Does That Make Me A...

Valdosta, Georgia
December 31, 2012 8:16pm CST
Stalker??? I admit it, I have stalked one person here...okay maybe 2 or 3 people but that's it I swear! And I didn't realize I was being a stalker until recently, lol...I am so curious I just cannot help it sometimes! My curiousity gets the best of me at times. I am not a stalker in real life I promise! But on MyLot, yeah I am definitely a stalker. Have you ever stalked anyone here? **This is meant as a FUN discussion**
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
1 Jan 13
My name is JenInTn and I am a professed stalker of interesting people and topics. I just can't resist them.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
1 Jan 13
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
is there an AA meeting going on around here?............... *Stalking, And Other Addictions*
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
Nice to meet some of the same kind as me... I'm sure we will meet again...
@robspeakman (1700)
1 Jan 13
I think it is perfectly natural to be interested to a point that may jokingly referred to as stalking - I have been guilty of this too. Is this an extension of your Mylot Crush post?
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
ok rob, if you are going to make references to interesting posts, kindly provide the link? oh bye the way..............
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
awww what a sweet little stalker !!!! thank you *goes off to read post*
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
Did y'all enjoy your read??? You never came back... Well Rob: It's a discussion kind of like the crush one, but I stalk a lot of people here actually...But I do stalk the Lamb the most! Ha!
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jan 13
I stalk anybody who has interesting discussions....
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
I stalk a rare few only...don't wanna seem too weird. Lol.
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• Philippines
1 Jan 13
dawn is definitely one of them
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jan 13
(smiling)
• United States
1 Jan 13
How do you define mylot stalking? If you check their discussion on a regular basis and respond to a few, or if you hound their every mylot-move? There are a few users who I check the discussions of and if I find some that I want to reply to, then I do. But I really hope that doesn't qualify as stalking. I don't feel like a stalker when I do it... The only user I 'hound the every mylot move' of is my sister. I'm the mylot veteran and she's the newbie, I gotta make sure she's being a good mylot citizen!
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• United States
1 Jan 13
Ah yes. I can see that. Well I suppose as long as none of your 'stalkees' feel threatened by you and the stalking is reserved exclusively for mylot, then I don't think it's all that bad. If you followed people around in the real world... yeah that'd be eight levels of creepy.
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
MyLot stalking is when you constantly follow them around, check out their profiles all the time, etc... You know, the typical stalker, except here. Lol. I do feel like a stalker...but thats because I am a stalker here! I hound a few people which is why I know I'm a stalker!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
They don't seem to mind! And no never in real life, that would be creepy! Well I would stalk the Lamb in real life, but don't tell him I said that.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
I guess, we get curious and interested to just follow a certain member because of the kind of posts that he/she makes. And I am as well guilty of that. You are not alone, LovingMyBabies!
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• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Hi Jenny! Yeah, I think most of us can reflect with this one. It's just nice to stalk to mylotters who create great discussions!
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
I love stalking...but only on MyLot...
@Orson_Kart (6204)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 13
It looks to me like another one of those - Lamb gets a bit of Loving discussions lol I tend to follow a few around here. I'd not go as far as to say I 'stalk' anyone, rather that I show more than a tad of interest in them and their activities. You are a fun-loving gal and I am sure you cheer many a soul up here.
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
I've moved ON muahahaha *stalking behaviour is occasionally triggered by the of stalkee's unique avatar*
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• United Kingdom
1 Jan 13
It appears stalkers can appear out of nowhere!
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
It is not just Lamb that I stalk around here... Just saying! I will have you know I stalk a lot of people here...well not a lot...I mean just a few...oh well.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jan 13
hi LovingMyBabies I have followed a number of people i was c urioous about not to do harm just to find out more but I did respoond and comm ent often to them and they did become myfriends too. One and her dog Gissi will be in my heart forever as she is such a warm sweet lady and not really well and her little dog is a gem. Sheis now mostly on FaceBook. I too have never stalked anyone in r ule life.But I was stalked and almost killed by a young man emotionally disturbed who wanted to force me to marry him. Thank heave the c afe had two strong big waiters who pulled him off my throat. He later w ent to prison for amost killing another woman who refused his advances. lol.thats the unpleasant kind of stalker.
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@JohnRok1 (2051)
1 Jan 13
On MYLOT, Auntie???
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
Oh no, of course no harm intended! I have a few people that I stalk here...but only here and maybe on facebook I follow a certain one... Lol. Stalking in real life is very scary it happened to me one time also and it was not fun! Scared the mess out of me. I'm sorry you went through that too. Being stalked here is much less scary and a lot more fun!
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 13
A stalker by definition is a person who follows another person to trace his where about usually for ill intent. This is what I think so. But after checking on other myLotters' discussions I realize that is has other meanings, like peeking at other people responses. If that is the definition then I am also guilty of being a stalker too. I sometimes peek into other response before I response, not all the times.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 13
Oh, stalking here at MyLot is just fun! No harm intended at all... We are all about having fun around here with our stalking butts!
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Jan 13
You know, I really think that we are all stalkers to a certain degree when it comes to our activity on mylot. Seriously because for me, the vast majority of the discussions that I respond to are discussions that my friends have started on here and that does pretty much mean that I'm stalking my mylot friends so that I can add my own input to the discussions that they've started. However, being the kind of stalker that I am on here, I am not the kind of person that is slandering or intentionally hurting other people in any way. Instead, I'm stalking them to make them feel good.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 13
I agree we all stalk here now and then. No harm in it! I enjoy stalking...but it is exhausting work sometimes too! Phew!! Its just innocent fun kind of stalking-that's what I do too!
