My Neighbor's Loud Mexican Music

@MoonGypsy (4606)
United States
February 24, 2013 6:19pm CST
the one thing i don't like about living in my neighborhood is having to listen to mexican music all the time. i don't like it one bit and my neighbor starts blasting it early in the morning, like at 11am. i could hear it loud and clearly from my backyard. i like to go back there in the morning and have coffee and cigarette's in peace and quiet. i can't do that without mexican music blasting. i wish i knew a way to put it to a stop. i don't want to go up to them, because it could cause a confrontation, but i would like to know who i could complain to so that i could get it to stop. she is infringing on my right to have peace and quiet and that's not fair. she is being inconsiderate and makes everyone listen to her mexican music. i wish her speakers would blow out. anyone know who i could complain to.
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21 responses
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
25 Feb 13
You can always blas your music as a counter attack ( \0/ music war arghh) Maybe call the police or talk with your neighbourd until she quits. :P I live in raral area so i can blast my music :3 but people start looking and that´s strange :|... fortunately im the only one who likes to blast music hihi ;) but if anyone says to stop i would low the sound of course ^_^ I wouldn´t put it louder to ignore what they say
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i would blast her out if i could, but i don't have the sound power. she is just a big sound bully. you can't compete if you tried.
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
thats ok, we all look at you kinda strange kid.. What uppppp ??
@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Feb 13
I can never understand why these Mexican people like to blast their music through out the neighborhood, and can't keep the sound volume down to their own ears only. My former Mexican neighbor used to be that way like your neighbor, he like to play his Mexican music right through the roof day and night when he is at home, sit in his car, or doing his gardening outside. I am quite fortunate that the police department in my city is able to take care of this problem for me in the middle of the night one day, so from that time on ward, he is behaving quite well and agree to keep the music to himself only and not the whole neighborhood. May be it is the way Mexican like to listen to their music, blast through their speakers and keep everyone at edges. It seem like they have trouble listen to the music when it is played softly in low volume, it seem to me almost everyone of them like to listen to Mexican music in such a manner - loud and blasting through the roof to actually enjoy it. Go figure!!!
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
omg! your post is breath taking thank your for saying it! thank you for being my voice! i think what they are trying to do is make a statement that they are here and they aren't going anywhere like it or not. other than that, why does she think that i will want to listen to her music. she KNOWS i wouldn't. i am not mexican. they make me so mad!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
25 Feb 13
Join the club, I've been listening to rap music ever since the people moved in downstairs from me (6month)now. I'm afraid to confront them also since out of 8 apartments I'm the only white person and all 4 downstairs plus my next door neighbor are black, a Mexican lady across and 1 empty apartment which I'm sure I know who's gonna move in there. I don't care what race or color they are but I don't wanna hear all that boom boom music all the time. I finally went to the office a couple weeks ago and they said they put out a notice about noise control and blah blah blah, and if it gets to loud they told me to call the cops.....I really don't wanna do that so I just live with it for now. I'm thinking about switching apartments though once my lease is up but then who knows what my neighbors will be then.....
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
yes, see i don't blame you. that would make me sick. i don't like rap music either. and i agree with you for not wanting to call the cops. that could make you a mark in your neighborhood.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
25 Feb 13
You could do what we did when we were living in a flat. My neighbour played loud music. I invited her to my place and asked her whose music she could hear at my place. My music was on too but she said she heard music that she was playing at her house. That set matters right.
• United States
25 Feb 13
At least they were willing to come over to your house to do that.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
25 Feb 13
I just asked whether they would mind coming and seeing whose music they can hear in my house and they obliged. We were friends and so our tone was friendly too!
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
that was a really good way to do it. the only thing is, i think she knows well that the music is coming over into my yard. how could anyone not, they way the houses are set up next to each other. our back yards are linked separated only by a fence.
@FrugalMommy (1438)
• United States
25 Feb 13
This might be an extreme option, but you could possibly contact the police about the noise. Our town has an ordinance that says you can't make an excessive amount of noise. We had a neighbor a few years ago who lived across the street from us and decided one day to play his music loud enough to rattle my windows. I asked him to turn it down and he refused to do it. I called the police and filed a noise complaint... she was only a couple months old at the time. He ended up getting arrested and charged with disturbing the peace because his music was so loud.
