Can we make a few real friends at university?

Zhengzhou, China
April 26, 2013 4:33am CST
I will graduate in June, and finally move away for my own life and dream. 4-year university career has taught me a lot as well as given me a lot. I have gained knowledge, health, rich experience. However, I'm not able to say that I have made a lot of friends, you know, I mean, there are few friends who can help you when you are in trouble. At university, everyone has their goals to achive and they are driven by the interest. So most of them have no real relatons between them. I think the high school is best place to make friends. Until now,I still believe that the friends who I have made in high school could indeed help you in trouble. But, at university, I only have one real friend who I cherish. Do you think so? How confused I feel!
3 responses
@RAJASB (109)
• India
27 Apr 13
At University you can make friends just like school or pre-university, it all depends on your choice. Real or friends or fake friends just doesn't happen at any level.It all depends on the individuals and their thinking, if two individuals have same thoughts and gel well with each other, then they can be good friends.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
26 Apr 13
I personally believe that you can make friends almost anywhere. The only that you can make friends is to be one. I have made good friends at my university. Although I admit that there's only a few of them that I consider as real and true but then I don't need lots of friends if they will not be true to me.
@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
26 Apr 13
I think it is possible to make friends at a university. Like you said, most have their own goals that they are working for and just don't think about meeting someone. Plus, a friendship is usually lost, not always, when the schooling is over. People then want to get on with their lives and such.