result of midterm

@indahfth (11164)
Indonesia
November 17, 2012 10:32am CST
Today, I came to my son's school, to accept the results of midterm. And the result, it is very disappointing. The results of midterm my son very badly. I am very sad and disappointed. my husband scold my son. I do not know what to do. I'm pity, saw my son crying, because it was scolded by my husband.
8 responses
@zandi458 (28115)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 12
How old is your son? I think scolding a child for poor exam result is not the best way to motivate a child. Children need pacifying words so he can do better in future. The learning progress of each child differs. He may be a slow learner but would pick up pretty fast once he is in higher standard n school. But you should keep monitering and encouraging him so he would strive harder in class.
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@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 12
Yes. You are right. I also always try to do that. But sometimes, I became lost patience in the face of my child's misbehavior.
@zandi458 (28115)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 12
Just be patient. Kids are kids. They will outgrow their mischievious characters soon.
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 12
Hopefully, I can teach my child patiently. I will support, so my son has a passion for learning.
@mychattime (1013)
17 Nov 12
I am guessing midterm is the same as school report or parents evening. Maybe you should sit down and talk to your son and find out if he has worries about school and why he is not doing very well. Good luck
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@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 12
Yes. I've done it. But my husband, always scold my child. It made ??me confused. I'm trying to make my son, not too depressed, because scolded by my husband.
@bellis716 (4802)
• United States
19 Nov 12
The thing to do is determine where his weakness lies and get hIm help in that field. He is still young. Perhaps you can help hIm at home.
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 12
Yes. I help my child to learn. Sometimes, I lose patience, if my son did not immediately understand the subject matter. Now, I am trying to be more patient.
@bellis716 (4802)
• United States
22 Nov 12
You are being a good mother.
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 12
I'm trying to be a good mother.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 12
Indah, don't worry too much. Every problem sure have a way to solve it. Since it is still midterm, you still have time to guide him to study better. Why don't you find someone who able to guide him to understand his studies better? Hope in the final term, he will get much better result. By the way, he is in what level at this moment? Good luck to your son...
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 12
I can not afford to pay people to teach my son. Now, I am trying to teach my son. My son now 4th grade.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 12
It is good to hear that you are spending some time to teach your son. Everyday, i do spend some time into teaching my son, when i am free. At least, he won't be in confusion when he is studying in school.
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 12
I try my best to teach my son.
@Shavkat (115126)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
I know what is coming from, it is really difficult to see a child with such pain. Schooling was really a tough one for kids. Not all of them can grasp the thimgs they needed to learn.
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 12
Yes. I also understand that. However, if the results are very bad, frustrating. If others can, why my son can not.
@Shavkat (115126)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
I understand my dear friend. Why don't you try to enroll your son for tutorial services. Good day!
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 12
I do not have the money for it. So I have to be patient, to teach my son.
@gaiza12 (4885)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Sorry to hear that. My brothers also do get lower grades even failing grades and my dad always scold them. But, they never cry maybe because they are know that scolding is only a way of showing that my father cares for them and their future. I understand your husband and I'm sure he knows what he is doing. Just try to be the good mother and let your son understand that what your husband is doing is for his own good.
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 12
I try to be a good mother to my son. I tried my best to give an explanation to my son about my husband's anger. For now, my son can understand, even though my son was scared to my husband.
@ifa225 (11092)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 12
I am so sorry to hear this Indah the more your husband scold him the more your son antipathy with his subjects you can use internet as the media to study in fun way try to teach with games it is a lot easier for him to remind the subjects
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 12
I have to make fun learning. But, I do not know, how to create a fun learning
• United States
18 Nov 12
When my children were showing they were having a hard time with school learning I felt that I was also failing them. So I came up with something that in time helped and my children all started having better attitude and grades. What I did was made sure that when they came home from school, they would get a nice good snack, not chips n dip, instead a jello or apple or something like that. After that then it was time to sit at the kitchen table for a minimum of one hour to go over what they did at school. Do homework that was assigned. If needed study for test together. One thing they had to learn was that I was not going to give them the answers. I would help direct them in how to find them, still they had to find them or figure out what it was. I did this with them everyday.. didn't matter it was like apart of the school schedule for everyone. I believe it helped them and me as well for I got to learn what they were doing and how I was able to help them learn what was being taught...
@indahfth (11164)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 12
I also have done, as you do. Maybe, I do not understand the desire of my son. I will try my best, I really hope, my husband and I, given patience.