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
that is ashamed that he had to be arrested, but it wasn't your fault. your tried to be reasonable with him. then, the law came over and he got rebellious with them. that's what got him arrested.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
Sorry to hear that.. but if it wasnt mexican music youd have some american playing loud rap crap music. So youll lose anyway you see it.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
okay, but i think if i was forced to hear something, i wouldn't rather it not be mexican music. i hate rap, but i would rather here that, instead of god forsaken mexican music.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
this is very true. the only thing is i think i am the only one who is most effected by the music, since i am so close up on her. i am her main audience. i say, if she is going to force me to listen to something. she should know that i hate mexican music. lol.
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
true, but ever think they might feel the same way? Should matter what kind of loud music is playing. If its to loud its bad for everyone....
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
25 Feb 13
Sounds like a selfish neighbour from hell, if you don't mind me asking is the property she is living in rented or bought? If rented, you could find out who she rents to and put in an anonymous letter complaining about her noise. I have had problematic neighbours in the past and the police won't lift a finger you have to go to the noise abatement department of your council and it's a long drawn out process too and now I find that they won't take action on anonymous tip offs! Or you could talk to the other neighbours who find the music a nusiance and get together as a posse to complain to her, power in numbers and all that!
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i wish i had other people on my side with this. unfortunately, most of the people i am stuck living around are mexican just like her. they are her friends and not affective by the music like i am. i am the only who is because i live right up under her. she is the only one who does it around here, too.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
25 Feb 13
Dear Moon: I feel for you, I really do! I'm a Canadian who drives over 2000 miles each Oct so I can live for 5 months in the warm Texas sunshine, eating Mexican food, and listening to Mexican music. I love the Mariachi, and never miss an opportunity to hear it. The majority of residents of McAllen,Texas are Mexican-Americans. They are good neighbors, and take every opportunity to Thank those of us who spend quality time in their city. We enjoy living here partly because of our interaction with our Mexican-American friends!
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
well, doesn't that sound like a nice PSA for mexicans. yeah mexicans!
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
what do you think creates racism. stuff like that.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
by the way. i am not racist for you info. i just hate some of the stuff they do. it's a difference. so, bah ha ha ha to that. POW THERE! so, you can't annoy me.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
25 Feb 13
Hi Moon, Well 11am is not early at all. Most places have noise ordinances for between 9am and 9pm but the noise should be within reason. If it is that outrageous, I suppose you could report it and let the police decide. If it were me, I'd go over and just talk to her and ask if there is a way she could at least turn it down a bit. There is no need to be confrontational but just ask her. I think I would go that route rather than just calling the cops on her.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
the problem is, i know she will probably be nasty about it, or not do it. she has been blasting her music like that for years. i don't want to call the cops, either. i hate dealing with cops, but there must be a way where i could enjoy the peace and quiet of my own yard.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
1 Mar 13
I just saw your other discussion which tells us she moved so that is good for you. If it ever happens again...there are also excessive noise ordinances that go beyond the hours of 9am to 9 pm. If the music is excessively loud then it does not matter what the hour is, you can report it and the cops will make them turn it down. I know what you mean about calling the cops. I don't like doing that to people either but if it is really affecting you then that may be the best way to go.
@celticeagle (158723)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Feb 13
Doesn't your neighborhood have any rules. Most do.If there is I would address it to the manager or head person. I would try writing them a sweet note. Nicely worded, not too apologetic or anything. They may not realize it is so loud.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
well, as far as the notice. i would not do it that way either. to me, that's the same thing as going up to them. they would know very well that it was me who wrote it. they know that i am the one most effected by the music.
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@celticeagle (158723)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Feb 13
I would just go over and say something. If they have an attitude leave.
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
25 Feb 13
Maybe you could go to the police or the head of your neighborhood. Or you could ask some other neighbors if this bothers them and if it does go with them to talk to her about the loud music.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i wouldn't even try to confront her. she has to much power and backing in this neighborhood. i think she might even turn it up louder.
