how to survive from a breakup

China
December 18, 2012 8:13am CST
Even the most friendly breakup will sting, you can mourn for it, you can sob, punch a pillow, you can do anything you want, but you need to keep in mind that everything has its limit,every cross the limit. Or you can ask support from your friends, i believe they will listen to you and comfort, they can help to fill void which brought by the breakup. Besides, you can refocus on something you are interested and keep on it. The most important is that you must believe that the reason you meet the wrong people is that you are still waiting for the right one.
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@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
Break ups is not easy as we think when we are not on the situation. It hurts, make us cry, sometimes it ruins our life. But if we think it deeper and accept the reality and face it, it will be bit easy. Just divert your attention to something more productive. Talk about with with trusted friends and cry if you want to cry. No easy break ups though, the healing and moving on process always hard.
• China
19 Dec 12
we must believe that there are still someone who is waiting for us. slow down,everyone will have happiness.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Dec 12
easy... move on. There is always someone good out there for you. Just, move along and keep living life. You will find that great person for you. Im sure of it. Good luck to you. Im sure youll get through this break up. merry xmas to you.
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• China
19 Dec 12
yes,breakups are not that horrible if we deal with it seriously. may you are happy everyday.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
18 Dec 12
You need to remain true to your own heart in the breakup of any relationshi. breaking up can be a harried tasl and having something to keep you strong is worth striving for.
• China
20 Dec 12
yes, you are absolutely correct, breakup can make us be mature.
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
18 Dec 12
I don't think that any break up is easy. All you have to think about is that everything happens for a reason. If you weren't meant to be together then fate will make sure of it. You also need to think that there are over 7 billion people in the world and that, that one person you just broke up with isn't your last chance to find your true love. It will all work itself out in the end. Whether it happens in a year, or ten years. You just have to be patient or else you will find yourself unhappy in the end.
• China
19 Dec 12
yes,breakups are not easy ,that is why we are sad about them. merry Christmas.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
18 Dec 12
It is very hard to deal with a breakup. When we have experienced something as hard as this it is important we give ourselves time to adjust to the change. Just like with many other things we need time. We have to be able to know ourselves and what we really want out of life.
• United States
20 Dec 12
Yeah it is important for us to be positive. That will help us to view things the right way. We may meet the person sooner than we think. Hope things are going well for you. Have a good evening.
• China
19 Dec 12
although it is hard to get through breakup, we still can be positive and believe that our Mr. right is waiting for us.
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@Manasha (2727)
• Pondicherry, India
21 Dec 12
Never ever worry about the break up in your life as we are all human beings , not holy creature that is eternal. So, everything is temporary.
• China
21 Dec 12
yes, we should also thank for the wrong relationship let us free to meet the best ones.merry christmas and have a happy new year, and the most important, may you have a good relationship in your life
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
18 Dec 12
Yes these are absolutely right. It is easy to mend a broken heart if the person accepts the fact that they are not meant to be. Crying will do a lot of help, but it has to end too. otherwise, the person in despair of love could just feel self pity and so on....
• China
19 Dec 12
yes,we can cry, we can be sad, but we need to have confidence in our heart. merry Christmas.