Loving someone.
By jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
China
March 2, 2013 12:25am CST
We have an ability to love while not everyone had found real love.I'm shy and don't know how to get along with someone i like.What's your method to deal with that? Feeling like loving someone is happy and most people could be in there.Having the same value of life indeed important.
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7 responses
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
2 Mar 13
if you are shy then it will be difficult for you to get the woman of your desire. Women nowadays don't like shy men. It shows weakness and no self confidence. You must find courage to get the woman of your dream. otherwise someone might get her first.. then it is going to be too bad for you..
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
2 Mar 13
oopsies... hahaha I am like a bird shot with a big stone on the forehead. hahaha.. sorry sorry... but nevertheless why not show this man who you are, doesn't need to start the magic words... just be yourself infront of him maybe he will notice you..
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
2 Mar 13
it is a great feel and we share unconditional love towards someone and the feeling is mutual
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 Mar 13
I think it is very hard for shy individuals to open up to others about their feelings. But it is important to work to cope successfully with this in order to have a good relationship. Taking small steps is a good way to start. Until a person feels a little more at ease.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
2 Mar 13
To be honest I don't have any method. People Always liked me and still do and approach me. So the main thing I do (since I like myself the most and want to be with me) is to be NOT there/not been seen. That works fine with me. If I want to be seen it works too, people do approach me and we do have all kinds of chats (even with completely strangers). So I suppose if you have an open attitude people will approach you and feel it. No matter if you are shy or not. But what people do might find annoying/threatening is if someone is clearly showing (it can be felt) he/she is loving someone, adoring someone, etc. With people like that you can't have normal conversation at all and it's even better not to say "hi" either since once you do they hang around your neck like mill stone. Generally speaking I like shy people the most, also because they don't keep on talking. I don't think a lot of talking is needed anyway since body language says enough. So I would advice you to be and stay close to who you are. If you like someone say "hi" without a glazing, adoring look in your eyes. Be open/friendly and see what happens.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
2 Mar 13
While i think that my problem is just not confident enough to approach someone.Really thanks for your open advice.lol,someone can just feel it if we are open attitude and to be naturally.To make the one feel it and then flow it with the next step.
,i don't like talkie people neither cuz it's too noisy.
,i don't like talkie people neither cuz it's too noisy.
@teotimoponcerosacena (1552)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
It is normal for a woman or a man to fall in love to someone but always remember your mind is located above your heart for it to control what your heart cannot for see.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
Well, I think you need to build your confidence and believe that the person will give you time to express yourself. Do not be afraid to show how you feel. Be friends, hang out, know each other better.
