Waiting For Him....

@Dassodils (2010)
India
April 7, 2013 1:42pm CST
Haiii friends... How are you..?? Now,my main hobby is waiting for him on the meeting place.I will call him and say the place which we can meet safely.Then I will reach at the correct time.Then he will be late almost time..On the last meeting I given him warning.I wish he will not repeat this.some times,he will be too early.. :) and what about you?? do you have such experience??
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18 responses
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
7 Apr 13
hello there, quite an unusual topic to discuss,but its different.Well personally I've never let my girlfriend waited when we were together,In fact I don't like to keep someone waiting,doesn't matter if its my girlfriend or someone else. Getting back on the discussion,During college day's i knew it's difficult for a girl to be alone and wait for someone,So i use to manage everything on time and use to make sure I've reached on time.Now as we are far apart from each other,we don't wait anymore.She is in India and I'm out of country for a long time. moved on.. Best of luck, RAJ
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
7 Apr 13
she should call him and see what's taking so long.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
8 Apr 13
I also think it is a good idea to call and ask whats taking so long for him to come.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
Raj..Thank you for your open reply..Why both of you are staying in different countries?? Is it because of any job related need??Moon and Ajith..most time,i will not carry phone when go out..Thank you..
@celticeagle (159027)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Apr 13
I am fine. Who is it you are meeting and why does it have to be 'safe'? Time sensitive places and if he's too early it's a problem. What is that all about?
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
her parents wanted her to have an arranged marriage but she is in love with this you ngnd man I do hope they do not m ke things worse wtih sneaking around as I suggest that they go as a couple and talk to her parents as even ter parents must h ave a heart to see a girl deeply in love?
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@celticeagle (159027)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Apr 13
But when it comes to traditions the parents probably have to stand by the arrangement. They could lose face in he community or something. I feel bad for her. Does she love him enough to go against her parents and tradition?
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
No... We are not planning for a love marriage.We hope for love come arranged marriage.I know that it is tough to happen it.And there have no any wrong thing with our relation ship to against it.So it will be suiting to our tradition and culture.Thanks...
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
7 Apr 13
no, i have never had this experience. your story sounds kind of romantic. me and my husband should meet up at special places.
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
Ya... as you are married,you have the license to meet any where you like.But that is not a practical thing in our matter.Our relationship should be very secret till we both go to my parents.Thank you.. friend..
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Apr 13
With my best male friend that is not my husband, we will constantly talk about the fact that he doesn't run on the same time as we run on, he instead runs on what we will affectionately refer to as Donnie time. This means that if he says he is going to be just a couple minutes, it will be at least an hour after the time that you expect to meet with him. I really don't like waiting on him so I've taken to telling him that I'm going to be somewhere significantly before the time that I intend to be there.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
12 Apr 13
now,he changed that behaviour and if he think that he will be late,He will call me and say the exact time of reaching there.Thank you for sharing your experience.Thank you..
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
8 Apr 13
No. I had no such experience in my life. May be good or for bad, I had a differnt style of life and I don't think there won't be much people like me with a typical experience. Any way, I understand that you got into a diversion in your life and at the time of peak stydy time, you got a better time pass too. Try to balance this life with stydy and love together with a better experience and hope you are passing through the golden times for any girl like you.
• India
11 Apr 13
Hi good morning, I think you misunderstood with the word 'time pass'. I used NOT in the normal usage of 'timepass', but with the real sense of time pass. If we think sepearately the word time pass, like time and pass, means the time that we crossing out is diverting or passing into our life. Means, the time we sepend with the speical person, speical occastions, speical events were make waves into our mind and it will remain for ever. If we get a rare chance to meet and speak with Dr. KJ Yesudas for a short period, for us it is a real time pass and would be a life long experience and it directly passing the time (moments) into our life experience and will remain for ever. Similarly, the with all life hardships, studies, life patters etc., when we get a person to share and memorise our moments, it will be an asset for the coming years. Means, when you be in the age of 50s or 60, these days and the memories passed by the time into your mind will be a great asset or experience. So, the 'time pass' word that I used for you is not with a bad intention, but with a devine purpose. May be in the later part of life, you will really understand the value of this time and wish you all the best for the coming days!
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
Hey Thanks, I am not considering this relationship as a time pass.I love him really.There have no other man in my life..Thank youu... :)
@jearl02 (211)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Hi Dassodils, everything is fine with me here. I HOPE he won't be late again as it is really irritating to wait for someone when you have already agreed the time and place to meet. At some point, being late is somewhat associated with some of us. In the Philippines, we call it a "Filipino time." It has becoming a habit, a bad habit in particular. This isn't good at all because it doesn't feel good to wait especially when you already agreed and when you sacrifice some important appointments just to meet this someone.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
11 Apr 13
Wow..thank you for sharing the name of that situation.Is there any more functions that effecting to this thing?? Please share it.. Thank you..
