How many heartaches did happened to you?

I had 3 long term relationships before I met my husband. The first breakup happened when I was in my 20's. I ended the relationship, and we remained friends after our relationship was over. That was the least paoinful breakup I have experience. The second long term relationship I had ended in a bad way. We were supposed to move in together and I was going to move from my town to the northern part of Denmark where he lived. I applied at a nursing school in his part of the country and I got admitted. Just before I was supposed to move he suddenly changed his mind and broke up with me. Unfortunately it too late to change my application at that time so I had to move to his part of the country anyway. The third long term relationship that I had ended 5 years ago, and that breakup was very painful. Today I am happy that we broke up because I met my husband after that relationship ended.

I have had only one major breakup that was horrendus on my heart. It was a man I met when I was 20 years old. He was a bit older which I didn't know until it was too late. Anyway we were together for eleven years. We had two baby girls together but after numerous cheating on his part I gave up and told him it was over. I truly wanted the relationship to work but he was in another mindset and I couldn't take it anymore. It was hard to deal with especially having the two girls but I did it and survived. No regrets because he was the one that screwed up. Now 27 years later he is all by himself and I'm happy in a relationship that will mark 25 year anniversary in a couple of weeks.

Break ups? I didn't mind to count , cause it hurts so much i chose to forget it right away. But if you want an idea about it, watch One More Chance starring John Lloyd and Bea. You can at least have an idea how hurtful it would be once you saw the movie.

I lived with my heartache. It is like a cancer , it is very painful ! It is with me for more than 3 years ! Don't ask as painful; it is because it can never be described . Only the person involved can fully described it ! No books , or any prints can define it ! So just be ready with this scenario , i am not threatening you but this are the whole truth. There are also exemptions on this , some are so blessed that they didn't suffer this but all happiness. It varies to each and everyone.

I didn't have any breakup til now. Because, i didn't get committed with anyone. I proposed to some of my friends. But nobody accepts my love. Somebody may think me as wrong for proposing to many girls. I am longing for love and i want to get a girl who understands my love. That's why this happened. I didn't have breakup experience. But i definitely i can tell, if somebody loves me truly and we breakup, i won't tolerate it. It will hurt me more