Tips on long distance relationship

Philippines
November 10, 2012 5:49am CST
Does anyone here can give me some points to maintain a healthy relationship in a distance? Thanks
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7 responses
• India
10 Nov 12
Hi friend, Both trust and communication plays an important role in our life as well as relationship. We need both of them to maintain a good relationship for a long time. Trust and understanding will form a good relationship. Some times we are in need to miss our beloved ones due to various reasons like job, study purpose, going to abroad and so on at this kind of time we must have a proper trust about them as well as communicate with them using the technology items. In a long distance relationship communication is very important, since we are missing our beloved one and have a lot of trust and faith with them and interested in keeping touch with them to get their updates and share about our present status with them. The modern technology items like internet, cellphone and other gadgets will help us as a great intermediate and communication tool between us and our beloved persons. It is very hard to imagine a life without communication, since it is playing an important role to keep our relationship for a long time. Trust is also very important in long distance relationship. As our beloved person is far away from us and we don't have the ability to see him/her by face to face due to the distance. We can see them virtually using this technology devices, but we can't see them directly. At this kind of time, we must surely have a lot of trust and faith with our beloved person and believe them fully. If we are living far away from our beloved person, we must be loyal to them and fulfill their faith with our activities. Since we are committed, we must be loyal to the person whoever have trust with us to keep our relationship for a long time. In my opinion both trust and communication is having equal preference in long relationship. Without communication we don't know about the status of the person as well as without trust, it is hard to keep our relationship in a good manner.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
This is so comprehensive friend ! Your head is so full , what else can i say then , guess you said it here blow by blow. Learnt a lot from this comment.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
11 Nov 12
TIPS? I cannot be of much help. I never had one. Love the person unconditionally. If this time is really yours, nobody can break it.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
If you have full of fighting spirits,lots of stamina to avoid all kinds of temptations,keeps on thinking for your only one who was left also thinking only you,your dedication to your only love is everlasting,you only see others as friends and acquaintances,you must have strong self control,you keep communicating each other in the internet,phone and and other sorts of telecommunications.If you can do all these things your relationship,even if long distance,could endure to have an ending happy marriage.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Those people who posted here first are right. You should be strong when you're in this kind of relationship, trust and understanding are the first two things you should always think about. Secondly, you have to be more open to each other to make your relationship more broader. I came from this kind of relationship, we're now married for five years and still my husband needs to work abroad. You have to talk to him every now and then, you should share what happened to you during the days or from the past few weeks. Right now, my husband and I have no secrets, thought sometimes we need privacy, but we have to share it to one another and surely your trust to each other will become more stronger than before.
@celticeagle (165773)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Nov 12
Long distance relationships are difficult at best. I think two people need to have a goal of seeing one another at a certain point so they don't lose heart and go else where or give up on the relationship. The relationship needs to be nurtured constantly with emails and chats, texts and phone calls. I think that hearing the other's voice is very important. If you never see the other and you don't touch or are close then the relationship will peter out into nothing. It needs constant attention.
@abby16 (1)
• Australia
10 Nov 12
communication...The last time I had a long distance relationship it didn't work well only because we don't have a strong communication..Even how big your love is, communication will still play a good role on your relationship..Always let him/her know how you feel..
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
if your in long distance relation what you need to make your relation work is trust and communication and also visiting each other twice a year if posible then plan the future to be together