RAJASB

@RAJASB (109)

India • Age 40

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Dating = engaged = marriage

Anji1985 @Anji1985 (46) • France 29 Apr 13

Hi, I just wanted your opinions on how long after dating does it take someone to propose? I was just curious and I would love to hear your stories.

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RAJASB It all depends on two individuals. One should time good amount of time to understand each other and proceed forward. In dating, people get to know well about each other and can break up or continue if their wavelengths match. There's no specified period for...

30 Apr 13

People who are rude to you and say positive things about you to other people

Porcospino @Porcospino (31365) • Denmark 29 Apr 13

I think that many of us have met people who were nice to us when we talked to them and talked bad about us behind our back, but have you ever experienced the opposite situation? (a person who was rude to you when you met him/her...

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RAJASB Sometimes peopele are rude towards you in a way to extract the best out of you and test your patience and abilities. It doesn't have anything to do with your personal matters.It feels really good and comes as a surprise when someone whom you never expect to...

30 Apr 13

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a drunk man on the bus

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2559) • Philippines 29 Apr 13

my mother is a member of an organization and they had an outing at a beach resort. i went with her and some of our relatives who are also members. there are a lot of people, i don't know exactly how many but there are 4 buses used...

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RAJASB First of all, such people should not be entertained to get into the bus and if he's in the conductor should make sure to keep an eye on him and try to control whenever he's free. People get drunk or not is their individual choice but he should be well aware if...

30 Apr 13

Is it right to take presents from ex-boyfriend?

arpecubha @arpecubha (47) • Bulgaria 29 Apr 13

I know a couple - a boy and a girl - very sweet actually, they are exactly suited to each other and were together - I don't know - maybe 3 or 4 years, but the girl decided to end that relation. The boy is really in love with her....

present

relationship

separate

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RAJASB It all depends on the situation and the reasons for break up. If both are separated on good terms, then no worries in accepting the gifts or presents. If it's an ugly war between both, then it's better to stay off.

30 Apr 13

How have cell phones changed us socially?

marsh1elle @marsh1elle (48) 17 Apr 13

Nowadays,technology grows faster than ever before. Who can ever imagine the state of technologies after 10 years? Especially in the aspect of communication, there’s always a big change every year or time by time. It’s proven that...

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RAJASB If there's anything spectacular about human inventions in this millennium is the Cellphone. The invention of cellphone had made the world smaller. You can stay in touch with your dear ones or friends no matter how far they are living. It saves your time a lot....

30 Apr 13

Magazine vs. eReading

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 29 Apr 13

I'm sitting at the cafe, rather bored because a glitch won't allow me to get to a favourite writing site. A second site is down completely because of a Server Transfer, and an issue with a third one hasn't allowed me to receive...

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RAJASB It all depends on the generation you are brought up and individual choice. I am used to both eReading and pritned suff but for me, i prefer reading a magazine over eReading as the magazine gives me a comfort which i can find on eReading. May be the thought...

30 Apr 13

Enough Reality Shows

kittenclaus @kittenclaus (1393) • United States 27 Apr 13

Whatever happened to the days of plots and sitcoms? Now whenever you turn on the tv all you see is reality shows. I mean come on, do I really care who has the longest beard or want to watch some hog farmer! I know there are...

reality shows

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RAJASB Reality shows are really there to fool people. The owners just play cheap gimmicks and such shows should not be aired, as people just get addicted to them and leave a bad impact on them.

28 Apr 13

People who pretend that they are your friend,

joystick @joystick (1675) 21 Mar 13

I hate people that act like they are your friend, yet they only come to see you to get things off you, see what you are getting up to, or worse still try to dob you in for something to other people. I have had it with a few...

dob a person in

nasty

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2 people

RAJASB Friendship is not about staying together, hanging out together and sharing all the fun. It's about respecting each other's individuality and helping when needed and also advising if some one's going wrong. A word of abuse to correct the other is also good in...

27 Apr 13

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When a friend doesn't support you

andrewbarclave @andrewbarclave (485) • Ireland 26 Apr 13

Firstly I want to add that this situation wasn't inspiration for my "losing best friends" discussion, it's just another thought I have had and is sort of a rant. Recently I joined a band, well when I say recently it was about...

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RAJASB It all depends on the situation, it's not good to loose a friend if he doesn't support you, before coming to conclusion, just analyse the situation who is on the wrong side and understand your friend's situation too and if you are on the correct side and your...

27 Apr 13

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Would you marry a foreigner for money and stability?

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 23 Mar 13

In my country, I am a little sad to say that women prefer foreign men because they have money and they can provide them with a secure and stable future. I see many women even younger than I am cling to their foreign partners...

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RAJASB It depends on individual choice. It's not only the foreigner who has money, money is every where and every one can earn it. It's the greed for money and luxurious life that tempt you to marry an unknown foreigner. It's their choice and can't come to conclusion...

