How Deep Is Your Love?

It cannot be denied that almost all man love good looking woman. If the case is loving a pretty girl, I would love her if she can control her appetite and care for her body. But in case of after marriage, I would love my wife whatever her condition and situation. A marriage love is eternal for me.

I've been in love with someone for over eight months now. It's not long compared to some of the people who have been married for forty years and have been in love for longer...but I can honestly say even sometimes being treated like crap, doesn't take away from my love. I love deep and pure and I'm loyal to the ones I love and am IN love with. I'd still feel the same even if they lost a leg or got burned or anything...maybe my love will even grow stronger (if possible.)

The object of my love is my hubby and we've been married going on 13 yrs now. Hes gone from 160 to 200 pounds with pot belly been grey for yrs and going bald and i still love him sleep with him and adore him completely. So does that mean my love is very deep? Iv'e gone from 113 to 154 lbs. and going grey and he still loves me and stays with me. I think how you look should have nothing to do with love but how you treat the person. If the person lost a leg you should stay with them and help them through things. I have heard of people getting fat grey bald whatever and the person they are with not wanting to be with them anymore which to me means they didn't love the person but how they looked and that's not real love or unconditional love. Have you ever heard this before love is not bias or bigoted or conditional or boastful or hateful which means love is good kind nice right. If you love someone then it is unconditional and you love them no matter what they look like or if they grow old and such because you might not look so good yourself and you also might lose a limb and such. So my love for my hubby and his love for me is very deep and unconditional because we were both better looking when we dated and got married then we are today and we still love each other and stay together and that's how love is you love the person no matter what unless they treat you bad lie to you etc.

Though I can't say that my husband has become fat, lost an organ or got old an grey, he has been through some changes in his life that have made him a much different person from the man that I originally fell in love with. Over the last two years he's been through Hodgkin's Lymphoma which has resulted in him getting a lot of new scars, a bald head for a time and his being very sick for a long period of time. But none of this means that I don't love him anymore because I have to say that I love him more now than I did before he was sick.

Hi ! To love for real is to love the whole in a person , physically , morally and financially. No if's and but's ! It is the unconditional kind of love. To love is to be there for him through thick and thin for life and beyond .

I won't fall in love with somebody's leg or slim figure or youth so there would be no reason for me to change the way I feel. It's personality, kindness, sharing some good memories, having same outlooks on some subjects and trust that matters the most to me. Besides I'm not perfect myself. I wouldn't want my man to turn me down so easily.

I worked with a woman for awhile that had been in a motorcycle accident and lost the use of her legs. Her husband had left her soon after. Can you believe it?

Losing a leg is not something that would bother me. It's not a choice someone makes. No one grabs a blade and cuts off their leg. That's what love is about. Growing old is also not a choice. Love is a choice. You choose to care about someone. However, it is selfish to not take care of yourself. If you just shovel food in your face and become huge, then you are not doing your best for your spouse. Man or women.

Everyone is fat, pot-bellied, stumpy, old & grey! (i.e. you're no longer a spring-chicken yourself, Mrs. Calabash ) He doesn't love 'you' so much as he loves 'that you love him.' The well-builtness, slimness, long-leggedness, youth & full-color are means of attracting the mate; once you have the mate, you can let all the plummage fade! For you know that the REAL beauty you want is that your love is "solid ... solid as a rock!" An ugly, hard, trusty rock!

I can absolutely say I would still love my husband no matter what he looks like. Physical appearance to me is nothing. My husband is much heavier now than when we met and I love him more than ever! I would not care what he looked like, he is so important to me. We have lost a child together and been homeless together... I am pretty sure we can get through anything!