A couple of special days at mylot.

@marguicha (213143)
Chile
March 7, 2013 5:11pm CST
So administration sent us notice that we would earn more today and tomorrow. My fondest wish is that dear greedy mylotters who don`t comment on my replies think again and decide to comment in order to earn more money. . I would have wanted everyone to answer when I reply, but it is not always so. Maybe this is the reward they need. Do you check on your replies at mylot and get disappointed if your answer falls into a void? Don`t get me wrong: if I am the only one the person didn`t answer, I accept it. But I hate those posts with several answers and not a single comment. What about you? How do you feel about this?
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@arpazia (191)
• United States
7 Mar 13
It does not bother me one bit if I don't get any responses. I have only made like 3 or four post and I do prefer to comment more though, I don't care if the original poster doesn't comment on my reply, how annoying it must be to need to comment on every comment.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I don`t mean that we have to comment on every answer. But there must be one or two answers that make it worth while the effort of having written a discussion (or an answer) in the first place. I have learned many things in this site and have several good friends.
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@arpazia (191)
• United States
8 Mar 13
Oh ok I see what you mean. Many replies are good but you're ok with just a few as long as they are meaningful...?
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@arpazia (191)
• United States
8 Mar 13
Oh ok I see what you mean. Many replies are good but you're ok with just a few as long as they are meaningful...?
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Wooohooo! This really excites me. The whole new stuffs we are to see in the site, and of course the offer of mylot that we would have quadruple earnings here in mylot. =) Regarding your inquiry, well yes it bothers me at times especially if i have responded to the discussion and commented and thought mine was a good response that would require a response back too. Usually though when we create discussions few mylot members would bother and go back to these discussions and respond back - that i understand that sometimes there could be nothing more to say. hehe
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 13
you know that last sentence is a real cop out as most people can talk up a storm when in a live conversation so they cannot get their little grey cells to work long enough to comment back on my response if not then the next time I see that persons discussion I will not bother to respond as I do not have to at all.they will soon find that if they want responses they need to comment back to us all.
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I agree with you, Hatley. If a person does not know the meaning of the word "conversation", then why bother. I know that we don`t have time to comment on every post (at least I don`t), but that is quite different that to never make a comment.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
8 Mar 13
hi margz. as we are not so old on this site, we are already used to that situation. well actually, i really am used to receive no comment most of the time when i respond to discussions of people whom are not in my friends list. but sure i get comment from dear friends like you.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
What I don`t like is when some good answers recieve no comment from the person who wrote post. Why did he write in the first place then? It is not as if we were all becoming millionaires by posting.
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@mentalward (14691)
• United States
8 Mar 13
Based on my own life, I really don't mind it if people don't reply to my comments or vice versa. I fully understand that life can get in the way of just about anything. My life is proof of that. Sometimes, my life has gotten so hectic or I've become so depressed that I just want to shut down as much as I can and wait it out. Also, my memory isn't much good these days. So, I won't get upset at anyone else who may be having the same issues I do. I have been trying to get back to my old discussions and respond to everyone but with my life being so very busy these days, it's slow going. Because of that, I have decided not to write any new discussions unless I absolutely need some input into some aspect of my life, at least not until I've resolved all of my previous discussions.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
Dear friend! You are not the kind of person that makles me mad. I know you have problems because you have shared them with us when you have been able to do it. Take care!
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• United States
8 Mar 13
I try to comment on all posts but some times I am not here like I used to be and I start posts and after I do most the time I will have something come up but eventaully I will get to it. I am trying to spend more time here but I work 2 jobs at home and when I am done it is hard to look at the computer from being on it all day. But anyway I hope you are having a good day! Nice to hear from you.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
26 Mar 13
I`m sorry I wasn`t at the door when you came in for coffe 3 weeks ago. I always look for your name and that round flag of Mexico I so love.
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I don`t have all the time in the world either and there are many answers that I cannot comment. But it is nice to recieve a comment once in a while. It`s like having a friend come by just for a cup of coffeee and a hi!