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
2 Jan 13
Sometimes you get friend requests totally out of left field that you wonder how this or that person ever thought of wanting to be your myLot friend. Or sometimes you get a very controversial response to a discussion which makes you very interested in knowing more about the person. I think these are the grounds that make me want to 'stalk' other people here on myLot. So, I'm guilty too.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 13
I miss you so much bounce! I barely ever see you anymore. =( And if your wondering...yes I have stalked you too
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@TeamCholent (2832)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Nope I can't say I have but then again I have not had that much time to spend here. The person you have been stalking noticed the stalk yet and fled or you managed to become friends?
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• United States
1 Jan 13
Lucky there is no profile viewer thing.
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
Which one? Lol, some of them know and some don't...
• United States
1 Jan 13
I guess I am too. There are a few people I like to follow. Gifts is one. She puts up lots of discussions and I can make a decent amount just commenting on her discussions. I like to follow you, and a couple other people. I don't care much about commenting on people I don't relate to.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
Lol, I think we are all a stalker of someone here. =) It's okay! Woohoo, you stalk me?!? Sorry I am excited to have a follower/stalker! I know I am in a silly mood, I will be okay tomorrow again...maybe and I swear I have not drank a thing! Lol.
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@ShyBear88 (59308)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 Jan 13
Hmm good question, I don't know. I probably have and I just don't know it. Some times I think on here I have stalkers but I call they are just found of me and like to fallow what I have to say and that is it. If it gets to too personal then yeah I think they are stalking and me and it creeps me out but I have a lot of friends that like to fallow my discussions that it. I fallow a lot of people in there discussion especially if we have a lot of things in common.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
I think we have all done it a time or two. That is what a MyLot stalker is, they stalk us for our amazing discussions...or because we are cute! Either is okay with me!
@ShyBear88 (59308)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 Jan 13
Yep!
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Jan 13
I think I am sometimes as well. I have a few members here. I love their posts. I go right after them, as soon as I see them here. Are you one of mine? Happy new years... See you here next year. Bright and shiney eyed as always...
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
Yeah there are some that I definitely do stalk here. Lol. I have stalked ya a time or two, See you next year! Let's hope its a good one with a lot of stalking going around!
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• Mexico
1 Jan 13
Lets hope its a great year for everyone here, If we all get together it will be. Take care there. See you soon.
@BarBaraPrz (46024)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
1 Jan 13
Hmmm... who could it be? Someone with a wooly coat? Baaad girl!
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
EVERYONE stalks HIM at some point int their mylot career he has some powerful charisma I think he would do well on American Idol or America's Got Talent
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
oooooh a philologist a little of both' I suspect
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
career? no wonder you have to work real hard to reach payout! wikipedia says "the term charisma has two senses: 1) compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others, 2) a divinely conferred power or talent." hmm... which is which?
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Jan 13
I have never stalked anyone here its kinda hard to find people unless they are on my friend list are start discussion of my interest . I see people stalked me on other social network such as facebook though . Good for you to admit it lol , now I wonder why you stalked those 3 people .
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 13
You have to start stalking around here! It is so much fun. I stalked more than 3 people, haha! They don't mind though...at least thats what they told me...
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
1 Jan 13
I stalk people here and on Facebook. I do it for fun,too. I don't do it anywhere else. I did have a stalker on Mylot about two years ago who stalked me for like 6 months. If I have that problem again I am do more to do something about it! I didn't before and went through hell! that won't happen ever again!
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
sorry, blue, but the correct 'visit discussions' term on facebook is 'creep' on myot, its 'stalk'
@allknowing (131285)
• India
1 Jan 13
I do visit discussions, where I just read through but not participate. I visit profiles too. What's the big deal Loving..... myLot is an 'open book'
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
I'm only allowed 3 smilies per post but I'm laughing and laughing........
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
again, with the 'visit discussions' tell it like it IS mama!
@allknowing (131285)
• India
1 Jan 13
Now this is called stalking in the true sense of the word!! Am I not honoured!
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
1 Jan 13
What constitutes "stalking" as opposed to "getting to know"? I think it has something to do with 'shared intention' ... I know this is supposed to be a 'fun' discussion, but using the word "stalking" should indicate a more-serious accusation/confession. When I was involved with a couple of (I think) 'inappropriate' mini-churches--people who were kinda getting together 'in the name of Jesus' without paying any mind to the fact that I should be a more-respected pillar of His kingdom--my main intention there was to 'meet a woman' (which I went about a little 'wrong' because I do not have the usually wife-magnet men are taught that they need---an abundant income). Well, they weren't having that. These were people who had all that 'family-building'-stuff all taken care of at home and -who now wanted to 'participate in massive charities-etc. (like donating money to pay for water in Africa). So being there 'looking for a wife' while everyone else was 'looking to help raise funds' made me end up "pretty stalker-y."
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 13
"Stalking" here is not serious at all! It is FUN... I am not the creepy kind of stalker...its all just a matter of having fun.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Well, we stalk everyone on here to post on their discussion so if that makes us a stalker then have fun stalking. Whatever floats yer stalking boat, personally I'd rather stalk someone than be stalked but that is only me. Stalkingly true. Hmmm, now you've got me wondering what's in stalk for us all on mylot.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 13
I know I know! I think we are all stalkers around here! Lol, bunch of weirdos we are... I would not mind being stalked by some people here... Just saying!