9 year old Girl Gives Birth

@lelin1123 (15595)
Puerto Rico
February 6, 2013 4:10pm CST
On January 27th a nine year old girl living in Mexico gave birth. A 17 year old boy got her pregnant when she was eight years old. Of course the kid as since run away. The little girl does not understand what has happened to her. She has since been released but will be monitored due to her age. I can't imagine first of all my daughter being in the company of a teenager where this is allowed to even happen. Secondly, that he has not been caught. I hope they find this child molester and he is put away for life. I pray that this little girl and her baby will be ok and able to live a promising life. When you think you have heard it all! What are your thoughts on this besides being shocked?
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@marguicha (216369)
• Chile
15 Mar 13
When I read your post, I wondered where in Mexico did that happen. If if got into the news, it must have been on a fairly civilized part of Mexico. But when I went to Cancun, I talk for about an hour with a Maya woman who was selling her beautiful crafts on the street. She was with all ther children (5) and she looked as if she were the big sister of the eldest daughter. She had her first child when she wasn`t much more than a child herself and her whole life meant work. There are many people in this world who don`t reach the news but, when you learn abnout their lives, you think thet it`s not fair at all. Yet we must each of us do something if we want things to change. Probably in some parts of the world, what you are telling us is a common practice
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
This is such a horror for the little girl. Where are her parents? I hope that she can be taken cared of as well as the baby. She is still not in the age of right reasoning and she needs to learn a lot. I am so sad she had to lose her innocence at such an early age.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
I know if I were her mom I would have lost my mind. I still wish I knew the entire story as to how this was allowed to happen in the first place.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
10 Feb 13
Thats what I wonder about too! Many grown women have had miscarriages due to not being able to hold the fetus. How does a eight or nine year old do it??
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
It's a good thing that abortion was never an option for the family of the child. I could barely imagine how she was able to go through childbirth. How could she have surpassed that ordeal in her young body.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
10 Feb 13
It is just shocking the minor girl is able to cover up her pregnancy from everyone until it reached full term ready for delivery, and the 17 years old boy is able to hide his 'tail' for so long from his parent and friends and the girl's parent without anyone raising any eyebrow over his molestation on a 8 years old. How they manage to do that right under everyone eye for so many months and ran away from authority after the revelation is no doubt quite amazing and beyond comprehension.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
25 Feb 13
Exactly, I don't understand how this could happen. I know I have a granddaugther who will almost be 7 but she is watched every moment of the day. No teenager or man would be left alone with her for a minute. I wish I could find more information on this story but what I wrote was all I could find on it. Regardless I surely hope they find that kid before he does it to another child.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
7 Feb 13
I think that she will need years of counselling to try and get over this. I hope that he is caught and soon. This poor baby. My heart bleeds for her. There are a lot of sick people in this world How could she really understand what has happened to her? She is just a baby and she needs years of therapy but I doubt if she will get it if she is from a poor family. I am sickened to my soul!
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
8 Feb 13
I do not think lelin that she will ever recover from this. And then think of the baby. Will the baby be rejected in later years because it was conceived by rape? This is possible. It may be perhaps better for the baby to be adopted in a situation like this. So many things come into my mind. Kind of potential problems for the family and especially for the little girl. do yu think that the baby should be adopted?
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
I know how you feel I cried when I first read the story. This poor innocent child's innocence has been taken away from her way to young.
