What make women happy ? Do they have common interest.

I think it is that women want someone to look after whether it is a husband, child, and also to care about someone. Without that, our lives are empty.

So far as I have experienced,eomen love honesty and love- selfless love.I say so,because I have witnessed it in my own life.All the women in my own family- my mother-my sisters,my daughter and my wife have showered their love on me.My mother is no more.But as long as she was alive,I was his dearest son.So are my four sisters.They are always ready to sacrifice anything for me.Even the women in my neighborhood have respect and love for me.

I think the problem is, we think we can make other's happy. It's not our job or responisblity to do that. It's our job or duty to find our own personal happiness, and then share that with others. Yes you can do things like bring her flowers, or clean the kitchen after dinner to put a smile on her face. but when you think about doing something nice for your partner, it makes you feel good. so really all you are doing is sharing that happines that doing something nice for her with her.

I think it is easy to make a woman happy at the same time it is difficult too (that is the specialty of women). Common interests are rare among ladies. I think praises can make any woman happy, but it should be honest and sincere. I mean the praise should not be done for just making them happy, if it so it will make opposite result only. Women are more on sacrifice in nature, especially mothers, but here also difference will be there among them.

An average lady would want a husband ... a. Who is witty and humorous without being comical.. b. Who can do several things at home and out so that she is never helpless..so the man need to be a car mechanic, electrician, plumbing expert, electronics expert, and so on. c. Who is great with kids without becoming a kid himself, i.e., he should be able to tell kids to do what needs to be done, and help the kids, and not end up letting the kids get away with dominating him. d. Dresses not to formal, not too casual...must blend with the dresscode that the family has. e. Earns enough to run the family and spare a few thousands..that would buy her her own home..for some strange reason most women want a home of their own, including me. The home needs to have a lawn in front, and yard for growing fruits and vegetables. f. No mother in law or sister in law is there to nag or trouble. Even if they are there, they should be living in their place and coming in when needed, like nannies or otherwise. After all such needs are fulfilled, you would still have other needs like a. My sister has a car, even we should have one...better than hers b. Our neighbor's son is going to the best college, so our son should go there too. c. I was the only one at the function without enough jewelry on me, or I was the only one amongst our friends that has worn the same saree and same jewelry twice in an year! So you know wants are many means are few...

I have just simple wants. I just want a very peaceful place to live with (where I am not at the moment), a house of our own (which we don't have coz we are living in one of the houses of my in laws) and a family (that I already have) Material things , though great are not that important to me. I have learned to make myself the last priority over all other things.