A Pat On Tbe Back?

hirosekiss I had not either til I read several discussions about quitting smoking and how our esponsea had helped them to keep on quitting smoking,Then I realized that yes mylot does have a way of giving us positive feed back from its users. I love my lot for all its complexities not just the earnings part. I also love that I can make friends from all over the world. take care happy mylotting.

Hehehe...friend rose your bad habit is only one biting nails but my bad habit is more like fast talking, fast walking, fast driving, fast eating and loud voice etc. Grand ma I think few bad habits cant leave because the person feel uneasy if they want to leave bad habit like if the person is habitual for smoking or drinking and suddenly leave this then their body problem may start. Miss U I am joining my lot 25 days after.

hi surekharathi oh my but some of those do not sound so bad to me yes smoking and drinking are really addictions that are hard for people to break and sometimes they have to have medical help.I think mylot does help us in a lot of way.

hi john and wilson I am on here so much my right hand has developed carpal channel syndrome which simply put means my right hand now has a tendency to go to sleep which makes typing really difficult and once it wakes up most painful too.

Lovely to know a little more about you, Bionic Woman (by bad habit?)!

hi cats anddogs good to see you here again I hope things are better for you now.I also love to come here to vent and to chat and to see whats going on in the lives of my friends here too.I am doing good now getting over the flu. and I just want to say I think best responses are good

hi artemis I also enjoy having friends from around the world and learning from them and I think its great that we can give out best responses as a sor4 of pat on the back for a response well written.

hi ricki yes I think most of us do get a boost when we get a best response as someone really did recognize our efforts as being really good. We all like to be appreciated I think.

hi ro shigo oh my I did not know that but I am glad you have got some solutions from mylot.I have read some about muscular dystrophy and i know it causes a person many problems .God Love her. I hope you have some help for her now.I will send my own prayers for her health and happiness too and for your own happiness as a good husband to her.

hi GreenMoo Yes it is and I think a lot of us really are very helpful to others here. Of course it depends on the issues and whether or not all of give ccorrect information. so we agree to disagree which makes it a good discussion as we are both being respectful to each other.

jo greemoo yes it really would .I do love it when someone does disagree with me with respect. I did learn from one such response and changed my way of doing something and found it was really better than my old way lol. so I am never too lold to learn something new. the old saying : you can't teach an old dog new tricks" is just a bunch of baloney when it comes to people. I am so fortunate that I have n ever becoe senile. My roomie's sister tells me she is so glad I am Kathy's roommate as I can help her as I am not senile. I owe keeping my mind sharp by reading, playing mind games, doing all sorts of puzzles and stil lhaving a good IQ ofa 140

Agreeing to disagree makes for interesting conversation, as you say. If we all agreed about everything, life would be pretty dull!

hi anuraa yes we all need and like some small recognition of our efforts here and a best response can give us that. its a little thing but sometimes little things mean a lot to us mylotters. It is always nice to be appreciated.

hi velvet yes this is a great place to come and vent or rant and get help and comfort from all you many loving people here.I have sent more prayers for your daughter in law too and hpe she will soon recover with no bad side effects.Falls and skull fractures are always serious too.when I fell two years ago I went face down ob polished tile where someone had spilled coffee and so my poor head was saved but my nose was fractured and my cheekbones plus my knee was badly twisted no broken bones but the knee healing took 20 days and was really pretty painful.

okay try again. Once in awhile my right knee hurts but its most like ju t plain old arthritis that I have had for a long time now. It does not last too long . I take my medication for Arthritis and its over. I realized myself that prayer power here in mylot is really powerful.I have sent so many prayers for people here and they were answered too.

Ouch, you were very lucky. Are you having any kind of side affects from your fall? I sure appreciate all of your prayers. Some people don't understand how powerful prayers can be.

whoa Lilylorettal I imaing that keenetged John saw an erro r in my wording and hes is hyst teasing me. No I meant that my lottters also encourage us who are trying to lose wweight . thanks Lily Loretta for coming to my resce but I think John was not rt ying to be mean. okay?.

hi oh my g a whle cart load of typos I imagine that keen eyed Jo h saw an error also hyst should be just

One would think any sensible myLotter would understand what Auntie H meant, but you know the old saying, "There's always one!" (generally said in a groaning tone; a bit like "Abraham Lincoln"'s "Only Burnside could have managed such a coup, wringing one last spectacular defeat from the jaws of victory.")

