Do you find that certain people irritate you to no end?

I am hoping neither are me that your talking about! I do whine on here a bit, lol because MyLot is my personal outlet or journal per se. So, I really hope its not me... Anyway, I have one that is especially rude to me constantly here. If she keeps it up with her rudeness I am just going to ignore her comments all together. She does it in a way where there is nothing to report but you know she is being mean on purpose. Ugh. I don't like these kind of people at all. I am generally a nice person so I don't like people who are rude just to be rude! I hope you don't leave! I love seeing you around here and I love your responses to my discussions! So, don't let the few who annoy you take you away from others who love you being here!!

People that are offensive can be reported. Because that doesn't fit in MyLot's policy. About the second person: you could try to kindly point out how you feel. I don't know if you can block people here? Good luck and happy MyLotting!

There was a user like that and I found her annoying, then I just chose to either ignore her or occasionally overwhelm her with kindness. Turns out she had some cheating issues and is gone now. I would have to go review some of the things you have posted to see who it is and why they are annoying. In general, I would say please do not leave, I enjoy your discussions, and responses, and if possible, ignore that person or persons. I have some I can only handle in small doses and so avoid them a large part of the time. That includes people on here.

You don't have to leave mylot for them. I would never do that co's mylot is giving me opportunity to earn. Just ignore those people. Actually that just what I did a few weeks back. There were people who commented on my post like they're scolding me or something. There was this one time when someone commented on mine comments as if she or he was yelling at me. I commented back and asked what's wrong with him or her, hahahha. The admin ended up deleting that post. I never thought if would happen co's if I did I probably just let it be. hahaha. So.. I say it again ignore them if you could! :) happy day.

Hmm...first I had to ask myself if I was one of those users! I find a few users on here to be annoying, and after seeing their comments or posts, I get kinda heated and answer other posts defensively. I really need to work on that, because I don't think it's worth it to be on here if I am getting upset over it. I've kinda stayed away from more serious posts because they attract certain people that I'd rather not deal with. Instead, I'll just enjoy discussing with nicer people about less controversial things.

Hi scorpiobabes. Well it almost seemed like it is me who is talking. I think we both have that same person in mind. Even I know a person here who keeps on crying about how problematic her life is. But when I give her advice or try to help her... I feel like I am talking to a bot. It is like my suggestions are invisible to her.. It really is irritating. So even I stopped replying to her discussions. Avoiding is the best thing we can do I guess. Have a nice day ... ~=SuperShames=~

Yes but no one here actually.. i can easily deal with things here but when it comes to the people around me like in the office i have those kinds of people and i am trying my best not to be affected by it. When i feel irritated i try to divert my mind and move on.

If I were you, I just would not comment on their answer. Imagine they are not there. It is worse when you have irritating people around you offline. There are some people that are friends of friends or family of family, that are very irritating. It is difficult to stay away from them at some occations, specially since it seems they seek a person to fight with

I know it is not me because I am "he", but your discussion attracted my attention because I also know here some people who starts there day to day discussion here, with some topics which totally look as cry for seeking the attention. I know it can happen to anyone that they seek the attention of the other sometimes but not all the time. It also happen to men also. Such users do not want to help them in real but it becomes their habit to cry and seek the attention. They are known as the "black hole" of attention. No matter how much you give them it will go in vain. I never waste my time with such people as far as possible, this is the only reason that I post here only in few discussions everyday, and only in those which really carry some topic in there.

I personally think we can never be pleased with everyone and there would always be people who would irritate you for no apparent reason. I mean this people annoy you because of their behavior but I had an experience before where I never really liked a person without any reason. i just don't like him. The moment I see his face, I just got irritated. I just try to act casual though. I think you could do the same for those people. Just ignore their comments. It's a skill--- ignoring people! LOL

I agree with you. I think that what you have decided to do is for the best. Try not to let them get to you. I know I have experienced this a few times. One time I had to ask the person not to reply to my discussions. That one always sought out religious discussions or topics and argued with the individuals about it. So I asked him not to reply to my topics if he was going to be argumenative. And I have had any problems since.

In my opinion, we entrusted our thoughts whatever the issue arises in the discussion. We may give advice or any suggestion to a certain scenario. I do think that some people may take it seriously or not. You just need to be yourself. For some, the piece of wisdom imparted to them will put against you. That is being ungrateful souls.

Do NOT go down to her level. If you agree, or even disagree with her comments, do NOT reply. Hopefully she'll get the message. I think that the important thing is not to engage to her on her level.

just let it happened, he/she will be boring someday, it's just temporary because he/she still 'hot' on this condition, day by day will be lay down by itself. For This time just response with positive one, take of the plus things from any comment or reponse, because with this, you can controlled yourself. Even, may be, the words that response on you are hard words, just forget it and like what i said, if you need to response on this, reponse with positive side (words).

there are those kinds of people, both in mylot and in real life.. our officemates! oh i sure can share something here about that, an officemate sometimes (i do love her) but she just annoys me when she starts to open her mouth and never stop.. she really is noisy and sure has a lot of energy to spare and would ridiculously laugh over small things, as if she really does deserve the attention, believe me a lot has reported her noise but to no avail. However, to relate to the topic, yeah, there are those users who can be annoying and pops in and out of your topics only to contribute empty responses. i have had one just yesterday in one of the topics i started... could you believe that this person typed and submitted nothing not a line of question marks (???? and so on). wow the nerve! i sure did not think twice and reported negative. He is by the way the first person i have ever rated negatively. I have been tolerant with people i come across with but i just lost my head because i felt that he could have just spared my discussion if he does not like it. Oh, to answer your question, though.. patience really is one of the factors, you can stop yourself from causing a scene or to any heated argument if you are able to be more patient and just let them be.