• Pamplona, Spain
7 Feb 13
Hiya lelin, Heard about this on the News this afternoon and I first thought of her herself and how she must be feeling although she is but a baby herself. She will need so much love in her life to help her through all of that trauma. Even if they never found the guy its she who is left to stand on her own two feet in a way. Although I imagine her parents and family will be there to help she will probably have some kind of memory of all this and I just hope that years on from now they will be there to stand by her. It is a shocking thing to happen to a little girl because she is but a baby yet as I said before.xxx
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
8 Feb 13
I agree she will definitely have the memory of this forever. It breaks my heart that a child so young went through all this at such an age. I surely hope they catch this child molester.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
6 Feb 13
This is so sad, this child has lost her entire life. Where was her parents? Clearly, not monitoring her, or even care about her if they let her go off with older kids, as well as let her get pregnent. Now you didn't say if she was raped or not - that would be a different story.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
7 Feb 13
How could it be a different story when she is way too young to have said yes? This is why we have laws. To protect the young and vulnerable. If she were younger by about 2 years then it is quite possible that her internal organs would have been so damaged that she would never be able to have a child as a consenting adult.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
I'm more then sure she was raped. She didn't know what happened to herself. She was only eight years old when it happened. This guy raped her got her pregnant then fled the area. It's disgusting and horrible and I still wish I knew where the parents were when this was allowed to happen. My daughter has two little girls one is soon to be seven and the younger was is 1 years old. She would not leave either one with a boy or man to watch.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
7 Feb 13
I said if she was raped, it would be a different situation. Now if her parents allowed her to go off with an older teenager or man, they should be charged as well, for allowing their child to be placed in this situation. It comes back to the alck of parenting, and responsibility. In the end it's not the childs fault, but rather the parents. This poor girl will have to remember it whether it was forced on her or not.
@youless (112164)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Feb 13
This is a very shocking news. I don't know what to say. It is just too much for such a little girl. It is too difficult for her to be a mom in this age. She is also a child. I hope the government will do more for her to help her to pass all of these difficulties.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
Well I'm sure her mom is raising the baby because there is no way a 9 year old can take care of a baby because is still a baby.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
7 Feb 13
Dear friend, It difficult image of this, that child, it is really a nasty crule one, that molester is sure to be given the extend of punishment. How can we see such a child in such a way, I wonder it. I can't even image that, really shocked.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
I know I can't even imagine it in my head what an eight or nine year old girl with a pregnant stomach.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
6 Feb 13
Wow, that is shocking and very sad. I hope this little girl is strong enough to deal with what has happened to her. Who is going to raise the baby? I kind of have to wonder where her parents were when all of this was happening. Obviously she matured early. Why was an 8 year old girl alone with a 17 year old teenage boy unless he was babysitting her or a friend of the family. It is pretty sad to think a friend of the family would take advantage of a little girl like that. it is really sick, and really sad. My heart goes out to that poor little girl, and I hope the parents will be more careful of their children and the little baby from now on.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
6 Feb 13
The story did not go into details. I felt the same way how do you leave a boy of any age with a little girl. The sad thing is that she went through this at her age. I can't believe she was able to carry it full term. That part amazing me. I just hope they catch the child molester and I don't care if he is a friend of the family or not. He needs to pay for this crime.
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
7 Feb 13
I'm amazed that she got pregnant at 8 yrs old because she must have started her monthly cycle to get pregnant. So what did she mature early? I'm shocked that she was in the company of a 17 year old and that he did what he did to her. Maybe she wasn't in his company maybe she was just out walking and he grabbed and raped her that does happen at times i know. Whatever the reason or whatever the circumstances i wish that little girl the best of luck and a good life and pray they find the 17 yr old who did this and try him as an adult with life in prison.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
Yes, I have heard of girls getting their periods very early but to be able to carry that baby to full term is amazing to me. I too hope he is caught and left in prison for life.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
7 Feb 13
Oh my god, this is really sad and bad, where are we running too. Poor girl, how will she survive this. What will be her future.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
Well hopefully her parents will be getting her counseling and will of course be taking care of the baby. I hope she mentally and physically can survive this horror.
@ErangaEP (44)
• Sri Lanka
7 Feb 13
We have to take care about our children. If we not, that thing might happen.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
7 Feb 13
Exactly, I don't understand where were the parents???? My daughters know where their kids are 24/7. They do not leave them with anyone unless its my sister or their sisters.