Wrong emoticon!? How do you handle it?

myLot emoticons - Placing wrong emoticons could be disastrous!
@allknowing (130195)
India
January 23, 2013 5:24am CST
myLot has provided us with umpteen number of emoticons to be placed appropriately to express ourselves more clearly but alas what happens if we place them in wrong positions and only realise the mistake after they have been posted? Imagine if you are angry with a situation and there you put a, or it is a serious topic and you place a . Worse still what if you put a when you actually meant to send a hug.It is possible as the hugs emoticon is next to the feeling sick emoticon!!! Any idea how you would rectify the situation? Just adding another comment "Sorry I meant to put this but I put that" Sounds silly to me! Or how would you react if you got such a post?
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@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
23 Jan 13
Is this now co-incidence or what..... I did not see this new discussion of yours, and send you a msg to ask where can I find the emoticons??? Hahaha. I still do not know where?
@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
To the left of your box where you type your response. I am waiting.
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@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
23 Jan 13
I must go now..... Will try again tomorrow to find it.... Bye my friend.
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@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
24 Jan 13
Thanx Pk and allknowing for being so patient with me. I have it now!!
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
23 Jan 13
Just like I handle spelling-errors ... only adding a 'correction-post' if the misspelling makes the post say something different than I meant. Except emoticons don't usually do that, they're usually just 'to set the tone of the response' (i.e. to say 'this is how much the subject matters to me'). They 'pretty it up' like curlicues & -"dotting your 'i's and 'j's with hearts." So you add them without really thinking about it. And if you ARE really thinking about it, you'll usually catch the error before you submit your response. And if a further responder reacts to the wrong emoticon, the explanation gives you good material to use to respond to their reaction.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
Normally emoticons are not questioned but those who post are sized up and a mental note is made of them! Emoticons have value and they do say more than what sometimes the typed matter represents. So beware! Sorry wrong emoticon! Please replace it with See. It does not look good if we were to explain and say that we have put a wrong emoticon!
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
@Mavic Till today I have not seen anyone getting back and saying that they have placed a wrong emoticon but opinions are already formed!!
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Jan 13
yes just go back and apologize. you don't mean no offend so there is nothing to be ashamed of apologizing.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
23 Jan 13
It's really no big deal! If you feel that you really have made a big mistake, just post an explanation or an apology as a comment ... or avoid using emoticons entirely!
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
23 Jan 13
This is the best and the right way to get things managed in case I did put a wrong emoticon. I wonder why the starter of the discussion thinks this to be a silly idea!
@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
Sorry I put the wrong emoticon. It should really have been
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
Or do you think we need to really explain? The only time one should rush to explain if they put the may be?
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
23 Jan 13
Very true.There may be an initial sense of irritation when the person sees a mistaken emoticon[imagine rolling with laughter after sharing some thoughts over a serious topic or giving a suggestion for some serious issue.]If it is a friend, by and large the person would be able to guess it was a mistake. Even otherwise , the better thing would be to send an immediate counter comment " Please ignore emoticons; it was a wrong entry typed by mistake.Sorry!". Just ignore it totally and there is no need for any silly interpretation or explanation ; the tone and tenor of the response would convey the feeling of the person after all .Emoticon is only an added bonus.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
23 Jan 13
If I were aware I would do it lest the person gets offended. If I am unaware then ignorance is bliss as far as I am concerned.The poor offended party would just have to bear it for a while and I am sure it would be forgotten.
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
But here you know I have put those emoticons for fun. What if you just saw them. Some kind of reaction would set in and I don't think you would even want to seek clarification but instead you would make a mental note of what type of a person I am and tread cautiously with me in the future. Such an attitude is possible all because of wrong emoticons placed. I think a is in order to make up for the 3 emoticons above.
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
Emoticons say more than words. I have always given due importance to them. And who knows how many must have posted wrong emoticons and could have been victims of misunderstandings. Putting a comment saying that it is a wrong emoticon is normally not done - atleast I have not seen it. Probably because one does not become aware of the mistake.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
23 Jan 13
It happened with me some way back. I used the emoticon without knowing what it should be used for and even today there are some emoticons (including this one) which I dont understand where they have to be used... but I use them. The one I have never used is the Anger one and I will never use it. I use an emoticon more by what and how it looks rather than what it means - at least most of the time (except the ). And in any case or situation where I am wrong, I re-post another comment saying that I am sorry... But as I mentioned on Owlwings... why do you consider Sorry re-comment that as Silly? I think it is the normal way even in real life when you misunderstand or say something that you should not have!
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
It depends on the contents of the post I feel. Not in every case an explanation would fit. Anyway that is my opinion. Excuse me I put the by mistake. It should have been .....can't make up my mind!!
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
23 Jan 13
for the Well, yes, I agree there are times when any explanation is just not needed but then, there are some places where I think one should rectify. MyLot doesnt allow editing of responses and that makes things complicated. I was on another site a few years back, and they did allow to edit within 5 minutes of posting. That was a little better I guess, no one knew if you were lucky
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
23 Jan 13
And yes, if I remember right, this is a historic discussion for me as I just used the Anger emoticon - I have had never used it before
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
23 Jan 13
honestly not lunch because sometimes it can happen accidentally when you fast. so it's pointless to be but you have to accept that not all our fault and it happens. nice day!
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
@sishy - Wow!!! You used these emoticons beautifully. No mistakes there. It will read something like. A nice day to you too but I am confused, yet happy!
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
24 Jan 13
to you too... But I'm yet ...
@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Jan 13
About all you can do is to respond to your post and explain what you did. I did this but I meant this sort of thing. THat's about all you can do.
