Gay bars
@andrewbarclave (485)
Ireland
April 19, 2013 12:13pm CST
This is about how amazingly men and women seem to have a different experience in them. Now i'm talking straight men and women.
Women as you would expect seem to love it and men don't generally. Something I heard about was that for men when they'd go into the toilets you would have guys doing all sorts of things to each other and it is quite interesting how that happens in gay bars and not any others but then again there are obvious reasons for that lol.
I don't quite know where i'm going with this discussion but maybe you have more to add on the subject.
6 responses
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
19 Apr 13
well as a gay man I can say this if you think this only happens in a gay bar then you have been wearing blinders I have been into food places sit down order my meal and then get up to wash my hand and well free peep show and that is not to say all the rest stops that we all have to use when we drive
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
22 Apr 13
That a good point rusty, although I don't think it happens quite as often.
@taiwanlife (746)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
What I love about gay bars is the honesty in the dance floor. Everybody moves in whatever way. It is where one release himself or herself with the beat of the music. I don't feel judged by the way I move. The more out of this world movement I do, the better. What happens in the bathroom is to each one's choice, straight, gay or bi. In any bars kinky stuff could happen there!!!
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@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
19 Apr 13
Ah thats cool and yes you are right, although it can be unfair to some people who don't want to see it. Yes that is also true that there are plenty of gay kinky bars.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
22 Apr 13
I have friends who are gay, but they don't go out very often and we have never been to a gay bar together. I have only visited a gay bar once, and when we decided to have a drink there we didn't realize that it was a guy bar. My friend, my friend's sister, her boyfriend and I were on vacation in another part of the country and we didn't know the bars in that city. We got our drinks and talked for a while and then his sister's boyfriend went to the toilet. When he came back he looked shocked and he said: "A man was flirting with me in the bathroom. Let's get out of here NOW" The rest of us wanted to finish our drinks, but he was really impatient and wanted to leave immediately and we all left the bar.
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
23 Apr 13
Sounds like a massive homophobic and from what i hear thats cause they are more likely to be gay, not sure how true that is though.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
I have respect to those people. But I would never want to be inside that kind of place.
About ten years ago, my best friend was to get married. A few days before the wedding, she met up with the rest of our friends. After dinner, she wanted to go to a gay bar just for fun. I declined coming with them coz really I am afraid of going to such place coz you may never know what kind of people goes there.
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
22 Apr 13
Yeah I can understand where you are coming from alright but you can meet strange people anywhere really.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
19 Apr 13
Im not gay, but I have many gay friends and have lots of fun with them.
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
19 Apr 13
Thats cool, yeah I don't really have any gay friends but a good few bi friends. It doesn't bother me in the slightest, although i'm a bit bi curious and i'm generally open to plenty sexually.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
20 Apr 13
hi,
i just want to add some on the notes of mariaperalta here, well, i am not a gay but i have a lot of gay friends and colleagues, and i found them very nice. plus, they are more gentleman as compared to those straight ones...
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
19 Apr 13
You may have them, and just dont know it yet. Take care there.
@LegalAlien (641)
• Serbia
20 Apr 13
Im straight. I dont mind going to gay bars but it gets really uncomfortable to be hit on by a gay guy and sometimes you can inform the person that you are not gay and they back off, but sometimes they keep on going at it and it get's uncomfortable even annoying...
So while i dont mind gay bars. I'd rather avoid them... I just prefer not putting myself in situations, any situation that might turn negative in any way...
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
22 Apr 13
Yeah it can be annoying, especially when they are just becoming pervy and thats fair enough, good reason to avoid them if you can.