@Chico1793 (135)
• United States
25 Feb 13
I agree with Laydee. You can try that anonymous note though you said she will know it is from you. I know how you feel. I enjoy some quiet relaxing time every now and then. Who does not? I hardly get it in my area either. If that doesn't work though I guess you can call the authority to ask her to keep it at decent volume I suppose.......
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i think i will have to do just that. find out who the authorities are. i should know who they are any way just for general purposes.
• United States
26 Feb 13
If that woman were to blast at full volume a different genre of music, would you still be bothered as much as you are with Mexican music? Just a question don't want to begin an argument :) my neighbors used to blast full metal rock that type where they scream and you can barely understand what they are saying haha. We never argued against eachother bring we lived next to eachother for six years haha but sometimes the music would be a little too loud and I would sneak into my brothers room to lower it slightly hehe. We got along okay I suppose never had any altercations of any type.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
25 Feb 13
It sounds really frustrating and annoying. I don' tknow what you can do either. I play my music loudly but I live in the boonies. there is at least 100 yards between houses out here! there is not you know walking distance for people to hear my loud music. I'm sure mostly they can't hear it even if I do play it loudly. I am considerate too that I won't play it too loudly at certain times just in case they still are bothered by it. I don't know what you can do otherwise but get throgh it unfortunately 11 am is kind of early but not compared to some hours I suppose... I don't know.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
yes, 11 am is very early in the morning. in fact, it's about that time for her to start now as i type this. she goes on until about when she has to go pick the kids up from school. that's like 2:30 to 3pm. no one else will complain, even if they are affected by it, because she has been living there a long time for one. for another thing, they are all mexican too. sigh.
• United States
1 Mar 13
I see from your other discussion you're now free of her routine. This can be wonderful and Im' sure you feel so much better now with that release.
• India
25 Feb 13
Before complaining to anybody you should ask her kindly to lower the speakers volume so that you can live in peace and may be she will understand this. I think by talking to her your problem can be solved. But if she still not listening to you then you should take the help of the cops.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i wish there was some way the cops could also not make her retaliate against me in anyway, but they can't. so, that's what stops me. another thing is that she will have alot of allies. most of the people around here are mexican.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
sorry, i don't make friend with neighbors. i especially don't want to be friends with her.
• India
25 Feb 13
Then try to sort out things via talking. Try to become friend with her.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
I'm having the same problem with my roommate as well, only she plays club music which is frustratingly noisy to me. I can relate to your hesitance in having to confront. I haven't confronted my roommate, as well, although there were times I was really, really tempted. I don't want her to feel I'm restricting her because it's her space too. However, I've decided the next time she wakes me up again with her loud music, I'll talk to her. I just hope I'll be calm enough to talk to her gently and rationally, though.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
that's horrible, you live right up under it. that would really frustrate me, which is why i don't like the idea of roomates.
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
I think I'd just report that neighbor to the authority. Although is eleven in the morning, it's still not an excuse for them to play loud music. She has no respect for her neighbors, and gee, not everyone is Thalia's fan!
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i wish i knew who the neighborhood authority was. i would have already called them. i think the only neighborhood authority around here is the police, unfortunately.
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
There are laws that govern that situation. Just as pollution, his is a case of noise pollution, public disturbance that can be referred to the authorities.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
the only thing i am afraid of at this point, is becoming persona non grata in the neighborhood. that could be very dangerous. i know if i report, i will be outnumbered.
• Indonesia
25 Feb 13
i love mexican music. why don't you?
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i don't think it would be right for me to go into it. lol. so, i will just plea the fifth on that one. i don't like mexican food either.
25 Feb 13
Well there is nothing much you can do other than going up to them and confronting them. You dont have to shout or warn them, just tell them that how much it bothers you. Tell them that once a while is ok abut everyday is annoying. Tell them that if they want to listen then play the music in a volume that wont reach you. Even if after that they do not stop then i guess a police complaint is in order.
@looker89 (11)
25 Feb 13
Well, maybe you should just get out for a while. Try to get into mall. Maybe you can also call for police. But the best solution for you is to get a loudspeaker and volume up the music that you like. As the saying goes, "if you can't beat them, then join them".
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
i thought about that just to send her a message, but i don't have the speaker power that she has.