hi stutjodee yes I find them to really be supportive and compassionate too. thank you for the kind words. yes our family members sometimes do not really tell all the truth and just tell ys what theytfeel we would like to hear. I am reminded of little Hattie when I worked as a nurses aide years back.Hattie lived in our boarding house and worked in the hospital's kitchen. She w as diagnosed with cancer and it had spread through out her body but the doctor did not tell he she only had weeks to live.??she finally asked us nurses aids and nurses for the truth. Dottie and I did softly and gently tell her what she already was sure of so she could settle her affairs. It felt so hard but she really knew she was dying so we did tell her the truth.Nt eery one will do that either.

hi raine great response as it is because we do not know one other like we would friends off line.So we have no biases and can give honest support and caring to each other. I do really value all the mylot friends I have made and do have some feelings for them too but again I have been here s ix years now. lol

hi maria you kowI am so glad I never continues smoking as nmgt one try as a ninteen year old just made em gag an feel sick to myh tummy so I never ried it again.Others my age were diongikt to look coo., This was during the secnd world war.

wow. My dad smoked for so many years. Like 23-25 years. Im glad you quit as well. But it was hard for him.

yes, its a tough thing they do to stop smoking. i agree they deserve a pat on the back.

hi kokomo yes its wonderful to know someone here really likes your response and gives you a pat for it as we all like to be appreciated for what we do here and its just a really nice gesture to make.

Yes, that is a Great thing about here. We can come talk and share about things going on in our life, or others lives and get some advice and help and feedback, and usually something we may not have considered before. I try and come here everyday as well when I can.

hi tina I even shared abot my carpal tunnel syndrome and got a lot of great ideas too . I hae never been made fun of or told to suck it up if I seem to feel sorry for myself like some friends can do.Mylot is great for not criticizing one too.I think a lot is because we have some great admins who see that we all are good to each other so three cheers for my lot admins,. .

hi Tina I have come here so man times feeling down and all our mytlot friends were quick to come up with encouragement.I have often times felt like it was a therapy center but free with no huge bills from a shrink. I think its a good place to find help from friends and newbies alike, No wonder i come here 'every day. I seek answers at time and I really do get them too.

thanks so much celticEage You know when I had those panic attacks I sometimes felt like I would pass out as I could not seem to breathe. I am so glad I got help from this woman psychologist .she taught me how not to have panic attacks. And when I was forced to come here as I was homeless I had one dusy of a panic attack and Johh the agent from Adult protective services helped me by going with me to the entrance talk withe the admins and suddenly my breathing was okay and I had snapped out of it. And when my son got my computer and monitor out of storage I got on cable and never have had another panic attack.Mylot has really helped me too and just before I came here I got shingles that summer and the only thing hat helped beside my medication was being on mylot. I just did not feel the stinging burning pain when engrossed in someone else;'s problems at all.

It is great that you had this help. I have learned on my own and can usually keep myself from having them. But sometimes if I am already overly stressed they come on and I just don't have the will or the energy or whatever to do what I need to to get them to go away. Mylot is helpful isn't it. Others problems and knowing I can get some good responses is helpful. I hope it is around for another thirty years cause I plan to be. Haha

hi thanks my friend yes when I was ill I had several who called here long distance just to find out how I was, and it was just incredible even pikey called long distance too. I have loved seeing how people really responded to your health and was so glad . its a lovely big family with so many kind and compassionate people here.three cheers for our users

I agree. Hip, hip, hooray

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Like that girl pupil to whom Beethoven said "You are my inspiration". Her response: "Ha ha ha Haah".

hi John and allknowing Of course you have been an inspiration as a lot of mylotterrs have so now I must ssay thanks for all the encouragements and help you have shown for my self and John shares a lot of wonderful humor to make me laugh and brighten up my day too.Why did the gikrl l laugh at Beethoven?

(Sorry, you've heard that before)

hi jenny yes it so good to tell others so they can see mylot is not just a place to earn, but also to get or give help and to do it from our hearts not for money or anything else. WE can feel at home here as nobody is going to fight with us or make fun of us like in some sites that have no admins at all. I was on a diabetes forum and wanted to share with others but we all had this weird doctor who kept making cruel remarks like we were all punished by God so He gave us diabetes. I got so I just could not stand him and left the site.Others also left as he w as always on their cases.

Was he even a real doctor? Maybe he was just trying to present himself as a doctor but he really was not. Anyway, it is much better to be here at Mylot than anywhere else. This is the only site where I feel I am very comfortable at.

HI simplyD Your response sums up so well all that I feel about my lot.,I have come here sick and received help,I have come here to help a person whom I knew needed some encouragement and in doing so made myself feel like a new woman elderly or not.None of us are alone when we co me here as others will help and will cheer you up if nothing else. I just think mylot is truly unique all the way.

Me, i will always come here Hatley. So, when you are down and needs some friends to comfort you, you can always come here to cheer you up. There's no old and young here. We are all of the same age here. Though, i think the idea and experience of the old ones can really surface as the richest.