My son will be staying in las vegas.... Im so happy

Mexico
February 2, 2013 10:05am CST
My ex husband and dad met last night. My ex decided it was better for my son to stay with my dad till I get there in july or aug. I had given my ex a letter, so he had control over my son when I was here in Mexico. he gav eit to my dad. My dad will now go to court on monday, and ask a judge for temp. custody of my son. Of course I will also give it to him. My dad knows real big lawyers in las vegas, who have told him how to go about doing this. Im glad for that. As for my son... he told me he doesnt want to see his dad ever again. I told him.. dont say that hes your father. he is mad as his dad chose new wife over him. I told him.. Watch the new wife wont last, and your dad will wake up. I hope all is well now. I worry so much about my son. Thanks everyone for all the great responces here. You are all true friends.
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12 responses
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
3 Feb 13
Im happy for you and your son and you soon should be together! that is great news I hope all will be fine from now on.
• Mexico
4 Feb 13
I am as well, I hope the time flies by. And Im there. Have a great week there....
@natliegleb (5173)
• India
2 Feb 13
wow it is great and awesome go out with him and also enjoy the time and make the most of it and utilise the moment ideally for sure
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• Mexico
2 Feb 13
I cant wait to move back there, and be with my boy. hes my world... Miss you mijo....
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
3 Feb 13
My friend, i am happy too knowing you are happy now, it is no doubt these positive outcome regarding your son is encouraging and i wish every thing will work out well for you into the future. So long for now, keep thinking positively, there is always a solution for every problem.
• Mexico
3 Feb 13
sure is, finally something might turn out right for me. Go 49ers in the super bowl....
• United States
3 Feb 13
I am so glad that your dad has temporary custody of your son and that your son is happy now. I bet you cannot wait to see your son. I am glad that your dad has been working hard and fast to get your son into a better home situation. Please give your son time to think about what his dad did to him and maybe someday he will want to see your ex someday.
• Mexico
3 Feb 13
Yes, he goes to court on monday to get official custody of my son. I needed him to do that. Have a great day there.
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
3 Feb 13
Your ex sounds like my ex. She has her head so far up her boy friends @ss she cannot see straight. It seems that she is picking him over the kids. Thats just wrong. I told my girl friend from jump street that my kids come first. And she accepted that. No one says she cannot be with someone, but the kids should be top priority. I feel your situation is very similar to mine.
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
4 Feb 13
Well, I guess you do know him very well. As I know my evil ex very well. Thats why I am giving her enough rope to hang herself, figuratively speaking.
• Mexico
3 Feb 13
I agree.. but my ex will put up for it only for a short time... I know him real well. Go 49 ers............
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
3 Feb 13
Good to hear this, so your son can be happy with your dad until you get there. I hope he gets along with your dad. I agree with you the fact he picked this new woman over his own son, and the fact she expects this, and figures the son should drop everything to put her in place.
• Mexico
3 Feb 13
Yes hes ok now, thanks.. And my dad takes very good care of him there...
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
4 Feb 13
That's good, I hope his father learns how important his son is, and not some woman. This is so sad, I feel so bad for your son.
• Mexico
4 Feb 13
I hope so as well. Im hoping his dad is just in love, and alittle messed up.
@GardenGerty (169568)
• United States
2 Feb 13
He will eventually get over the hurt and anger he feels at his dad, but in the meanwhile he can enjoy time with your father. July or August will be here in just six months, not very long. I hope this eases your mind.
• Mexico
2 Feb 13
not sure,, its the 2nd time in just 2 year shes let the kid down....
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
5 Feb 13
It's such a shame that your boy has had to go through such a traumatic ordeal. It must be so hard for him to have such a heavy burden on his shoulders. It does my heart good to know this story has had such a positive outcome for him. When you two are finally reunited he will be able to be a young boy again who knows he is loved and cherished above all else. I'm so sorry he has had to go through this and you too my dear friend.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
3 Feb 13
I'm glad to hear that the situation has reached a satisfactory resolution for now. Of course, it would be better if your ex had not treated your son the way he did. Hopefully in time a better outcome for that will also occur. You are a wise and good mother to consul your son about his dad in the way that you are doing.
• Mexico
3 Feb 13
sure would have..... I just hope some day my ex realizes he was wrong to choose a wife over his own son. Have a great sunday...
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Feb 13
hi mariaperalta I am so glad so now yur son will b e with your dad. What a sad thing when a man chooses his new wife over his own son, I am so sorry for your son as he muust be so angry with ghuis own father.I think theres something dreadfully wrong with your ex , his thinking is all screwed up. Hope now it will all go well til you get back to Los Vegas. God bless good l uck.
• Mexico
2 Feb 13
I agree, I have never seen my son so upset and crying over something. he didnt even cry when we left las vegas and his dad 2 years ago.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
3 Feb 13
Well at least he will be happy living with your dad for now. It is so sad that your ex chose his wife over his son. I mean really? Come on this is like your flesh and blood and you choose her. But anyway, you are right in telling him that he should not say that he'll never want to see his father again. Because eventually either his dad will learn what he did was wrong and except the decision that his son has made. And his dad will apologize and except his son back, or the relationship between your ex and his wife will not last and they will break apart and your husband will have the relationship a father is supposed to have with his son and except the decisions his son makes. Its sad, but he is sure going to miss out on a lot of what his son will be doing while growing up just because of this whole situation between his son and his wife, just cause your son doesn't want to call a woman he barely knows mom. I would never make my husband choose between me and his children I always want him to be apart of his sons lives. You did good as a mother, most moms on the other hand wouldn't be like that.
• Mexico
3 Feb 13
Yes i will be, and unlike his dad. He can call me on the phone everyday if he wants to. His dad only let him every sunday. makes me feel better to hear his voice everyday. Have a great superbowl sunday...
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
2 Feb 13
This is reality maria. There are things that no matter how carefully we planned out, still things go the way we don't want it to be. I am glad that everything is okay with you and your son. The effect is there and it will take time to remove that hatred inside his heart. But what you can do is to devote more time for him. Especially that he is on his teenage years. This is the most critical age of a person. Have a nice day!
• Mexico
2 Feb 13
so far they are... If the ex does what he says and leaves the kid alone they will be great. My son just needs some time, I think...