this is the longest i've been away
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
January 21, 2013 5:22am CST
Part of my work is to travel but usually its just for two or three days.. but this time it is for 5 days!
I was talking to my husband on the phone and i told him i miss him and it weird and also a bit funny as this is the longest we have been away. Funny because i never really realized i would still miss him this much lol.. not the bad way ok? it's just that we are always together and there would be times we would call it asking for space and now i am away we want to get back together hahahha..
but all he want me is to come home safely and he is worried because of the bad weather condition.
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11 responses
@else22 (4317)
• India
21 Jan 13
You have never been away from your husband for more than three days,but this time you are away from him for five days.Certainly it is the longest period for you to live away from him.Such things often happen in life.Sometimes we get too late or stay for an unexpected longer period.Would you believe if I tell you that I had once been to a nearby town for only one day,but could not return before two months at a strech.Such things often take place.I can understand how both of you must have been missing each other.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
probably that is why being away from the spouse is also beneficial
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
21 Jan 13
Well, he's worried about you, because of bad weather. This means that he cares about you and loves you so invaluable!
As for your job, if I understand it, it takes you to stay several days away from home. This means that you will miss your dear family, and on this I can understand you perfectly!
However you feel lucky to have a job (for example, I'm unemployed!). Nowadays .. you know..
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
oh yes i am very grateful for having this job that entails me to travel and all expense paid.. thank you for reminding me that again alberello. :)
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
22 Jan 13
It is good to have a reminder that you do miss him. Of course he wants you to be safe. The old saying is that "absence makes the heart grow fonder"
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
27 Jan 13
It is your part of your job and you have to adjust with it. I hope you are having a very good journey along with it I hope you will back soon with lots of love to your love to your hubby and to your little kids.
Happy Journey
Happy Mylotting
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
yes i know it is part of the job.. and i need to get on with it. The trip went well my friend, got worried about that too because of the bad weather but things went well on our way home.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
21 Jan 13
Sometimes, that does happen when married couples are away from each other for lengths of time. It is good that he is worried, shows that he does care for you, even when you are away.
Yes, it is sometimes hard to find that balance between 'space' and 'togetherness' in a marriage. Glad you realize it and have a sense of humor about it. :)
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
Yes i guess to keep me from missing him more and wont have fun here.. but well i still do miss him and glad tomorrow i will be coming home..
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
22 Jan 13
Because you both love each other that is why you miss each other so much . When we love someone we cant stand being away from them for a long period of time .
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
so true and one of the reasons we don't want to work in another place even tho the pay is quite attractive.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
22 Jan 13
I've been away from home for few months in the past before. My spouse and I missed each other but we did keep regular phone contacts which helped us through. But I have never been away from my children; right now they are overseas by themselves on vacation for two weeks and I so miss them terribly... 
@Gretchen522 (715)
• China
22 Jan 13
So admire of the love between you and your husband! Wish you a good journey!
thank you.
@vivek19 (218)
• India
22 Jan 13
it's natural for your husband that he cares for you. This shows how much he loves you. Maybe you should also try to be near to him. To stay in touch with him, I think you should find a job in the proximity to your husbands house so as to lower his level of anxiety.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Actually my job is just within where my husband words..i was just away for a training of sorts 
@teotimoponcerosacena (1552)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Your husband cared for you, so be it just take care but to be separated fora moment is not of issue, it is part of living. The most important is you understand each other well
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
27 Jan 13
we do understand each other my friend, the feeling of missing him is just all new to me.
