Slim or Fat ????

@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 22, 2013 2:07am CST
Hai friends... I like to share some thing which is really familiar to us in day today life.Every people have their own opinions and tastes.In my opinion I like to be slim for ever.But my lover like to see me some chubby.I also like to increase my weight to consider his opinion.So I work hard to be like that.I love slim people always.And what is your imagination about your partner or lover?? Be like slim or fat?? Why??
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26 responses
@LoKoMoMe (511)
• Belize
23 Feb 13
for me I really love my body now, a slim fitted body. sometimes I can control my balance diet but sometimes I cant especially if our dish is too delicious. all I only need is to maintain this..
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
25 Feb 13
It is really difficult to maintain the slim body.This is my friend's statement.because she is not slim.and hardly trying to be like me.. :)
@LoKoMoMe (511)
• Belize
27 Feb 13
yeah, it is hard to maintain a slim body, same as her. I do lots of exercise and balance diet everyday to burn fat at the same time for healthy body too.
@celticeagle (157563)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Feb 13
I think that when people are young and in child baring years we look for a slim, healthy partner that attracts us. I am retired and divorced from my husband. He was very thin and tall. I wasn't really into the thin but always have been attracted to the tall. I think everyone is different and likes different things.
@celticeagle (157563)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Feb 13
Be glad you have what you have and take good care of it.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Feb 13
Me too join with you.I like to get such slim man.My lover is in that same structure.It is unbelievable thing that my dream man came as my lover. :)
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
Well for my hubby, I want him to stay in medium size, not too slim and not too fat either. I desire that he stays fit though. I think what matters most is for the person to be healthy and fit all the time and that could be achieve well if he maintains the right weight all the time. To be overweight or underweight is not good. It is unhealthy to be underweight and just as unhealthy to be overweight so a person must strive to maintain the ideal weight for his height and age.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
25 Feb 13
You mean an average man??That is nice.Thanks for your reply..
• Indonesia
23 Feb 13
Chubby is not bad as long as you are not overweight, now being too fat is unhealthy and kind of unattractive too. But still keep in mind for not increasing your weight too much, because once you gain too much fat it'll be difficult to make it down again. You need a moderation.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Feb 13
Being slim is my body type.My mom also have such slim structure.I have to be an average size girl.I think that my lover will like it :)
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
22 Feb 13
well the person that comes first is you then that of your partner 2nd keep in mind all the bad issues if your over weight but you are the one who pays for it in the end
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Ya..you are true dear friend..So I have to be like this slime body.Most of my friends are daily saying the same thing that they are unable to decrease their over weight.Thank you..
• Mexico
22 Feb 13
good luck
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
i prefer to be slim but i am fat, because after i gave birth its hard for me to lose weight.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Feb 13
Ya..as my sister said,It is very difficult to decrease weight.Thank you..
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
22 Feb 13
I think it differ from people to people. I think some people like slim people while others like chubby. I like chubby.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Oh..You are in my lover's same pattern.Thanks for sharing your taste.Thank you so much..
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• Malaysia
21 Mar 13
I also prefer to be slim rather than fat. From the day I was a kid, the society where I have been living have always stressed out the preference towards slim people. I know this might be a bias thing but today a lot of us are more inclined to be attracted to material things. So I think it is not that wrong to say that I have to follow what the others are thinking. It's hard to think of the opposite, anyway, because it's like fighting the whole world. I hope you know what I mean.
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
I am slim since high school but I want to gain weight. Many envy me because I eat whatever I want but I also envy those who are plump. How I wish to put on weights fast but until now I am still slender. Please share information here if you gain weight after work out.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Feb 13
For me, I have to say that physical appearance wasn't really something that concerned me when I was dating. Instead, I have to say that for me, it was a lot more about a person's personality and sense of humor. In saying that, I am able to say without lying that when I was not married I did date some men that were very slender and I dated some other men that were not very slender. I also have to say, that I would never be the kind of person that would change my physical appearance because of the fact that was something that my lover wanted me to do.
• Mexico
19 Mar 13
Hi Dassodils: The first thing you have to think in my opinion is if you are healthy with your current way. If so, then you have to think how you feel better. Don't do things just thinking to make people happy. Your own perception and your self confidence are your priority. If you think you would feel better if you lose some extra weight and this doesn't affect your health do it. If your perception of your body is positive you'll probably be happier and more confident and people will see this beauty in your attitude. ALVARO
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
20 Mar 13
for me i would rather and always choose to be a slim because i can move the way i want if i am slim and aside from that i can wear many clothes compare to the fat one,slim always have a good look for everyone,and slim is also a sexy to others.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
hi!!! my boyfriend also want me to be fat i mean chubby but i don't like it i just my body slim as it. i'd try to become chubby 2 years ago and i its not fit on me so i tried to reduce again i talked to my lover and he understand it. just try to talk with him.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
I want to gain weight for me to know also what would I look like if I get fattier than the usual. My boyfriend had a very huge or chubby girlfriend in his past relationships and he wants me also to be like them. I feel so insecure about that idea of comparison but I am looking forward and I am not closing doors for that possibility to gain weight because in some point I aimed that goal also.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
Some people are really conscious about their body appearance.There are some who could easily reduced or loss weight without exerting much effort but others find it hard to do so. If you like your weight and is healthy, I think you should not bother to gain more just to please your lover.He was attracted to you the way you are why should he want to change that, just my opinion.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
23 Feb 13
Just be yourself. Why change for someone? Why can't he change to like slim? If you have to change to be accepted, Oh boy, you are going to be a shape-shifter after some time. All the best to you. Isn't it easier to just be who you are and who you want to be?
@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Feb 13
I have not thought. I like my husband either way I have no preference at all.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
I wouldn't change my body to appease my partner. I'd do it for myself. If I want to remain slim, then I will remain slim no matter what other people say. Just as long as I am having a healthy lifestyle. I prefer my partner to be just right. Not too fat, not too thin. It would be a turn on if he has some abs though but if my partner doesn't have them then that is okay too. As long as my partner is healthy and strong, that is good enough for me.
• Taiwan
23 Feb 13
Sincere to say,as a man,I like my partner look a little bit fleshy.It makes the feeling more warm and stimulates each others's sentiment more intimate.
23 Feb 13
Hi I think people chooses something different from them,if they are fat they like slim people and vice-versa,just like me that i am slim but i like my partner some chubby.