Jealous I am
By mrshubert13
@mrshubert13 (200)
United States
November 23, 2012 7:01pm CST
Yes its true ive figured out that im jealous,some people call it insecure.well I get jealous over anything like im head over heels bout my dude and if he not paying me no attention I just snap.he be like why you so jealous.but then I dont know if its jealously or,anger that im feeling.like thanksgiving we go home to visit and its like gonna be our second thanksgiving together.i wanted it to be special so he tells me that he going to get edged up and play the game and come back so we can go with the family.i say ok we kiss and he leave.
So he left at 11:00am-3:00pm..so im like wtf man its a holiday and you gonna,try me like that.so he calls me and say im headed to you now bae but we gonna stop at my cousin crib first I say ok..35more mins go by om getting idk jealous and pissed my son and famoly like where your man at why he aint got here?so im like he on the way and etc so im stead of him comming I ended up comming to harlem and then seen him finally so we argue over it and he tell me wat u jealous about cause I went and ate at my cousin house im like are you kidding me so I dont know mylotters I just realized im very jealous
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Being jealous is normal in any relationship. But anything done in excess is not good. I think you need to control your feelings before you ruin your relationship by being jealous for no apparent reasons. Your man also has his own life outside your relationship. You should give him a bit space every now and then.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I think you've got a point there, too. So what should be really done is to communicate and not just shrug anything that comes between your relationship so you'll both know better which one irritates the other.
@mrshubert13 (200)
• United States
24 Nov 12
True and I agree totaly with you but im tge one who wants space but he perfer me to be close he says he like my company and im fun to be around but I know me when I cant get space I start a arguement to have space but on a holiday thats not right he could have handled that better right
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I can relate to you , i am also a very jealous type of person . To anything that is connected to him is i am jealous. I know i am not insecure but i am just jealous. Maybe it is because i am very very possessive and obsessive to him. He is already suffocated as it is the cause of our fight but i don't care , i will really tell him that i got jealous with that thing. Yes , i know too much of this is unhealthy already that is why i need to tame myself. I don't want to be jealous but it is really my nature , so it just came out unconsciously. Hope in later life you and me can modify ourselves.
@mrshubert13 (200)
• United States
25 Nov 12
I so totally agree with you like even when I try not to be jealous I just can't help it that's whea my heart at
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hello Mrshubert, I don't know what to say about it, probably it's in the feeling that you have. better have it check with a professional because ordinary people can't explain even though it's your hubby or your family. sometimes we need to be happy and contented of what we have instead of getting jealous of something we can't explain.
@mrshubert13 (200)
• United States
24 Nov 12
I hear you but I dont know bout professional counsling etc
@david223 (17)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
Maybe you are jealous or maybe you are tired of not having people care about you feelings or your plans. There must be someone in your family or one of your friends that can introduce you to someone nice who will be there for you and won't make you think that there is always something wrong. Or that you are always wrong.
@mrshubert13 (200)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Yes so true but Im not looking for no one else im about to be his wife I was just tryin to see if im wrong on my point of view cause yeah im not perfect but you would think after all the pain ive been through and told him about with me he would understand my feelings
@superlativicious (51)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
you have the right to be jealous, because he promised that he will spend time with you but ended up doing something else. tell him that time is gold and if he cant reach the time he promised he should have told you. and at the first place you should have told him that you really want to spend time with him and that you want to make it special, maybe he would have gave more effort in being on time.
@mrshubert13 (200)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment but yes I agree and I thought I told him enough before we even got back to our home town but I guess I just need to suck it up and let it go
