is it okay if someone else reads you messages in your phone?

Sometimes, my mother read my message but it's not something I should worry about. I also ever read her message, it because her cannot read a small letter. I think it was bad when they read the important messages contained in the phone.

No reading messages from other mobile I will it is bad habit To tell you frankly I am also the mom but I never read the messages that comes on my son mobile. I have the faith on my son and I knew he may be receiving some messages fro his friend. I told him once see that you respond back to good messages and never involved in sending or replying dirty or adult message, since this your time to concentrate on your studies.

My mother has never checked my phone. But once in college, one of my roommates had checked my messages when I was not in the dormitory.I have nothing to hide, but I do not like other people check my privacy. For that, I quarreled with my roommate and kicked her out of my friend list. Though sometimes it will make you lose some chances without enough message, it is not right to get information in that way.

I find it rude. She either trusts you or she doesn't. Or she is trying to live through you with is a psychological no no.

First off, how old are you and second is there a reason your mom wants to read your messages. My daughter is 12 years old and I read her message so that I can see what she and her friends are doing and if it is something I do not like I let her know. In all honesty if you are grown I do not understand why your mom reads our messages. To answer your question, it is not okay for someone else to read your messages unless you want them to. I do not let anyone read my messages because I am 33 years old and no one needs to be reading mine.

From what I gathered from the other responses, you are not a kid or under the age of 14, so your mother has no business reading your text messages. I know our parents worry about us, but they need to let us grow and breath. Even if you were a teen, your parents have some rights over you and they need to know what you are up to, but since you are not---have you ever thought about telling your mother to stop checking your messages and how you feel about it? And nope, nobody checks my text messages but me.