"she's a boy so where should she pee?"
By Cutie18f
@Cutie18f (9546)
Philippines
February 24, 2013 2:56am CST
I overheard this from one lady while I was taking another long road trip to the south for family reasons and while halfway down the road, the bus had to stop by the only convenience store in that deserted place so passengers who wanted to take a leak can do so without interrupting the next second half of the long trip. There were two comfort rooms, one of the ladies and one for the men. The fee for the use of this CR is five pesos so I guess the men just did their business elsewhere without having to pay the price because no one was using the men's CR. It's the women's CR which had a long, long line and we had to wait for quite a time. Now there was this tomboy, a girl who looked like a boy, very cropped hair, boy's jacket, pants, shoes, everything about her was manly except that you could not really deny the fact that she is really a girl. Since there was a long line of us, another lady called the attention of the tomboy and pointed the men's CR which was empty, but the tomboy just gave her a blank look and stayed where she was.
I was thinking, of course, she has to pee in the ladies' CR because she is a girl and therefore would pee like a girl. 
But some people think that since she is more manly than girly, then she should go to the men's CR instead.
What do you think? I think it was right for her to be on our line.
But some people think that since she is more manly than girly, then she should go to the men's CR instead.
What do you think? I think it was right for her to be on our line.3 people like this
13 responses
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
Just like you've said, even if she is a tomboy, still, her "parts" are female so the only room she can go through is the ladies' room. I have seen gays go inside men's room as well.
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
24 Feb 13
how about the males who wanted to be a female.
there should 3rd and 4th cr.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
24 Feb 13
She might of been trying to get the line to move faster and thought the girl would get away with using that bathroom easier since she was dressed as a guy. Even if there was something that made her obviously female, those things are not so obvious for everyone. A couple of my Tomboy friends are actually rather curvy and heavy chested and I still would see men look over at them, swat their buddy on the shoulder and say "Yo! Is that a dude!?" 
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
24 Feb 13
To answer the question if the mens room were being used and wasn't one of those one toilet deals that could be locked, she should stick to the ladies room. Maybe she didn't feel comfortable going in there anyway.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
25 Feb 13
Kissing to get attention from others is anything but hot. Not saying they all do it for that reason, but a lot of girls will kiss other girls just to get a guy to want them.
I am uncomfortable by anyone kissing in front of me, but two guys is little sweeter because the few I've seen its like they really care for each other and aren't trying to get anyone to look at them.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
I know a lot of tomboys and most of them are really hot. It still bothers me as to why looking at two girls kissing is hot while looking at two boys kissing is gross. But yep, a lot of tomboys are hot, some even look like they model.
I think that is the same too with gays, a lot of gay people are really handsome
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@stanley777 (9401)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
Maybe that lady didn't know that she was a girl because as you have said, she looks, acts and dressed up like a man. Or maybe the lady knew that she was one and was only joking when she pointed the men's CR. Yes, she had all the right to be in your line.
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@stanley777 (9401)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
You maybe right, but as cutie have said even she had done all to look manly, she can not deny the fact that she is a woman. Maybe for the lady she is really a man.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
From the looks of it, it seems like the lady was clueless.
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@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
She might have a man's heart but her body speaks that she is a woman. I think she should really urinate at ladies rest room. Some people would just criticize in doing so because she acts like a boy. Homosexuals are still human being and in regards to that thing they should be respected too.
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
24 Feb 13
I can't imagine her using a man's urinal. hahaha It would look awkward seeing her sitting on it. that's the trouble with this women aspiring to be men... they have this dilemma.
and why this woman was a nosy one. hahaha I mean. does the tomboy really looked like a man. that's very embarrassing for her part.
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
24 Feb 13
but still looks like a woman. so she has the right to use the woman's CR.
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@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
If i were the tomboy, i would have taken the opportunity if i coudnt wait any longer. I'm sure they have toilets too in the male CR as males take a dump too. I'd make use of those.
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@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
I think I'd do more good going on to the other toilet as i will make the line move faster. 
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
24 Feb 13
I for one am glad that she stood her ground, someone not as strong willed could have easily of been bullied into using the men's. A thought crossed my mind, didn't the gents have cubicles or were they only urinals? Of course you wouldn't know that, but most gents toilets have both, so if no one was using the gents, and the ladies were desperate I can't see no harm in using the gents for emergency purposes.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
24 Feb 13
That's what I'm wondering. Everyone's talking about sitting on urinals. 
That would be pretty funny
That would be pretty funny
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
24 Feb 13
Hi!
I think the decision of tomboyish girl was right. The suggestion given by the other lady was not wise enough.
Had the tomboyish girl accepted her advice and would have ventured into men's CR and by chance a man would have entered (thinking that the CR is meant for men only)........you could imagine...... what would have happened
........there would have been loud screams and shouts from both the parties and a scene would have created on the site.
........there would have been loud screams and shouts from both the parties and a scene would have created on the site.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Feb 13
hi cutie that woman had the brains of a billygoat or maybe less than a bill y goat telling a girl no natter how tomboyish she looks to go to the mens room. She is still a girl with the girl's anatomy which in sending her to the mens room could result in some male coming in there, seeing she is a little girl and molesting her.no let her use her own common sense and go to the women's room. sometimes people can be such imbeciles. ugh.
@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
24 Feb 13
That is crazy of course, she should have been on the female's line. Just because she is a tomboy doesn't mean she can go into the men's room. What I think though you females should have done if no one was using the men's room form another line and use that one too. So the line would go quicker. That would have made more sense since none of the guys were using it.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
That's right they should have divided the line and let the others use the male toilet if no one was using it. A toilet is a toilet and pee is pee. Its a physiological need and you have to get it off.
But most probably she saw that no one was in the men's room.
@else22 (4317)
• India
24 Feb 13
She is actually a girl no matter how she's dressed.If she goes into the men's urinal,how she would urinate?I hope,you have got me.A girl can't pee like a man.She would have to unbutton her pant and.....That's risky.Imagine what would happen if suddenly a man enters the men's urinal and finds her peeing there.Won't it be an extremely embarrassing moment for the girl.If I am a girl dressed like a man,I would never go into the men's toilet.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
24 Feb 13
it was right of her to stay in the line with the rest of the women
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
24 Feb 13
if it a girl let her go if a boy well mens room now if no one was using the mens a woman could have stand out side and keep watch but well i am a man and i know just how gross men can be but when you got to go you got to go
