why girls need boys to propose first

India
March 17, 2013 9:54pm CST
Even thought they fell in love with each,they are still waiting for proposal from guys.why cant they propose first? we all know mostly boys exposes his love first, even though he knows she is in love with him.some of girls will tell their love in a indirect manner.why cant they expose their love?
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
I think its the society and the culture that dictate that situation. There are some contries which are quite conservative when it comes to courtship.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
19 Mar 13
I prefer the guys would do the first action rather than girls because its more romantic if the guy would expose more of their love than girls. And that is the time you would know that the guy really loves you and that he is serious with you. It is more often the guys would do the first action coz' if girls would do they would look like they are easy to get.
• India
19 Mar 13
yes i can understand what you really expect from guys.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
19 Mar 13
Well, thank you for understanding...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
Call me old school but I still feel that it is best that the man proposes to a woman because I do believe that it is most likely that a man is going to be a responsible husband for her. What I mean is, a man is the one who should take care of the family. And so he has to make sure that he is ready to start his own. It is hard for a woman to propose to a man, coz it is not just being financially stable that could be in question but also the emotional capabilities of the man.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Mar 13
Hi, I don't know, it would be nicer if girls do it like the boys do. What's women's liberation and equality anyway? There are girls who earn more than the boys, still the tradition seems to stick around. Or maybe, girls have their own style of making it not so open and direct, thus the perceived difference.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
24 Mar 13
To my opinion women show their love way easier as men do. Women say a billion times they love the guy, men seldom do. So it's kind of useless to propose to a man who never said he really loved you or gives you the idea he is (still) not ready to get married (marriage means in most cases he can't be that hunter anymore). BTW there are plenty of women who do propose the man but this for sure also depends on the culture where you live or been raised up as a woman!
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Because man are supposed to be the provider and the one who protect the family. If ever a girl prupose to a guy, there might be reason why a girl did that. It could be she doesnt want to wait forever for a guy who will commit or doesnt want. She doesnt want to waste years to wait for nothing. Xx
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
18 Mar 13
It's just tradition. It stems from the older times... and old-timey things are really romantic. I myself like guys to take stuff like these into their hands. Also, some guys would feel as if they lost their masculinity if a girl proposed...
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
For me, i prefer girls who just wait to be noticed or proposed by a guy, i believe that girl who make the first move is an easy to get kind of a girl or some kind of a liberated girl. On the girl side, maybe it is awkward for them to propose first, because normally the boys is the one who make the first move.
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
18 Mar 13
I think, nowadays there isn't any difference between girls and boys in the matter making proposals. In past things were so. It may be due to societies set up where men/boys are being given more power to take decisions and responsibilities.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
18 Mar 13
Hi friend...yes you are right, most of girls want the boys to propose first, although she also loves the boy. I think the girls want the boys responsible with their relationship, because the girl or the boy who propose first, she or he will keep the relationship more than who receive love, that's why the girls prefer the boys to propose first...But, it is just my opinion friend...