So you like to be pampered?

hello , that's really a different topic i have came so far.thanks for sharing this. In my life there were days when I was away from my family and even i use to fell that I should be pampered and loved by my family,But as they were far away from me so it didn't happen.fortunately i had a girlfriend who understood me and who use to take care of me,she was the one i was happy with and i never felt that i am alone. But as days passed i realized that its better to be independent as life in future would be too tough to deal with,since then i have never being dependent on anyone. Pampering is something when you are loved and understood by any of your friends and family members,when you do something wrong or right.when its right,its ok but when its wrong, I never want anyone to pamper and make me realize the mistake.My point of view is that if i am the one who did the mistake ,let me bare the consequences as it would be a lesson for me to deal with problems in future. take care raj india

I like being pampered , maybe because I am used to it during my childhood days. But as I grow up, I have learned to live an independent life and decision making at an early age. There are times that I still wish to be treated special especially with my friends and beloved family (but of course, I do not expect too much)

I have always been an independent one as well whenever i do tasks, at home here as i prefer to do things on my own - i would not have to tell someone what they need to do, etc. Of course there are times i would like to be pampered, to wake up and see food that is already cooked. :D ha ha

Oh yes...I have based my whole being on self reliance and independence. I had to. I am happy there though. I think that when I realized that if I wasn't to do it that no one would do it for me...it was a liberating moment and I took control of what I could in my life. Easy? No. Worth it? Absolutely.

Yeah a lot of the time we have to take the effort to pamper ourselves. Unless we have really attentive partner/spouse or family members. We ourselves know what we want and what will make us happy. So if we want for others to pamper us we can end up being very disappointed. I'm coming to appreciate this more and more. So I have started to do things that I enjoy more. I want to pamper myself. We deserve to do this every now and then. We work hard for ourselves and others. I hope to continue at this for along time to come since I have neglected this area of my life I need to make up for lost time.

Who doesn't like to be pampered? I get to pamper myself when not much but when I can, I want to have a good massage in a spa and when the budget permits, I wish to do hair treatments at a salon. Afer pampering, I feel refreshed, beautiful and recharged.

There is a lot of change in dad since last year. He seems to have realized that there were ulterior motives. This has made him more affectionate towards me, and he tends to over pamper me now. I am helping myself like a hungry person. I have never been pampered in my entire life!!! I dont want to miss out on this opportunity. I am liking it. I am liking the concern he shows when I go out. There were days when I returned home around midnight from my office to have a cold meal. So that you understand why I like to be pampered. :)

I never really was like that. My ex husband thought he needed to pamper me. He didnt. Really not my thing. I just like my mate to be there when I need him is all. Happy new years to you there. See ya here soon.

Well upto a point pampering is ok, but beyond a limit it will result in losing the confidence of the person who is being pampered and may even result in depressions in later life. Or maybe when the person is on his own he may not be able to pamper himself to his likings and may turn to crime to fulfill his illusions.