Why I'm nervous when I see him?

@SunnyQQ (136)
Shantou, China
August 19, 2013 8:15pm CST
I don't know why.Every time I saw him,I felt quite nervous.I know it's not love.But why?
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13 responses
@diunugal (64)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 13
This is because your 'anxiety'. It also can be called as phobia. You should continue to meet him and stay till your nervousness disappear. Do it repeatedly . Then you will be OK.
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@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
No, I don't want to do as you suggested.Because we are not in the same department.We don't have each other's telephone number.We even don't greet when we meet face to face in the road.Now we are in the same university.But 2 years later,we will graduate.I don't believe that we will come across.Thank you for your suggestion!
• United States
20 Aug 13
i think maybe you are nervous because you like him !
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@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
20 Aug 13
Oh,I don't want to admit it!
• Shanghai, China
21 Aug 13
Maybe it's just kind of feeling inside? I don't mean to offend but how old are you?~~
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
I am 21.But in fact,I never be in love...
• Shanghai, China
22 Aug 13
@SunnyQQ Neither do I.As your age,I have to say that one hasn't been in love is weird???(sorry for saying that,take my cousin for an example,she talked about love for several times- -Your ages are the same.Maybe you can have a try, be a brave girl!~)
• Gurgaon, India
22 Aug 13
@SunnyQQ this is the time to be in love.every persons gets its mate after or sooner.But what is to realise when you feel something about that person,then definitely you will be in love with that person
@honor00 (185)
20 Aug 13
Maybe he's critical and plainspoken. Either avoid him alltogether or take deep,calming slow breaths, or both! No-one should make you nervous, be cool.
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
20 Aug 13
Thank you! But I can't help it. But believe me,I will be cool sooner or later!
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• Gurgaon, India
22 Aug 13
its all because of love souls,i mean may be you love him and thats what happens when you see the person you have feelings for, you become nervous.
@cupkitties (7439)
• United States
20 Aug 13
Who is he? Is he an authority or someone for which there is a cause to feel nervous? How well do you know him? Some people are just like that too, having the ability to make others have unexplainable emotions around them. It's probably happened to most of us.
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
20 Aug 13
He is my deskmate when I was 8.And I transferred to another school later.We were in the same school when we were junior high school students.The most unbelievable thing is that we are now in the same university!!
• Shanghai, China
22 Aug 13
@SunnyQQ Sounds like that it's the destiny brings you together~
• Singapore
21 Aug 13
Hi Elynn, it could be a feeling for this special person in your heart that you are not aware of. It could be a little crush years ago.
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
There isn't result between us.So I decide not to think about it!
• India
21 Aug 13
it's love....
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
All right,I don't want to admit it. Maybe it's something else,not love!
• Beijing, China
21 Aug 13
maybe that is what we call "puppy love" or hidden love.
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
I think so.But I will overcome it!
• Pineville, North Carolina
20 Aug 13
Your nervous cause u like him and u don't know if he feels the same
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
If I like him,I won't admit it.Because that's useless,there is no result between us.And also because I am still young.I don't want to waste to much time going out with boys.That's not the way of life I want.I just want to improve me. Maybe I am a dull person,you may say.But I believe that as a girl,no one can trust unless my own career.
• Ningbo, China
20 Aug 13
Coincidence operated only mildly in our lives. One possibility is maybe he like you and he went to the same university as yours. if I were you,I would try talking with him,eating or doing something else, just like friends. The other is you do not want to see your junior high school classmates in the university,and you are afraid that he comes to greet you.
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
22 Aug 13
We are not familiar with each other.We are not in the same department.We don't have each other's telephone number.We even don't greet when we meet face to face in the road.But I just feel neverous.He couldn't know I went to this university because when we first met in the university,he looked as shorked as me! I would attribute this upset to the latter posobility you said.
@tombiz (2039)
• Philippines
20 Aug 13
It can be an infatuation or just a crush and those feeling of being nervous and could not concentrate and act well in his presence can be signs of that infatuation. Do not worry you will gt over this thing soon. Just enjoy the moments.
@SunnyQQ (136)
• Shantou, China
20 Aug 13
How to enjoy?That feeling is bad!!
@michecu (637)
• Philippines
8 Dec 13
perhaps, because you have been acquainted in the past that your subconscious mind is really pushing you to befriend him ... and you are nervous because you are afraid that you might not get favorable results. however, I believe you should just give him a smile next time you meet him, and if he smiles back then that means that he is open to friendship with you.
• Bronx, New York
22 Aug 13
just normal