27 Apr 13

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do you still ask for money?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

greetings to all of you guys,we all know that when we were a student we automatically ask money to our parents for our allowance and for the school activities,but when we are working now or when you already had work now,do you...

money

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RAJASB It depends on your age and background. If you are a student, it's no harm in asking for the money from your parents. If you are a man or woman in 20s then it's highly not acceptable. Once you attain the age where you can earn on your own, you should work hard...

27 Apr 13

I don't wanna be others burden

jazzyme @jazzyme (113) • Philippines 28 Sep 12

I am an independent person. I try as much as i can not to depend to anyone. I don't want to ask favor from others not because of pride but I don't want to be a burden to them. My family got irritated with this attitude. they...

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RAJASB There comes an age when you have to live on your own. You can be dependent on your parents till the completion of your education. After that, it's your life and you have to deal with it. People who still sit at home and depend on other even after 20s and 30s...

27 Apr 13

Being independent

aubrey @averygirl72 (38803) • Philippines 31 Mar 13

I know it's bad being a loner for most people. However, some believe that being alone can even empower. We believe that if we are always with lots of people and very active in social life, parties and you have tons of circles of...

alone time

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RAJASB Being independent teaches you many things in life, you get to know the value of life, money and relations. It gives you confidence and teaches you how to cope up with the tough situations in life and makes you an individual who can handle any situation.

27 Apr 13

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Should we leave them alone?.

Always smiling @allknowing (153834) • India 15 Apr 13

If I am upset, I prefer to be alone with my thoughts. But society thinks differently. Take for example if there is a death in the family that get together after the funeral rites is to my mind not called for. These days it is...

life

sadness

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RAJASB It depends on the reason for your sadness. I usually don't get sad, if in case if i get sad,i try to find out the reason for it and find the solution too and tell my self everything will be fine. I take up an activity or try to mingle with people when i am...

27 Apr 13

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What would you do when you alone?

ZhengXing @ZhengXing (12) • China 27 Apr 13

As you konw,we cant always have friends around us.Whether you like or not,sometimes,We must be alone .So,I want to discass was what would you do when you alone.Maybe it would before yor sleep or your friends leave you alone.I...

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RAJASB Being alone is a rare thing. I will be alone only while driving, rest of the time i am with colleagues, friends and family. Being alone sometimes is good as it makes you assess yourself and gives new ideas at times. If i am alone, i usually sit on internet and...

27 Apr 13

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historians

RAJASB @RAJASB (109) • India 27 Apr 13

We all have gone through History lessons in our school and you really get inspired by the people in the history and make some one as your hero, role model for some time or forever. We get to know about out culture, traditions and...

historians

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rain... rain, come back again, please...

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 26 Apr 13

the most ideal season for me is spring. i love watching the plants come back to life. the trees and grasses become greener and soon the flowers start to bloom. even the people seem more happy. the temperature is just right, it's...

pollen

spring allergies

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RAJASB Rainy season is the most beautiful season of all the seasons. In summer you go through all the tough times, the water bodies dry up, you walk under the sun, sweat all the time, and pray for the rain gods all the time and slowly the monsoon brings the rains and...

27 Apr 13

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Do you believe in Judgement Day ?

juniorance @juniorance (250) • India 4 Apr 13

If you believe that, salvation is in believing that Jesus Christ died in the Cross for your sins, then do you believe in the judgement day where all the human beings which were on this earth right from Adam to the last man will be...

belief

judgement day

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RAJASB Judgement Day is where you are decided by your deeds on Earth while you were alive and every person should be extra careful and do all the good to escape from the wrath of God. If everyone believes the same, then no crime will ever happen in the world, no one...

27 Apr 13

I angry......

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5219) • Malaysia 26 Apr 13

I very angry when I playing video games or surf internet for make online money someone disturb me. Today when I playing video games in my phone my sister disturb me. She ask me to lower the sound. It is the very lower sound and...

angry

life

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RAJASB I get angry when people forget their responsibilities and behave recklessly and i also get angry when i see people chopping off trees for no reason. It's very sad to see people behaving in such a manner. Trees gives us shade, protect and gives us the life. We...

27 Apr 13

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Can we make a few real friends at university?

barryc23_9 @barryc23_9 (7) • Zhengzhou, China 26 Apr 13

I will graduate in June, and finally move away for my own life and dream. 4-year university career has taught me a lot as well as given me a lot. I have gained knowledge, health, rich experience. However, I'm not able to say that...

friend

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RAJASB At University you can make friends just like school or pre-university, it all depends on your choice. Real or friends or fake friends just doesn't happen at any level.It all depends on the individuals and their thinking, if two individuals have same thoughts...

27 Apr 13