how does your husband behave when unwell?

My husband doesn't act that way when sick. Though when he is sick i show him my concern by cooking soups and food that he may like. I attend to whatever he may need but he don't act like a baby. Me and my husband acts accordingly, even in our daily chores. We help each other by looking after ourselves. But when we are sick that's the time we assist each other in things we can't because we're sick.

he starts acting crazily and also quite weirdle all the time and playing all the time,its kind of strange also

When my ex-husband and I were married and he got sick, he pretty much just rested and left me alone. He didn't get annoying or babyish. The first time I kind of babied him on my own. Bringing him hot soup, cool cloths and blankets and staying close by. I thought it was a normal thing for a wife to do. He was very appreciative,however. Probably the only time he was every grateful of anything I did. Only bad thing is when the wife gets sick we are on our own. When I got sick the first time around him, I was like "I don't feel good" *pout* Then he tells me, "Oh suck it up!" Well, lets just say that is the last time I ever took care of him when he was ill again.

Wow it is weird because in my mind when a husband getting ill then he should be more calm and peace because the man is the support of a family if the man like a baby then others will feel scare and worry about him.

There are men like that when they are sick.Some even cannot handle problems. They don't want problems. They just want happy things around. I think it is quite immature. Have a nice day!

i am a husband. when i do not fell will ,i will keep silience ,sometimes I Will have a fit of temper. but anytime there is not any voilence.

Not at all. My husband is mature, and he knows how to deal with it. Neither one of us turns into a baby when sick.

Dear Pomwango, thanks a lot for your nice discussion! I am a husband at the same time I am a Stud Vet also by profession, dealing with sick horses all the time apart from my routine! So I understand how difficult is for to manage a sick horse or sick person for that matter. So normally I don't become fussy and try to attract the attention of my wife if I am sick. I try to come out of the situation as early as possible by having suitable medication at appropriate time and also by following a regular routine during that time. Though my wife is very caring along with my son, I never want to put them into trouble because of me! But then I know many people who want all the attention from their spouses when they are sick! My brother in law is one such person. Whenever he is sick he behaves as if he is a kid and he tries to grab all the attention of my sister towards him and he behaves like a like a Kid then. Though my sister understands this and she co operates fully, I think she also must be getting irritated at some point of time! I think some people have the habit of grabbing all the attention to hem selves and falling sick is the best opportunity for such people and they avail this opportunity to fullest extent! I think in your case also same thing is happening! To look at the positive side of it, this indicates that your husband he loves you and likes you very much and he never wants to share your love and attention with others. So when ever he gets an opportunity he is there to grab your acre and attention! I feel you are a lucky lady to have such a husband! God bless you all! Thanks for the lovely discussion I liked participating in it!

I feel that there have been a few times where my husband has made a fuss when he has felt ill, or been sick, but men are human after all and I feel that some of my husbands illness was due to the fact that he was stressed. I do think that men when they are ill make the most of it, unlike a woman that try to keep that smile on her face no matter how she is feeling.

My husband was always supportive of me even when I we as not feeling my best. he would do anything to make ne feel better if he could. your spouse should be the one person there for you. it hurts the relationship when you feel they are lettng you down.

That is so cute. My boyfriend is like a sick baby too whenever he's not feeling well. I feel like I'm obliged to be extra caring to him. It annoys me sometimes because I think his acting like a kid. But after awhile I will just realised that it is just his way to feel loved.