Is Here Any Friendship Believers????

@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 18, 2013 9:15am CST
Hai to every one.. The truth is that I was not believing in friendship.Every one in this world was talking about friendship on that time.That friendship is great feeling.But I was not that much believed in that statement.Sometimes I also stay against their words.I had thought that There have no blood relation and any other relation with a friend.Then how can the people keeps friendship and seeing friend ship in a pure way.Some people see the friends more than their own mother.Before one year I met a person who is working as a professor in my college and also my senior.I met him and shared my all happiness and sorrows with him.I was really relaxed after meet him.Now we became best friends..Through him I realized that what is friendship and what is the value of friends.He will do any thing for me like completing my home works,recharging,How to over come from sorrows.He is a positive person.He will friend some thing good in every matter. By talking to him,I will get a positive energy..Now,I see him as my best friend..I think that he is great and so sweet friend more than my close friends,classmates whom I for 3 years.I don't believe any one in my college except him.Some people.I hope that he will be there forever as my friend..
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@aqirock (855)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 13
You can believe on anything you want but you can't trust on it, well for friendship I do believe on it sometimes it's there when you really need them that's the trus friendship but sometimes is not well selfishness in ourself always there
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Feb 13
I think there are some fake friends and some real friends. It is always great to get good and real friendships in life.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
18 Feb 13
You are right Aqirock..What is the difference between believe and trust??he is there with me in any time,at any situation.I believe him.He have the capacity to face every problems and solve it..You are also right Ajithlal..That is a blessing that getting a best friend in life..thank you...
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
19 Feb 13
I don't know about all, but when it comes to me, friendship has a great value and I should say that my life become so great mainly because of the nice/good friends that I had. As we all grow, all of them seperated and moved out to different parts of the world. Still, after so many years, we all are in touch with each other and sharing our happiness and sorrows even now! I think good friendship is to be experienced and I belive I am so luck to have a handfull of best friends and I am so proud to have I got these friends for ever. Even on vacations, whenever I got to Kerla, I will be at home only for few hrs. and I would run after most of the friends homes. Even if they won't be there, their mom and family members are good enogh to treat just like their son and I think the relationship with a friend extended to their families and that is one of the best luck part what I belive. Also, 90% of my friends and girls and most of them got settled in their married/career life. Still, I am alwyas welcome to their families and I am a best treated person with respect and friendship. So, I think having good friends and their relationships are much important. However, all depend on how we treat them and I hope we also will get such a treatment how we offer to them as well. Regards
• India
20 Feb 13
No Das, I am very much attached to the family and everyone at home knows that I close with all my friends and the exemption is that most of my friends also very closely attached to my family members also. You are true that most of the girls after getting married may not keep so close to the earlier friends. However, in my case, the fact is not so correct and instead of keeping a distance away, the all come much closer to me. I don't know why, but may be because they all consider me just like a family member, than just a friend. Regards
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
19 Feb 13
Woww.. I think that you are a great person.Otherwise the families will not be very attached to you.When girls get married,they will automatically keep some distance with their friends.But here,nice to know that they are still keeping relation with you..thank you..
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Feb 13
It is good to know that you have a best friend. I think the friendships do exist and good friends are there in the world. I also have some good best friends and I am happy spending time with them.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
18 Feb 13
yaa..You are lucky to get such a good friends.. As you,now I like to spend some time with my friend..All are my friends.But this is the first time that I am knowing that friends ship have an important place in our life..That is because he is my best friend..
@celticeagle (164841)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Feb 13
Hey, really good friends are rare and don't come around very often. Now days life goes so fast people don't really take time out to get to know people or be a friend. Heaven forbid they should have to quit texting for a minute,huh? lol
@celticeagle (164841)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Feb 13
Take good care of them.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
19 Feb 13
Ya..That is correct.friends are rare and it is very difficult to find them.But if you find them,You will be happy in life for ever..Thanks
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@marguicha (221098)
• Chile
18 Feb 13
I have had, and I have, wonderful friends. They have been with me in times of pain and that`s when friendship is tested. Everyone wants to be friends at a time of parties, true friends come on rainy days to do anything for you and be there. I am glad you have a good friend. Take care of your friendship as you would a rare flower.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
18 Feb 13
Ya..surely I will keep this relationship for ever.Thanks..
@chikapet (47)
19 Feb 13
I do have friends but i believe there are very few genuine friends. I once had a close friend whom i used to pour my heart out to her because i thought i trusted her. I could share anything with her and she could access anywhere in my house including my bedroom.Little did i know that she was envious of me because me and my partner are better off financially than her. She suddenly acting cold towards me and stopped visiting. After sometimes, a year or so i started receiving insulting messages from an unfamiliar number but from what she wrote was in regard to the personal secrets i had shared. From then i learnt my lesson, have friends but don't trust.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
19 Feb 13
Oh..bitter experience..So that you are not believing in friendship?? That was something a friend should not do to a best friend.I think that was not a good friend.She was just acting like a good friend to you.. Leave that friendship..And seek for a good friend who stands like one soul with you..Thank you..
• Mexico
19 Mar 13
Hi Dassodils: At the beginning I felt there was a negative tone on your discussion but I'm glad that you found a person that makes you feel it's your real friend and you can TRUST in him. Trust is actually the word that defines friendship. You can't be completely sure about someone's feeling and if it's real what they say. But in general I think that most people act in good faith and their feelings are legit when they talk to you. ALVARO
• India
20 Feb 13
Having a wise friend is really valuable, as I am a person that I do not have any friends here but I have 2 best childhood friends that still we are in friendship. I am happy for you to have a good friend like him.
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
very nice