Externally beauty or " Internal beauty "... . . .??

@busybee10 (3186)
India
January 13, 2013 11:46am CST
The Creator has given beauty to human being which is externally impressive and many get attracted to it.... [b]Do you go with the externally beauty of a person or with the - Internally beauty Which ONE has created with his hard work....which is the real beauty I feel.. [/b] Please share your thoughts...
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• Philippines
13 Jan 13
Personally, I go over inner beauty rather than the outside. Because basically, a person is shaped through his/her personality and the outer look is just an extension to it. Anyone who assumes people on his/her physical appearance just know the person by surface rather than his/her inner being. Real beauty is not shaped on how good looking you are, however facial and physical attributes to play along in making “impressions” with other people. But this doesn’t mean that it moulds the whole “YOU”.
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
14 Jan 13
Yes, I agree with you..that is right the external beauty really makes the opposite person attractive but on running time will surely understand the inner thoughts of the same person and concludes which results the real One is the inner beauty... One can acquire the real beauty of this life by good quality conduct only...
• Philippines
15 Jan 13
True, real beauty is skin deep. and outer beauty is just an extension. Thanks for your response...
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
It can be both, the beauty inside and out. The fact is, not all people can have the same quality. It differs on how they carry themselves to people and be scrutinized by the people surrounding them.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
14 Jan 13
I agree with you...as some are here in the society who are beautiful externally and also internally......it is we who has to scrutinize and come to a conclusion as this cannot be judged in a few moments it take a period of time for the real conclusion...but on the whole the internally beauty is the real one...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
16 Jan 13
A person that has external beauty might be a person that is easy on the eyes, but that is about as far as their beauty goes. When you actually take the time to get to know a person like this, you will find that they really are ugly and vengeful people on the inside. This is the reason that I actually take the time to get to know a person and see their internal beauty before I will ever pass any kind of judgement about a person. To me, the beauty on the inside of a person is far more important than their physical appearance.
@vandana7 (99009)
• India
14 Jan 13
Here I will share my personal experience..ok? In general, I have found for every one internally beautiful person, there are 5 externally beautiful persons who are alos internally beautiful..at the best..not internally ugly. The uglier ones are usually ugly inside too, because they are jealous of the externally beautiful pesons. To be fair, externally beautiful person gets a better deal most of the time. When they talk people listen to them more often. When they need help, they get it far more easily. All such factors make them an object of envy, and that is what makes the uglier one more ugly. They turn bitc.y usually, and try underhand means to harm the externally beautiful ones. Now...to be fair...a box full of black and white marbles when shaken up does not ensure that all the marbles next to a white marble will be black, and vice versa, all the marbles next to a black marble will be white. It may just be a coincidence that I have come across wrong ugly people. Lets just say...internal beauty is hard to recognize and may take several years before you realize its beauty. Do we have that kind of time?
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
14 Jan 13
Yes Vandana - I have understood your inner thoughts... The society has some weakness in them seeing the external beauty as the eyes first see that one which is real and get fascinated...but it is we who have to decide the act and scrutinize ourselves which is real - because we have to be with them and cant avoid... It is here that we have to use our commonsense and play the game of life to go forward...
@vandana7 (99009)
• India
14 Jan 13
It is easier for people who have good looks to be good, because they do not envy. Unlike them, those who do not have good looks, are envious, so may resort to backstabbing, and playing dirty, effectively justifying their ugly looks that go with their nature.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
14 Jan 13
I think that internal beauty is more important. It is nice to be with someone who is attractive on the outside but that shouldn't be the main reason we are with that person. If I fell in love with someone who was nice and caring but perhaps isn't that attractive on the outside I would stay with that person. Looks more than likely will fade and diminish over time. The most important thing though is we want to be left with something good which is where the internal beauty steps in.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
14 Jan 13
That is right...you have very well shared your thoughts... External beauty really attracts us for a relationship but in due course of time the internally beauty acts an important role to scrutinize this which makes the relation ship the final result to be or not to be... Life runs with ONE who has only internal beauty...
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
13 Jan 13
I prefer beauty inside a person, thats what really counts. God bless you my friend. See you here or there soon..
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
14 Jan 13
Thank you maria for your transparent thoughts...I totaly agree with your statement....and what you say is the ONE which should HUNT for....but it may take a lot of research for doing this. Because we have to make a friendship with ONE for sometime and check this...wherein the external beauty does not count... Wishing you a good day here....and there I may not be able to come as the site troubles me a lot...
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
I'd go with internal beauty. For me, being beautiful physically is just for now. It's only for a moment. Physical beauty doesn't last. It fades. People may get attracted to a person who is externally beautiful but surely the admiration is only superficial. It's still different if you talk about the pureness and kidness of the heart. Being beautiful inside is something you can take with you until you grow old. That's what defines you and makes you as a person. People will remember you of your kindness and purity.
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
14 Jan 13
Hi I agree that external attracts us .People generally go with external beauty but if they find that the inner personality of the person is not beautiful then they will definitely move far from them. So overall inner beauty is important for all. Even though the person may come to us because of our external beauty this doesn't stand long.