Falling in Love with My Sister's Friend
By Janurmas
@Janurmas (642)
Indonesia
January 19, 2013 3:40am CST
Hi guys, when I was looking for a girl to have chat with, I found a good looking girl from the list of my Facebook friends list. when I asked her name, suddenly she said that she knows me because my sister has introduced me to her. I like her when I was in a cheating with her, because I know that she is good for me. Then I have her number, and I have asked her to have date with me, but she didn't reply. Is any one of you have ever experienced having date by make a deal with someone you've never met before?
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16 responses
@summer0614 (334)
• China
19 Jan 13
I have been experienced this before,but the one I dated with was a girl which is diffrerent from you.We met each other on a website that quite the same with facebook.After days of chatting online,finally we decided to meet in real life.We were in the same college,and we really felt exciting for the first date.I think the girl you wanted to date may have some concerns.After all,you are strangers,maybe she dares not to meet a stranger,but was shy to tell you the truth.
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
19 Jan 13
My friend that girl only rides on your choice to become friend with her,because your sister was her friend that introduces you to her.She was very comforting to have a chat with you,but that does not mean she likes you,it is just because she was your sister friend,that is why she began to distance against chatting you because she thought you are already courting her.Treat her the more mature ways,so that she would be tamed to chat with you again.Do not force too much pressure because she knows you are her best friend brother,that is why she was afraid you do the rush ways.Let her study your abilities and character first,then study her character,also before you dig to court her.I think that would be fair to both of you.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jan 13
hi Nanurmas cheating? yo u m ean chatting I take it. I would go esay dating someone I have never met before. Maybe take a friend withyou when y ou meet her in a public place as sometimes peole on the net are not what they tellyou they are. good luck and have fun. No i have never dated someone I had never met before.





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@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
19 Jan 13
I've never gone on a date with someone that I've never met before and have never gotten a date through the internet. All of the ladies I have dated I have met in real life and have had mutual friends with. Either way though it's nice that you have a date and hopefully she will respond soon with positive news.
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@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
19 Jan 13
I have never gone on a date with someone that I haven't been introduced to. I do not feel safe about it. Besides, it feels a bit awkward.
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@alberello (4752)
• Italy
19 Jan 13
Well, I can answer your question, imaginative purposes only.
I say this because I have never been engaged and therefore, never been involved in a romantic relationship. But after all, I'm fine so alone!
I believe that you can flirt with a girl he met on Facebook, but in your case the problem is always the same, that is, she does not answer you!
It is the traditional of some girls. This, as I may be time to knowledge!
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
26 Jan 13
I always think it's best to get to know someone a little before jumping into something.
A person's looks are no indication as to what the person is really like and certainly no indication of love or even a budding romance. If you can't see this or understand then you show a lack of maturity which says you need to be with friends your own age and in a group before you are ready for anything else.
Good luck my friend,
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. @cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
I have been experiencing an eyeball in chat (not in Facebook). I am happy to see my female chatters. I am planning to have date but they are busy.
In your situation, do not give up on her or ask your sister for your friend. I know you can be trusted.
@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
I have been experiencing an eyeball in chat (not in Facebook). I am happy to see my female chatters. I am planning to have date but they are busy.
In your situation, do not give up on her or ask your sister for your friend. I know you can be trusted.
@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
I have been experiencing an eyeball in chat (not in Facebook). I am happy to see my female chatters. I am planning to have date but they are busy.
In your situation, do not give up on her or ask your sister for your friend. I know you can be trusted.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
No, I haven't tried dating someone whom I never meet in person.
Maybe your sister friend is not interested to have a date with you- because of may reasons.
Don't rush her- take time to know her first before asking her for date.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
Sister's friend? So what? Please go ahead with your mission. If you both are happy and match each other, there is no problem. Enjoy your life and have a peaceful life.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
19 Jan 13
What exactly means you were in a cheating with her? What is cheating? To be honest I find it a bit weird you talk about falling in love if you are just looking at your list of fb friends and decide to pick out someone. Love doesn't work that way, also falling in love is not. I think you don't know what love is (yet) sounds way more you are in high need to find someone and just pick out what looks great to you and tell yourself you are in love. The fact she is not responding probably means she is not interested in you. And what means making a deal? You are not buying her or paying for her and talk about a "good" price.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Wrong move bro.
You should have gotten to know her as a friend first. I think you were too aggressive asking her out when you two are not even that close yet.
When a guy does that to me on facebook, I just think this guy does not even know me that much, he's most likely only attracted to me because of my looks.
We can't just date anyone nowadays. We should be careful. I don't blame the girl for not replying. Maybe she's just busy? Or not interested in you?
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Jan 13
I one time organized a group date because I didnt feel comfortable to go on a one on one . It was so much fun , a lot of new people and I also bring some one my friends and they bring friends and family . WE all meet a a family event .
We were all 14-18 , it was so fun, people keep asking me when I would make one again . I move away so I didnt get to . I think going in a group is better for everyone , and you bring people you know in person an meet in crowded place .
@ulan12rc (222)
• Qatar
19 Jan 13
No, it's not a good idea dating someone you've never met but for some people it doesn't matter at all but be wise and smart for they can fool you around without knowing. There are many cases that doesn't sounds good when dating like the thing you were pertaining so please be a little cautious in dealing with this things...just a friendly reminder. Take care.