• United States
8 Mar 13
I agree it is very nice to hear from someone here well everyone here you are right and speaking of coffee I think I want a cup now l.o.l.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Well, I do reply to those who have posted their comments on a discussion that I have started. And so far, my experience with it is fair enough. I try not leave out a response coz I feel that each one needs to be commended for their efforts to join and take time.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I know that you reply, jenny. I don`t reply to every person that answers my posts, specially since my hotmail does not show notifications. But still, I know that people know that I care. And we know that you care too.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Thanks so much, mama marguicha! It just made my day!
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@ElicBxn (63187)
• United States
8 Mar 13
I try to comment on people that respond to my discussions, but only if I think I can add something new... not something that could easily have been copied and pasted.
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@ElicBxn (63187)
• United States
8 Mar 13
I guess the thing that bothers me the most, over and above those who don't respond, are those who start a TON of discussions about whatever seems to cross their mind at the moment. Even if they respond back, I just get overwhelmed by people that start 20 or 30 discussions. I'm more likely to respond to a friend who only starts a few...
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
9 Mar 13
I am torn between rage and envy there. I couldn`t posibly write so much and I am a writer in my native language. But it seems that I feel that some things are best kept private, even if we mascarade with a username and an avatar.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
That is true. I have lots of friends that only answer or comment once in a while. What I don`t like are those people who post and post and never go back to read what someone said.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
8 Mar 13
Most of us that care about mylot and have been here a while have been busy posting on discussions about Mylot that are going to deleted or already have so no greediness or extra earnings from us. pretty much all I've replied to has been deleted over the last couple of days. As for not responding back on things ...it's pretty common. their loss.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I have the idea that I care about mylot. And even when I post answers in discusion that get deleted, I do it for the right reasons. I like to converse and it takes two to do it. That`s why I don`t like people thta never go back to see who has responded to their posts.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
8 Mar 13
I feel that there are a lot of people that can be on here all day or all night, where as I can not be on here for as long, due to other real life commitments and health, so I hold my hands up to not being able to respond to all the replies, plus discussions that people are starting. I do feel that there are a lot of discussions that are being started on here all at once and that there is no way that we can keep up and keep every one happy even if we were on here all day as well as all night. I do not mind who replies to any of my discussions, or really who do not, as I feel that we all have other things to do in our lives other than the internet.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
IT happens to many of us here, friend. I was referring really to those people who never comment on anyone`s answers. They don`t seem to go back to read what they posted.
@allknowing (130112)
• India
8 Mar 13
There is not a single response that I ignore. Nor do I ignore comments that I receive. In my case the question just does not arise.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
IAlthough I don`t comment every answer, I comment many. I do as well as I can, in spite of my aching knuckles. But I`m aware that this is a social site and that`s what I like of mylot.
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
9 Mar 13
You are one of my friends, dear. I see your name and say to myself "what will allknowing say about this?"
@allknowing (130112)
• India
8 Mar 13
And even after doing a perfect job here users do not rate me and if you are not rated with the base getting broader every single day the star calculations go haywire. Never mind.I have a bunch of good people here with whom I enjoy interacting and you are one of them!
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• Japan
7 Mar 13
Mylotting and earning - Earning in mylot is fun
I think everyone is busy mylotting and gonna be more busy today and tomorrow trying to get that quadruple earning that they will be getting today and tomorrow and I am really excited too
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I do wish that I knew how to type quicker and how to put my thoughts into English easily. But we will do our best. Don`t you think?
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
We`ll do our best. For the time being, I have a lot of work commenting on this post. I don`t usually get this amount of answers.
• Japan
8 Mar 13
Haha I am a slow typer too and also thinking that English is still difficult so you're not alone;-)
@velvet53 (22523)
• Palisade, Colorado
8 Mar 13
I am sometimes guilty of not replying. I have been so busy that I don't get to some of my sites like I want too. If I have been one that failed to respond to your reply I do hope you will forgive me. I'm trying :)
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@velvet53 (22523)
• Palisade, Colorado
8 Mar 13
I fully understand. I don't post a lot and I know I have been guilty of not responding to a reply but there are times where there is nothing to say. It is still wrong of me to at least acknowledge the reply. I know I don't like it when it happens to me.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
7 Mar 13
hehe i am game for a ton of back in forth I have been doing it all day long
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• Mexico
8 Mar 13
well as much as I try, I do my best to make others happy. Some times you just can't make the answer as long as you wish. Unless the person would like a ton of words that make no meaning. Hope your are having a great day !
