accept or not

@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
March 8, 2013 6:54am CST
Now I know many who have posted inappropriate pictures say posting themselves in bras, or revealing parts. Now a friend just posted some inappropriate pictures of her childbirth. One being clearly the kid just came out, another the kid was laying on her but she didn't have a shirt on. A another friend said it's a happy moment, well what is the difference from some drunk person taking a picture in the mirror in their bra than some nasty picture of a kid being born. I find the pictures disgusting and inappropriate so I reported it to Facebook. Another friend was saying how rude that was, I said it's the same thing very inappropriate I don't really care if it's a happy moment in life and having a kid. When I log into Facebook I don't want to see that.
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13 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Really inappropriate, If I'm her friend I think I will send a private message to her.
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@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
I agree with you, ma'am. It's kind of awkward sharing that on your profile for all of your friends to see. Even if it's not an issue to the poster herself, showing her like that I mean... but others might just not like it....
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
That's really disgusting. You did the right thing. They can keep the picture but they should not post it in public.
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Yes, that's why Facebook is asking us to report abusive pictures. I hope they will choose only the pictures which are decent. Facebook is not about showing skin. Of course they have their freedom to post what they want to post but some people find this unacceptable.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
10 Mar 13
You are right, they can post similar pictures but not as graphic. I am wondering if anyone else reported it or not.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
8 Mar 13
I agree, it's fine to have them, and share with amily but posting them online.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Mar 13
Yes it is a happy moment but it is also a PRIVATE moment! I would FLIP if someone took a picture of me having my kids and posted it on facebook, I darn sure would NOT do it myself! Your absolutely right, no one else wants to see that and I would not want them to see it. Having a child is a beautiful thing but it is also a private moment!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
14 Mar 13
It is, but again save it for friends and family not everyone on Facebook to see.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
10 Apr 13
I have put pictures up after the baby was born but none that were that intimate, but to some people that is a loving moment which it is, but something that might be only shared with family and then share the clothed ones at a later time.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
8 Mar 13
You are right.. when is to much to much? I think she has posted to darn much.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
8 Mar 13
Exactly, it's one to take the pictures for family, but posting them public.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
8 Mar 13
well it great if a person takes pics and video of them giving birth but I sure do not want to be seeing it I lived though it once with my ex wife nothing I ever care to see again in this life time or in my next
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
8 Mar 13
I just think it's inappropriate to post on facebook for the world to see. Now taking pictures or videos for family and showing in private is fine.
• Mexico
8 Mar 13
that i think I could handle but to just look at a profile and up comes photos no
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
I think you have a point there. I wouldn't want to be seeing those things (regardless how happy you are), there's what you call Photoshop, right? You can just blur out everything except the baby. Those things should be limited to the family and not for everyone else to see. You're right doing that. But I guess I won't have the same strength as you do, I'd probably just unsubscribe from her list so that I wouldn't get to see those things. As for your friend. I think she was still in too much daze with the whole childbirth thing that she forgot to be in her senses. She'd surely regret showing her stuff there for the people to critique on. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
• United States
9 Mar 13
I always limit family pics for that reason. You never know what will offend someone. I wish others would feel the same sometimes. Not just for pictures, but other things they share with all as well.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
9 Mar 13
I don't think that child birth is nasty and I think that it should be more than fine for someone to post pictures of it on facebook. If you don't like the pictures then don't look at them it's really that simple. Child birth is probably the greatest gift of life in this world and I think it is something that should be celebrated. Of course it is a bit graphic and not always pleasing to the eyes but if someone wants to share pictures of arguably the best moment of their lives then they should definitely be allowed to.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
8 Mar 13
Some things are meant to be kept private and that is one of them. I can't understand why someone would think to post that on a public site. As time progress I am noticing people are getting too relax and open on the internet. Then in the future they might complain about violation of privacy when they were the ones who called it down on their selves. I consider the birth of a child like an absolute miracle. I see it as really amazing, but I think everybody would feel better if certain pictures are kept in the family.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
9 Mar 13
I would object to such display of inappropriateness too. That's the problem with online sharing. People somehow lose their inhibitions. Don't they realise who else would be seeing those pictures? It could include children of their friends as well. Have you considered giving some feedback to your friend about this matter? If she would listen, good. Otherwise, you should really consider spending less time on the social site and spend more time here in myLot. It's safe here.
@salma07 (639)
• India
8 Mar 13
ya i agree with you, but thank god non of my friend are that inconsiderate as to post an inappropriate photo of themselves but some stupid people do post some very disturbing picture of other people who have suffered, like corpse of war victim or child abuse extra. These photo are of graphic nature and they bring the violence of war and torture to you when you are not expecting them. What they dont understand is that some people are sensitive and will be disturbed due these picture. I stopped going to facebook because even though i tried to stop one friend another started following the trend. I didnt want to hurt them as i know they have pure intension and are good people but i couldnt handle these things and stay calm and carry on with my day-today life.
@else22 (4317)
• India
9 Mar 13
That's really disgusting.Quite inappropriate.Pics of delivery are really upsetting.And the one in which the mother is topless with her child on her.I don't understand how they reveal their bodied for the whole world to look.I would say,it's offending.You did the right thing by reporting it to Facebook.Disgusting!