@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jan 13
I would do another discussion discussing what happened in the last one. Once you have posted though it is a bit difficult to have things handled in a certain way after the fact.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
26 Jan 13
Emoticons do convey our feelings and it is important that we are careful while posting them and no matter how we try to explain it is not the same any more.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
It kind of spoils the 'show' so to say when we go back and try to explain. This is my thinking, unless they get back and ask which invariably they don'tMay be at best a message could be sent to clarify but I would not like it handled in the discussion.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
25 Jan 13
If I did a hugs and I meant to do a I would post an additional time and post "oops..I meant but I might need a after that one.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
25 Jan 13
oops...I meant instead of a but I need a
@allknowing (130195)
• India
25 Jan 13
Getting back and talking about emoticons will mess up our messages. That is what I feel. After a barb normally one would put a but putting a hell will break loose! It all depends on the type of interaction.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
25 Jan 13
I don't think I have ever made this mistake, maybe because I hardly use them, but I'd like to use them more they make the discussions more fun. But anyway, if I did make the wrong emoticon then I would just leave it if it isn't that drastic, like someone would take it in the wrong way with that emoticon. Otherwise I would apologize below. Now if someone made the mistake of putting the wrong emoticon in response to me I would think nothing of it and just ignore it.Why make a big deal about it anyway.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
26 Jan 13
Making a big deal can happen when the issue at hand is serious as I feel emoticons do speak louder than words!
@akp100 (13640)
• India
24 Jan 13
Hello Oppss sorry for above.. I placed it at wrong. I guess that's the only way to correct.. Accepting our mistake with another post even if sounds silly.. he he.. But yes such situation happens sometime when we are in hurry. We having preview button, but I guess very few users are using it. And surely I am not one of those few users.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
It is not advisable to get back and correct specially if there has been a serious dialogue or when a completely opposite emoticon has been placed and then to get back and say it is wrong could worsen matters. Unless the message receiver brings it up and then too one may feel a bit awkward. It all depends which emoticons we are talking about here.
@akp100 (13640)
• India
24 Jan 13
But still if in serious situation we laugh, then that other person can feel bad about it and it is possible that misunderstanding arise. So as per I think, better clear the things before it misguide others.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
Let's assume it is a real life situation and when you are having a heated argument you laugh. Can you then say it was wrong I did not want to laugh?
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
24 Jan 13
I use when I did something stupid. I hope I was clear enough in my posts and those who were reading would not take my use of emoticons any other way that I intended to. So far I have not had the need to correct my emoticons. There is one I never use because I have no idea what it means. What's ?
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
The is used to show your resentment. is used to show the myLot community how stupid you have been in a given situation!
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
25 Jan 13
Both those emoticons do not create a happy atmosphere and so it is best that they are avoided!
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
25 Jan 13
I've been using wrong emoticons all these time without realizing... or should I use
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
I do have some comments over my discussion posts that have “un-conforming” emoticons however; I don’t see such replies by their emoticons. As long as the content is understandable, I don’t look at the emoticon but rather the comment itself.
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
23 Jan 13
Emoticons do have a value as they emphasise what one wants to say specially since we cannot talk to each other.
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• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Make sense, however i like reading well we do have different options to express our thoughts over the site...
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
How can I use them?
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
23 Jan 13
Hi friend. Slowly read allkonwing's post. She describes it very well. You add it to what you feel.
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
23 Jan 13
I am also looking.... where is it????? cannot find it...
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
24 Jan 13
At last I figured it out.... I have tried so many times to type in italics, or bold, and could not understand why some could do it... hahaha. I did not want to ask, for I did not want to look stupid! I feel so empowered right now!!
@Beatburn (4287)
• Philippines
20 Aug 15
I searched "emoticons" and found this discussion you posted years back. Now I know how to use thanks to you!
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
20 Aug 15
Thank you for reviving my discussion.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
25 Jan 13
Personally, this is why I probably never use them myself as I do not want to accidently make this mistake. I am sure it is quite embarrasing when someone does, and would feel the need to want to apologize.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
26 Jan 13
Getting back to apologise could make it worse unless the one who reads it gets back and asks for clarification. I would rather keep quiet and wait for them to get back to me at which time I would certainly clarify but never do it on my own. Anyway, I have not seen any one doing it so far.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Jan 13
hi allknowing sice it was night time when i was putting the emoticons onf for silly and rofl an instead got snoring I thought well I can explain i goofed or since its nighttime where this person was I will just leave it and she laughed and wrote you hit the wrong one looking for rofl hu? I had to laugh as I typed yes I really did so no explanation re ally needed.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
I have never seen anyone getting back and talking about wrongly posted emoticons but if they are the rough kind like they do leave a bad taste in one's mouth and could even put off users having anything more to do with that user!
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
I think I made that mistake once but I wasn't bothered by it because anyway it's just an image. What is more important I think is what you say or the words you use here. Ooooopsss...wrong emoticon. I was supposed to say
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
Sorry. Beg to differ with you. It is not just an image. It speaks louder than words. Here, you realised then and there that it was a wrong emoticon and you said it. But most of the time we miss out and yes, users do get bothered about wrong emoticons to the extent that they may even stop interacting with that user. What if I put just to disagree with you but in fact it was not my idea. No clarification sought and the hurt feeling continues!
• India
24 Jan 13
Its exactly like when u are unmindful and you say something totally out of the context Or just like you are sleep talking or talkin when u are confused. You cannot do anything about the past unless you have a time machine to go back. I dont think anybody has a time machine yet. :D :D On second thoughts, are you giving clues to a new project of yours? :)
@allknowing (130195)
• India
24 Jan 13
My point was the thought of going back and putting another comment about wrong emoticons somehow does not fit in, unless the one who reads it asks for clarification. Many a time mental notes are made about the person who has messed up using wrong emoticons not bothering to clarifying the situation. It could have some impact. What is the project you are talking about! This is the right emoticon just in case..........