I am tired and bored by hearing the word MONEY..!!!!!!!!

@Dassodils (2010)
India
November 30, 2012 11:46am CST
Hai dear friends.. do you have such feelings?? In my home, My mom and dad always quarrel in the case of money.Now a days the income that comes in my home is low.So my mom ask this to my dad.Then the quarrel begins. Now I am familiar with that situation.But after that when I go to college, the people in college calls me to office by saying that to pay pending fees.It is really harassing me..I can not face this situation..And now,before some days,My brother asks me the money that I borrowed from him for a need.I know that I have to give him the money back.I will. But now I am helpless to give him the money.He always asks me that.I am now in a mental stage..How to earn some cash suddenly??? What do you think about this?? Replies please..
13 responses
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
You need your friends this time. Call any of your closest friend and borrow money from them. You should be strong by now. Almost all of the people the problem is about money because it is inefficient with day to day living.
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
3 Dec 12
Thank you Kokomo and Superbadx..I thought about this thing. I can buy some money from them.that is cool..But I have no any job to give them back that money.I know that my friends are suffering also by these types of things..
• Malaysia
1 Dec 12
Well, solving a problem by creating a new one isn't solving. I think she should work harder like a part time job. Even it is hard, you have to do it since everything nowadays is about money. You pay for your study half of your entire life so you can work and pay for the money you use for your study or your kids study fees. Sometimes, when i'm thinking about it, i just think life is not for me.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
3 Dec 12
Hi Da, We cannot blame anyone and to realise the facts and situations. Of cousre, there are millions of families having quarrels and problems with money. Some are really luck to have enough money for their needs, but unfortunately, majority of our population is not even have the income to meet their basic requirements. Our administration and political situations become bad to worse and nothing we can do, but needs to tollerate. In such a situation we have to PLAN properly with what we have and try to make a proper balancing with our family income. As I said earlier, all are not alike and everyone's background is totally different. Some are having only one person's income and with a huge family. Some have salary income, and other source of income and more than one earning member at homes. Many people have fixed income and many are not. Also, people make a lots of profits through business and even making loses through higher competion and less marketing positions. Here, what I can suggest you is that you can look for some part time job. However, I don't know where in Kerala. If you are in Kochi, or living certain places like cities, you can try for the same. I think you are from Tellicherry? True? No? Any way, I am not sure on which course you are currently placed also. But as being a girl, you can try some private tuitions which have a better scope in these days. If can get few children around your house, and can able to manage with a better teaching method and with an open mindedness with a nominal rate of fees, you can easily make some extra money for your personal needs and even one of my friend's daugher (from Calicut) is doing the same. She also studying in college and used to make 2-3 thousnad a month and it is really a good earning for her. So, for your situation, if you are capable and having confidence in yourself, try to teach maths, Eng. and whichever subjects that you can manage for student from 3-4-5 stds. and you can fix a better timing with your college time and student's convenient times. Also, you may be awere that in these days each and everything got higher prices and it is very hard to manage a family life with nominal income. Everyone's contribution and family member's co-operation and understanding is the only solution to lead a peaceful family atmosphere around. Howlong we can quarrel and make your mom to understand that your dad got only limited income and there is no other source income. Mom, dad, yourself, grand mother, brother (I don't anymore) is living in your family. I am with a 4 member family and having 50 thousand salary everymonth and I am still finding difficulties at the end of the month to manage things. So a family with more members and less income may find difficulties and everyone's cooperation is a must. You may please try some hope in the areas where I have mentioned above and make a best dedicated effort for the same and hope you can sustain your problems without much trouble. Best regards.
• India
7 Dec 12
Hi, thanks for your compliments. But all what I said is from my sincere thinking and from experience and for your better understanding. I think I have done my best with all friends here in myLot and that is why we all got a nice group of friends here for all time. As now you are in college and busy with studies, please concentrate more on it as this is the best time in life for enjoyment and at the same time require more self content as well. Life in these days are much challenging and the moments what we losing every day never come back and the CURRENT time around us is really precious and make use or utilise properly IN TIME and that is what we want to do now. I not make you much of boring and pray for your good studies and hope your grand-mother is keeping well and regards to your brother too....
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
5 Dec 12
Oh my god..........Thank youu.... for such great reply...I will try my best to follow your words..That was really touching and helpful to me..I also want your advices in next all discussions..Because you are doing or replying very sincerely to solve my problem..I will be thankful to you..Once again Thank you..
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
you never get rid of money out of life my friend. It is going to be an issue for the rest of your life. You will seldom find a chance for you to earn instant money. You need to work hard to earn it.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
3 Dec 12
I will try my best to make money..But now I feel very boring on hearing this type of talks.. :(
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
but work is actually an issue concerning money.
