Do really Men get Mature by age?
@extremefun4fun (2908)
India
February 13, 2013 1:22am CST
I am just waiting and wishing that I could be old now except being young andn it is all becasue of my husband and his bad nature to wish we could grow old as soon as possible that maybe one day I open my eyes and to see today I do not need to hurt by him or teaching him things like a mother..... anybody has experience that his man get mature by time ? or men can you advice me when a man will change to a good gentleman? any way to get fast result?
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5 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
13 Feb 13
Hi,
Changes are inevitable. It happens within ourself with the background or support of our heritage, culture and most effectively from the surroundings. Our views, thinking and the people around and education and nature etc will help to mould the charactor of a person. In my opinion, all have its own role to charactrise someone's behaviour and by experience we (people) will keep change or reshape to a better one or a worse from what they are.
All it depend on how they see things around and from their perspective. Normally people improves and understands better, when time moves on. We can hope that he will change to a better life for the rest of the time. However, do you think your support and lovely approach towards him can make some change in him, if so, do a try from your end to make things better.
Regards
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
31 Mar 13
ooofff... long time... I hope it will come fast.... I will see you too grandpa.... 
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
so for that I really wish that I close and open my eyes and I see my husband has become an old mature man.
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@sonusd (1547)
• India
13 Feb 13
Becoming gentleman is totally depend upon the nature of the man and also there are some out side factors like friend circle of your husband, profession of your husband, family background all those depend for behavior of person and yes never try to change his behavior or else you will become his enemy.
Try to understand the reason behind his behavior and change him slowly and yes never compare with any other gentleman which may make him jealous and you may get adverse effect of that
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
13 Feb 13
Unfortunately, he hide and lied to me about all of those factors. He was a good actor because the way of his talking and behave suddenly change after marriage and after few months of marriage I could visit his family andd yes family background is really important. if his mom could teach him all those thing today, I ccold not become mother of a man in this age of mine and just with force living, and suffer from lies and cheated he made in my life, try to make him understand and better day by day, I do not say he did not change, in comoarison of startnig till now he has changed, so I hope he will be better because of our child. I do not like one day my child say to me mom why my father is like this?
His friends as that much i could know are all ....... I really hard can give them human bin catagory.. and that is all becasue of sort of job that his mom from childhood of my husband force him to do and.... I try to much to take him out or all those friends and job... but he is too depended on his friends and that job.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
13 Feb 13
I know that giving suggestion is easy but implementing that is not too easy still I want to suggest leave him find a new partner ( if possible, your family and society where you leave allowed) or else try to get acquainted with that environment and dont feel your self get cheated always which will hurt you morally and will make you weaker. fee; strong and think about the child so that you will ignore your husbands behavior.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
23 Feb 13
As our age advances we are supposed to become more mature more responsible, but there are exceptions; many men don't want to change knowingly, it is like trying to awake a man who is really not asleep but just closing his eye.
i have read your responses, you can go to court of law for divorce and all proofs.
how old he is by the way?
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
23 Feb 13
Thank you for your responce, well he is 31 and I think if parents they observe their responsibility of teaching love and humanity and respect to their children we can have much better more safe and happier life. but when parents are not like that, result is this, a man who raise up his neck and with proud says I have destroyed many girls's life, so what? I can stop your breath anytime I want, if there is God call him to help you that time!
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
13 Feb 13
Yes, almost all people get matured with the course of time but there are some people, who do not get matured for various reasons. Have a very nice day.
