Learning to tie a knot

My son first knots - The first few knots my son learned to tie
@kaka135 (14994)
Malaysia
January 1, 2013 12:57pm CST
My son is turning 4 two months later. He asked me to teach him how to tie a knot. At first, I was not sure how to teach him, I just used a tiny scarf I knitted for a doll to show him. I didn't expect he managed to learn it so fast. He tied a few knots with the scarf, and made a few knots into one. Finally, he managed to tie a knot.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Hello kaka. I'm surprised your son learned to tie such a knot o young. Usually their fingers are not nimble enough to get the knot tied. Usually little ones take long time to get good control of their finproud of him tooger to be able to tie knot so small But at the same time when they want to learn something nothing will stop them. A lot of kids don't learn to tie their shoes by the time they start school. Tell your son we here on myLot that we are proud of him too.
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 13
Thanks for the compliment. Actually I do not know when a child learns to tie a knot, I just try to teach him to do something when he is interested to learn or when he asked me. But I do not force to teach him something that he doesn't want to, because I believe when there is time to do or learn something new, just wait for the time to come, and I believe it's different for individual child too. But I am always excited when my son learnt something new, it gave me a feeling that he is growing up.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
12 Jan 13
They can learn very quickly when they are ready. They let you know when they are ready to learn.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Jan 13
It seems to me that this is really early to learn such things. If I were you I would try to find him other things to do with those wonderful hands of his, encourage him all you can. Blessings
@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 13
hi savvypat, I always have the doubt if I'm teaching him something when he is too young. I don't like to force or push him to learn something, but sometimes when he asked me, I think I shouldn't stop him from learning. I am learning Waldorf education now, and it recommends children to start academic subjects at age 6 or 7 (after the first tooth fell off), I do agree with this. But when my son kept asking me how to read the alphabets, the numbers, and now the words, sometimes he wants to learn to write, I really don't know if I should stop or just teach him whatever he wants to learn. I am thinking, when he is interested, then he will ask, and if he is ready, then he can learn it. If he is not ready yet, even if I teach him, he won't be able to pick it up. I just hope I won't spoil him from teaching him something too early. I am looking for more activities for him to play and have fun too, he enjoys doing things with his hands.
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
1 Jan 13
That is wonderful! He is so curious and learns so fast, I'm so glad you're able to stay at home with him and teach him. You can teach him how to tie things together now. If you know other types of knots he may want to learn those, too. It sounds to me like he is a very bright little boy who will go far, especially with a parent at home with him all the time to encourage him.
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 13
Thanks for the compliment. I always think kids are generally curious and like to learn, especially when I look at how my son grows. There are a lot of things which I did not intend to teach, and he wanted to learn and asked me to teach him, like learning alphabets, numbers, sewing, cleaning, etc. For him, these are all playing, which I think is good for him, and for me too. I am very happy to be able to stay at home with him, so I get a chance to witness all these. These will certainly be good memories for me, especially when I am old.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jan 13
hi kaka that is a great way to teach by hands on and i t always works best too. He is a smart little boy and you are a good mom to teach him so easily wow.Maybe he will be ope who will want to be a boy scout and that would be a good thing.I was a girl scout as a kid and really did enjoy it too.I have read where children at that age learn a lot of what we learn before w e are adults. they are t rly amazing our little children.
@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 13
hi Hatley, thanks! I'd love if he will want to be a boy scout when he grows up. He will get to learn a lot and have fun too. I do believe kids should always play and work with their hands, and this makes them happy too!
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 13
It is good to know that your son is inquisitive at such a young age. Encourage him to ask questions and explore. When he is old enough for him to go to school, enroll him in school Scout or cub society where he can learn more things. I believe he has an engineering mind. Good. Keep it up.
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 13
hi James, I believe all kids are creative and willing to learn, especially when they are encouraged to. My son likes to ask questions and explores, all the time.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Children learn pretty quickly when others take the time to show them.
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@celticeagle (189874)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Jan 13
Great that he learned to tie one. There are several different ones, some more complex than others. I wonder if I could tie one after so long. Hmmm. lol
• India
2 Jan 13
Hello my friend kaka135 Ji, Well, was it simple knot or was it for neck tye-knot. But he desrves congretulations from all of us.Please do convey my personnal congretulations to him. May God bless You and have a great time
@succeednow (1632)
• Singapore
2 Jan 13
Hi kaka135, I think your son is quite smart to be able to tie a knot at 4 years of age. The next thing I would do is to teach him to read and inculcate in him a passion for reading. He'll be able to do well in school if he starts to read early. Have a good day.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
11 Jan 13
He's cute :) I don't know how to tie a knot. I must learn now in order that I can teach my kids in future :)
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Be sure to teach him how to tie a square knot or a reef knot - same knot but different names - rather than a granny knot. Square knots will not slip and come undone. Granny knots will slip and not stay tied properly. You can find how to tie knots on the internet. Sounds like he is ready for Boy Scouts, or at least Boy Cubs or any outdoor adventure club where knots are important to know. Its great that your son wants to know how to do things and then, is able to figure out how. At 4 years old, it is not too young to start to learn how to do things such as knots.
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 13
hi, thanks for your suggestions. I don't know all these knots, but I'll surely go and learn, so I can teach my son. It's a fun thing to do!
• China
2 Jan 13
Wow,his learning ability is very strong.I think you must be very happy about that.It's improtant to develop one's ability when he/she is still a kid.It is a golden period of learning something new. Cheers!Have a nice day.