@jearl02 (211)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
Thanks for the appreciation Dassodils. What I love most about responding to your discussions is that I can be very sure that you will respond to my response. Well, in the Philippines, Filipino time is a common habit especially in rural areas and in mini-activities. The funny thing is that when an activity is suppose to start at 8am, the group shall agree to meet at 7am. Some members who have known that the program is actually expected to start at 8am will intentionally plan to arrive at 9am. However common, the habit of being late is slowly given a remedy. Some have realized the cost of time and I am hoping that the Filipino time habit will be eradicated soon.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
8 Apr 13
I pride myself on my reliability and I get easily disappointed when others are not the same, I hate waiting around, time is precious, if you have agreed a time then surely you would do your best to arrive on time, it's not good to keep someone waiting.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
12 Apr 13
ya..I don't like to make a waiting person.so I will reach there at time.Thanks
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
hi dassodils I hope he does try to be more on time but seriously how long can you keep this up as it sounds like you two are in love. is there not a way you could just do it , I u mean get married and have that to present to your parents, I know I am coming here with my American mores and culture but to me love is the same no matter where you are and you two cannot keep doing this for years, you need to get married and settle down parents or no parents. I hope they can see that you really do love this man.wont you have to tell your parents sometime? what if you get caught by your parents? Would that not make your parents harder to deal with your love?
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
Haaiii Hatley.. first of all,thank you for your reply..You are right.as there,here also have some people who believes in love.But in most views,Who get married with out their parent's permission,that girl or boy is not good.every one will laugh at them..That is the main reason..We hope for a love come arranged marriage.He is just perfect.my parents can't to find a problem with him... :)
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
hello Dassodils! i remember it was my boyfriend who waited for me and no matter how late i came to a date he would wait for me though often times very impatiently i hope your boyfriend will be a gentleman enough to come early or to come on time and not let you wait around for him.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
yaa..from next time,he will be obedient.. :) I am sure about it.I told that I will not come to see you if you are getting late every time..How your life is going on now???may god bless you..
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
8 Apr 13
Well change your hobby to making him wait, instead of waiting for him .Then he will realize and meet you in time.Anyways you guys are a cute couple so best wishes from my side.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
11 Apr 13
Thank you Grvdubey.. I am trying to make a new way to teach him..Thank for you rely..
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
8 Apr 13
just keep waiting for him and one fine day he will come and reach out to you and be happy then for sure
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
12 Apr 13
Yaa..I believe that everything will be fine.I will wait for him.and I am sure that he will realize me one day..
@dhanuhk (13)
9 Apr 13
oh..Don't give him warning.tell him it from lovely words.As i think,now he will come early.I never have experience.becouse I haven't girl friend yet.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
12 Apr 13
don't worry..A good girl is waiting for you dear friend..I will try my best to solve this problem.I will be very angry before seeing him.But when I see,I will be very pleasure.and I will forget to say this..Thanks
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
8 Apr 13
that,s so cool. I never had this type of experience. But, when I will have someone, I will never let her wait and i will reach there early. I hope your boyfriend will not repeat his mistakes again
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
11 Apr 13
Ya..Me too hope so..Sometimes,he will be too early and when I reach there,I will feel very kindness by seeing his face.His face will be seen like droop.So that From the next time onwards,I will be early or on time..Thank you..
• India
8 Apr 13
waiting can be a painful thing to do but waiting for your loved one is not a bad thing.but as afar as i am concerned i am a very punctual person who like to be on time everytime. i havent waited for long time still in my life. may be who knows in future i would have to wait for my lover. i dont know how i will respond then.i am waiting to wait.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
12 Apr 13
That is nice.At the starting time,I was very fear.and will reach at the place of crying.Then now,I changed as a bold girl.Thanks..
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Apr 13
I hope he comes early from the next time onwards. I think most probably you can ask him to come early and meet you.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
9 Apr 13
Ya.. next time,if he is continuing this,I will surely punish him.. :) Thank you for your reply..
• Mexico
20 Apr 13
Hi Dassodils: I understand why you feel angry with your hubby. I hope you had given him the chance to explain why he made you wait because this could be a reason but it's also good that you make him know that this should not happen because he also has to care for your relationship and time is very important in these circumstances. ALVARO
@HONEYPALS (270)
• Nairobi, Kenya
7 Apr 13
Dassodils, I am sorry to hear that waiting can be a hobby. Time is everything...you cannot buy it with silver or gold...you cannot add a minute to a day...how you use it is all that matters...it waits for nobody...not even the nobles...so why wait for him if he never keeps time!
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Apr 13
Oh..I didn't mean so... I love him than every one.But I don't like this type of activity that happened so many times from him..On the last time,I have warned him that I will not wait for you on next time.Then he agreed that he will come on time..Thank you for reply..
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
30 Apr 13
Well, if he really a man he should have that "Word OF HONOR" and he should be right on time. And here in our country, it is not the woman who will gonna wait for the man instead it should be the man who will always waits for the woman. Well, we cannot predict some situation when the man is getting late with the time you agreed to see each other. Sometimes he needs to fix things first very important before he could reach you and let you to be wait. Just be patient if you love him and it is tolerable if it is not your habit to wait.