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I agree with you. I wouldn`t like a lot of words with no meaning at all. And I`m not capable myself of writing a ton of words myself
@LoKoMoMe (511)
• Belize
8 Mar 13
I feel that too most of the time. I feel to be disappoint on the post that without any respond, one of them is they post a discussion but they dont prefer to reply with your respond, especially that you made a good comment and only waiting for their replies but sad to say they havent at least okay or thank you. how annoying.. :( thanks for sharing this
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I don`t mind so much if my answer was not commented. But I don`t like it when theres no comments at all. The person who started the discussion did not bother to go back and read.
@LoKoMoMe (511)
• Belize
9 Mar 13
right, so that for me I prefer when using mylot, I use my ymail too, at a same time. thanks.
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
26 Mar 13
My lot is a wonderful social site. You discover very nice people and after a time you find yourself with a bunch of them who really care.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 13
I do reply to those who took their time in responding to my discussions. We are supposed to discuss on the topic posted and leaving responses to fate without any acknowledgement of any kind is defeating the whole purpose of starting the discussion. When I don't get replies for my responses then I don't want to waste my time responding to their future discussions as I feel my responses might not be up to the mark thus being neglected.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I agree. And even if I don`t expect that all my answers are commented, I don`t like people who never comment any of the answers they get.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 13
hi marguicha I hate it when I w rk hard to make what I felt was a good response to someones discussion then go back and not one comment on any of the responses, that is just so rude I sometimes have to take several days to comment back on all the responses I get but I do try to cover every single one. its not right not to comment back like that.Also what is a discussion if nobody is going to discuss it?
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I know, friend. For me, mylot is not just a place to earn money, but mainly it is where I relate to people. And I don`t know how to relate with people who will not answer us ever.
@allen0187 (58448)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
hi marguicha. read the notice as well and i was pleasantly surprised with the quadruple earnings for thursday and friday. i think all the mylotters are typing like crazy right now just to make the most out of this very generous offer by the site. about the discussion on hand, yes i do check on my replies and try my best to respond back. no matter how long the discussion has been, i still do my best to respond and post my thoughts to what other mylotters think about the discussion that i started. i think that is common courtesy and truth be told, that is why mylot is here... to foster and create meaningful conversations. cheers and happy mylotting marguicha!!!
@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I am mylotting a bit more, but I will not stop my life for some money. I do like to see more of my friends around though, so I will answer more than on a normal day.
@Porcospino (31367)
• Denmark
8 Mar 13
I appreciate every comment that I get and it is always nice to get some feedback when I write a response, but I don't expect to get a comment every time. Some people keep track of the members who don't comment and decide to avoid their discussions in the future, I don't do that. If I find the topic interesting I respond even if I know from experience that I probably won't get a comment. Sometimes I get a positive surprice when people who don't usually comment suddenly comment. I have experienced that today, but I guess that has nothing to do with the extra earnings
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I don`t mind so much the lack of comments for myself. There are many reasons for which that can happen, But even if I don`t expect that all my answers are commented, I don`t like people who never comment any of the answers they get.
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
8 Mar 13
I do not mind if i get a comment or an answer tho i hope to get both on every discussion i start. I know it won't happen that way but i hope. Just tho not a big deal. tho i try to comment and answer every body's discussions that i can on here. or at least comment on the ones i answer.
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
9 Mar 13
It`s a good approach to it, rose. I am not so irate with what happens to me, but there are lots of people who get sad if noone answers them.
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Mar 13
I try to reply to everyone in my discussions but I am not perfect. What bothers me more is when someone leaves comments to everyone in their discussion except ONE person! That just ticks me off to NO end. But for the ones that do not comment to anyone, that is annoying too. But the first scenario is SO rude to me! Don't ignore ONE person in the discussion, how mean! I hope your doing well marguicha!
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@marguicha (213143)
• Chile
8 Mar 13
I didn`t mean to say that we should comment on everyone`s answers. I couldn`t because I don`t have the time or the skills. I comment on many answers, but what can you comment of answers like "Yeah, you are right!", or other such answers. It`s just not a matter of ignoring as I see it. But in a conversation, you have to have something to say. I`m fine, friend. After these mylot marathon days are over, I`ll start thinking on where to go for an outing. My oncologist found me as healthy as I can be