Last Words

Brings back memories...... I guess I would ask him, "DID YOU EVER LOVE ME AT ALL?" I think that would be the question that I would wish to be honestly answered. I have been in a relationship before. Although we did not fight before we separated, we just had to coz a lot of people have been involved with the mess. When I stopped calling him and sending him a message, I never received any call from him. I was thinking if it was just his way so that everybody would be at peace or was it something else. I was hoping that he would atleast give me the assurance that he did love me and still do at that time just to make me feel good about it, but he never did.

Hi there MissBlack! It has been a really long time since someone broke my heart. Those memories are so distant since I am happy where I am right now, and I love my family so much. What I can say to those people who hurt me before is just "thank you", since I know that somehow, with what they have done to me, they lead me to where I am right now.

My last words would be "GOOD BYE" and " MAY GOD BLESS YOU".

I guess if it makes you feel better by letting it out then telling the person what you think is the best avenue. Deep hurts that lead to endings never seem to have enough words so I have resolved to break it completely. I do remember picking up the phone ready to say to this person that I would never talk to them again but stopped myself in the act. It seemed pointless or maybe even ridiculous. I just cut of communication.

First thought: to hell with you! Get out of my life! Second thought: It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself, because it's not a faught that when he/she no longer loves. The words after my second thought was one of the things I said to my ex. It's not that I'm proud, I'm generous or compassionate or something, it's just that I've learned to know, the one that hurts you lives a harder life than you, for he has to bear the guilt for ever. And I believe everyone will have his permanent life partner if he can wait and be true to his feelings and to his partner. So best wishes MissBlack, a mysterious name:D Light your life up, and you'll meet your sunshine!

I have done the same i was a distance love then the day came I moved to Mexico from California to be with the one that I loved with all my heart now 7 months later it is over and now living here in Mexico with no love and I don't even know much Spanish and I feel betrayed and heart broken

Well this sure has reminded me a lot of things that has happened to me in the past, similarly even after so many years of being together, he managed to cheat on me, even after knowing i fought for him because my mom doesn't like him he still cheated on me. I guess many people would really relate to this situation. I think as for me, i have written him an email already before, I told him everything i have in mind, my feelings, how hurt i was and that no matter what I will never return to him anymore. But its going to be different if i see him in reality again, i probably would be lost for words, if you ask me. But i would think i will probably just tell him straight: "I forgive you, but know that you lost someone that could love you more than you will ever be loved. God knows what's best for me and you don't qualify. I am glad that we're through as I am so much happier now, with someone who you can never live to be, even is you try as hard as you can."

Hmm, that's a bit tough because I had a good parting with my ex. We parted ways in good terms so I think there's nothing more left to say. Maybe if I will have to say something again, it will be, good luck and be happy. Because I am now. And I think he is too as he also have his own family now. It is a chapter in my life that is completely closed, no unfinished business, no unanswered questions.

I am sorry to hear about your relationship experience. The last words that i would like to tell him would be " Thank you" . I think that, it is a blessing that you been hurt. They say " what did not kill you, makes you stronger. Take the higher road, do not hold grudges, if he/ she hurt you then just think positively that there will be a better and nicer person that is for you. It is not the end of the world. Make yourself prettier, stronger, wiser, sexier. This next time is the best love ever, tell yourself that.

I would rather erase some things I said then say even more. There is no point in saying any last words to someone who have hurt you and dissappoint you. When I sorted out my feelings I came to a conclusion that silence would be the best response to actions of a person that hurt me. If he never cared for me then he wouldn't care for what I say, no matter if it's "I hate you" kind of message, "goodbye forever" or "why are you so heartless?". I wish I was composed enough back then to keep quiet and just let go like I never cared.

I was say thank you for making me that much stronger. God bless you and I wish you happiness and success in everything that you do.