Have you ever decided your just going to stay out all day?

Well 2:20p. to 6:30p. is popular being at home time for sure. lol Sounds like you have several interests. You like to shop, stay away from home, go to McD's, and are having marital problems. Those interests will get you a better wardrobe, and a divorce. Glad you had a nice day and i think you should do it more often.

The only time both me and my husband where out all day long together. We have never spend a day to just each of us alone but the one time all day out long by ourselves was a few months back when I was on bed rest. My husband took me on a car ride pretty much all day since I can walk he just took me around town to see things.

yeah, there are times that i would really want to stay out all day. i sure do feel that there are just times i do not want to stay at home and just be out and be care free.

Sad to hear that you are having issues with your husband. I understand that being a wife and mother is not easy- and sometimes husband do not understand that wives also needs sometime for themselves- to relax, unwind inshort...day off.

It is good to have some time to ourselves for ourselves. Time to just chilled out and do the things we want. I did that once. Going to the mall and doing window shopping, dine my favorite food, going to watch movie etc. It is good to have this occasionally.

I think it is good that you decided to have some time for yourself ' a day out '. This will let go some stress and doing the things that you have been wanting to do all this while. Personally I have not done that. However, I do go for some seminar talk on my own.

I am glad you got to have a day out for yourself. Everyone needs that sometimes, no matter who we are. I bet it was a shock for your husband but maybe he will be quiet about you having no interests now. It's good that he now knows that you can find things to do by yourself. =) I hope you had a nice day.

I haven't done that, but I really wish I had. I was in exactly the same boat as you. He told me he shouldn't have to give up one evening a week for me to get out of the house if I wanted because I didn't have a planned activity. I accepted that and just got angry. All I wanted was time to go to my room and read a book or take a nap. Or maybe leave the house and be by myself a while. I didn't want to enroll in a class or go to the gym. He was never at home, he was retired, and I worked full-time. Ended in a divorce. I just don't think the way I handled it was appropriate. I'm sure he'll be angry, but, OK. He'll also find out he lived. He might have even had a good time. I think what's important now, if you want to salvage your relationship, is to open a dialogue with him about the day. He needs to know exactly how you feel. You need to tell him what you did and how it made you feel. He needs to know how you feel about being able to accomplish something on your own. More importantly, he needs to know how you feel differently now. Having time to yourself doesn't just feel good in the moment. It's rejuvenating. You're ready to start fresh at home with your daughter. I'm sure he will have thoughts to share with you, too. Try to listen openly, but hold your ground. You NEED time to yourself. You don't just want it.