is a pagan holiday, and therefore, as a Christian, I do not participate in it. When my children were small, we bought them candy and made them baskets or took them to the school's fall carnival. After I became involved in the church, we started going to the Church's fall festival.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
4 Nov 12
Hi deedee. Where I live too they usually just leave the lights off, and not make so much noise I guess as well. they will get the hint and move on. I doubt everyone ever has given out candy and it shouldn't be mandatory thats for sure, that would be beyond silly. I like the idea of what you did when your kids were small, making the candy basket and bringing it to the school's fall carnival. That not only seems safer in these times but more fun to me in ways.
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
I think it is, so the kids won't bother the going to the house and the people in the house wouldn't be bothered too. it is kind of tiring always answering the door and saying there's no candy. it's not even compulsory right? Giving out candies..
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
I wouldn't bother to open the door then, no sense in telling them, no candy. They will get the message if no one answers the door.
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
In our country during this halloween season, we don't have that kind of trick or treat tradition. I want to see kids that knock on the door while having a halloween costume. I think that is kinda fun. And even me myself, I wanna experience that trick or treating thing. Happy halloween my friend.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
I hope someday you will be able to experience it, it was fun when i was a kid. In those days we never worried to much about hurricanes and things like that. We just never got them, I worry what it will be like 20 more years from now. So much worse with the weather. I truely think the world will almost come to an end eventually in some parts of the world but not all.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
1 Nov 12
I'm not living in a country that does Halloween, but I think everyone has the right not to celebrate a holiday... especially as it consists of buying loads of candy to give out, which not everyone can afford in these economical situation... and I understand that someone would save this money for more sensible things. I think this light/no light thing could/should be a signal of whether these people hand out candy or not... or some kind of Christmas light-like decoration, like pumpkin lights... because yes, there may be a child there, who would always cry bc of the doorbell, oir who just couldn't sleep...
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
I agree, there are plenty of tough times out there for everyone. The rich and poor alike anymore, no one is left out of it. If you can't give out candy the lights should be off, it is what makes the most sense to me too.
• United States
1 Nov 12
I don't think that people should put out a no candy sign, it's better to just have all the lights out. The usual thing around here is if the lights are out it means no candy and that's well and good, all people don't hold with the Halloween tradition. In the areas that was torn by Sandy, where Halloween was canceled, I think it would be a nice gesture if people would try to organize something for the kids. Kids have a different mindset than adults and having some type of Halloween thing for the kids would help take their minds off of what is happening. All of our prayers here are going out to everyone that has been effected by Sandy. God bless all of you.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
Yes, i agree. The sign might go unoticed in the dark anyways. Unless it lights up but then you have to spend money to buy the sign, blah. TY for the prayers by the way, that was very nice of you. We're all doing our best to help and stay calm. God Bless.
@jdalaqui (1073)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
Hi NailTech. I don't know about that giving candy thing during halloween because we are not really participating in halloween things. Anyway, I think we must give out candy's to our neighborhood if we have to gain more friends.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
I don't think it is about gaining friends, that is not how it works. It is just a personal preference and also a safety precaution for some, nowadays depending on the area where you live.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
1 Nov 12
Personally I love kids and I think they look adorable in their cute little costumes. I have no issues with spending a few bucks on candy once a year just to make them smile. I think that as many people as possible should feel the way I do and give out candy but not everyone shares my viewpoint. I know some people are against Halloween so I don't expect them to hand out candy. Also there are a lot of people pinching pennies these days with how the economy has been. Its very possible not everyone can afford enough candy to hand out. Either way I respect their decision to not participate.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Nov 12
Yes me too, but there are the bigger "kids" and others that go around and not be so nice possibly even wanting to do harm or act like jerks, etc. They are rare but I have elderly people in the house here with me. You can get candy cheaper in the dollar stores anyways so it won't cut into the budget very much, too.
@garson (884)
• United States
12 Nov 12
In a natural disaster situation like Hurricane Sandy or when there might be an impending hazard or danger, it is reasonable to cancel trick or treating activity. You might also read that New York marathon was cancelled. How many would think of running in a marathon if possible participants are affected? Some years ago, I had to tell the kids that I didn't have any. I wasn't thinking about buying candies at the time since I don't eat much candy myself. Also, the area where I live in was mostly occupied by college students. Some kids may be disappointed, but they just have to move on. There will always be places/houses that would treat them during this time. The last two years I live in a gated community, I figure I better prepare some candies before Halloween night. This year, all my candies are gone. When the candies were gone, I turned off the light. There was no more knocking since then. Some people may be in a different situations like they have illness, they are very broke (really can't afford to just spare money for candies), or they have activities somewhere that may not relate to Halloween or trick or treating. In this situation, it might be reasonable to put a sign or to have lights off completely.