@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 12
Well, of course yes. Nowadays money is everything, and don't ever denied it that love or some other stuff are more important. You don't have money, your life will be miserable, and if you have tons of it, you are living in the living earth heaven. for your problem, well just think of a way to get the money fast since i myself would not lend money and takes ages for the person to pay back since most people would just forget about it and say that they never lend money from me. But before getting the money, beg him and state the exact time you can get the money.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
5 Dec 12
Yaa.. but now I hope to get some money soon to help my parents or to solve some problems.What can I do??
• Malaysia
7 Dec 12
In my opinions, you should solve your problems first before helping your parents since without solving your problem, you may involve you parents into it. Good Luck.
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
It's a sad yet inevitable truth. Money, indeed, is a decision factor and people have to deal with this thing day by day. There are pros and cons of money that people know but choose to be naive of. It destroys family, relationships,friendship and the likes. But no matter how we deal or shun money out of our lives, it's impossible. We simply need it.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
5 Dec 12
Yaa.. I know that money is essential to lead a better life.But now I am helpless in my family to solve problems.. :(
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
in the first place, it is a domestic problem that only them can solve..we may contribute to the solution but it would be better if they will solve it heart to heart since we really don't know whats the reason behind those arguments, if it is just because of the money alone?or there is something else that aggravates the issue, only your parents can answer that one.. In your part, I don't know how do you deal with your lifestyle or your family's lifestyle, so i cannot give a piece of advice that may fit to your current situation.. I think it would be better if you could describe more the lifestyle you are in right now...maybe I can give you a better advice next time, if you'll do it..:)
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
5 Dec 12
we are a a middle class family and living a simple life.We are not leading a luxurious life.but till god is testing me..I do not know the reason..But I will not come down on god.There will have any objective on gods side by doing these things..Thank you..
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
You don't need to thank me... As i can see, you are doing your best to solve things up.. Just like what u are doing right now, you are generating an income and in that way, you are already making even a lil step to solve your problem.. Therefor, you just need to keep it up, don't be consistent but you should aim high..don't be contented, be ambitious.. There is absolutely nothing wrong for being an ambitious person.. it can rather help you to have your goals be realized...trust me! :)
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
hi, i am so thankful because at home i never heard that from my parents even when i was a kid,my mother are very good in handling of money,even my my father was a public Jeep driver before,that is why now even their child never fight because of money.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
30 Nov 12
I so feel the same. I understand money is important, but I'm so fed up hearing about it... especially if I am broke. I'm so fed up when I have to pay something but I have to delay and I have to borrow it, I HATE borrowing money, I feel so humiliated.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
30 Nov 12
Yaa...true.All are need money.If we have some money, the people will be there with us.If not it will be vice versa.life is filled with money.May god bless you dear friend
• India
7 Dec 12
Hi friend, money is one of the essential thing in our life, it is really hard to live without it. We are hearing the name of money in our day to day life, most of us are working hard to earn it. Every one is searching for the instant way to make a good income, but our hard work, dedication and patience only help us to make a good income based on our dedication.
@Ahana123 (139)
• India
1 Dec 12
Every body wants money is life & we cant go without it.You can try out for some summer jobs/ part time jobs if possible . Since you are a college student you can earn some money by helping your juniors /school children in their studies.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
3 Dec 12
Oh..that is a good idea..I will try to implement your ideas in my next works...Thank you...
1 Dec 12
Yes I am sick of hearing about it also,some people I no judge their happiness and well being on the possessions and gadgets they can afford to buy,which makes me sad as they are missing out in my opinion on the bigger picture of life. There is a lot more to life than money but I also understand how important stability is and it is money which provides this.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
3 Dec 12
Ya.. most people believe this theory.Money is everything.But I had seen many people who live in a good condition with out having many problems.Pieceful mind is essential for a life. Especially fr parents who lead life.Thank you
@nani4ajay (108)
• India
1 Dec 12
Dear friend your in a hard situation I hope you will come out of the situation as early as possible, the important thing is you should not be depressed, keep faith in that you will face the problem, yes money is the necessary to live happily, so try to find out new ways to earn money. In my childhood I too faced this kind of family problems, I feared to goto home after my tuition because their continues quarrel. now we are leading a happy life. so there will be good days in your life keep hope in this. thanks for this discussion.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
5 Dec 12
Thank you so much dear fried for sharing your experience.. Me too hope soo.. but.. I fear about thinking the days in my home.. some times I feel that I am mad. I worry about that If I will become mad suddenly..?? May god bless you.. Thank you..
@rasinda (18)
• Italy
29 Jan 13
poor people like us we have big problem is money,so i think every time we have we must do something earn money,doing job or part-time,also we are doing now e-money,if we have free time we have to do anthing we can.But problem is we canot earn money suddenly,if you have to ask someone better.