Is Saying Sorry Difficult?
By cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14879)
Philippines
August 17, 2015 9:46pm CST
As it is difficult to admit one's mistakes, I guess it is also difficult to say sorry when you know that you did nothing wrong to a person or its not intentional.
Saying the word may not change everything nor ease the pain but at least it gives a chance for a better relationship.Considering that it is the least thing you can do sincerely to someone you have displeased or hurt, why will it be difficult to say then? We may hurt people in different ways either by our words or actions.
When you say sorry just make sure you mean it,
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
18 Aug 15
Saying sorry for something we do wrongly should not be hard to do. It is a responsible way to admit your mistake. To apologize is a courteous way to show your honesty and uprightness. At times we may find that it is not easy to say sorry to people who is junior to us as we are supposed to be the mentor or the leader, and our apology for the mistake may present the impression that we are not competent. If you are confident of your capability, you won't feel that way. If you do, then it is time for you to reflect yourself why you can't say sorry for the mistake you made.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
19 Aug 15
I can also say that saying it requires courage and only people with courage can do that
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
15 Nov 15
@jkct02 Oh I don't want to carry the burden forever. I wish something would make me finally do it. It's a heavy burden to carry. I don't want to say it over a social media message though. That's too cheap, I think. I prefer to say it personally but I can't seem to do it without explaining a lot. 
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
18 Aug 15
I tend to say sorry for many reasons and i truly mean it when i do, but i know many who aren't but just saying it to keep the person happy..
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
18 Aug 15
That is great and you are right that many people say the word just to pacify the person.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
18 Aug 15
@cherigucchi Saying it and meaning it are two different ways..I prefer the ones who mean it!!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Aug 15
If I commit any mistake and someone points it out to me, I do not mind saying sorry for my mistake. I do not feel shy in admitting my faults. We are human beings and when we do something, mistakes are bound to occur. We wish that we could do things in a perfect manner but somehow we tend to commit mistakes. Saying sorry makes an affect on other person. Even if he may not forgive you immediately but our admission of mistake lingers on his mind.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
19 Aug 15
Sometimes saying sorry is an act of bravery because only brave people admit their mistakes.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 Aug 15
For me, it is not difficult to admit my mistake. Sametime I won't ask a sorry if I did nothing wrong. Sometimes the word is not enough to ease the pain but definitely give some relief who made the mistake.
Yes, when I say sorry, I really mean it.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
18 Aug 15
@Sreekala you have kind heart kala but all won't think in the same way . As you said saying sorry and admitting our mistake is no crime nor hard to accept it .One has to really mean it when they say it .
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
18 Aug 15
@cherigucchi Saying sorry is not hard , we can admit if we are really wrong there nothing bad about it . All won't think in the same way my friend , the reason is " EGO" many can't say the word sorry because of the feeling i mentioned before. Yes you are right the word " Sorry " will not taking our pain out but will definitely work like a cough syrup .
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
19 Aug 15
Glad that you agree with that. Saying sorry is not enough as well. We should also show the person that we are willing not let it happen again
@granny2015 (432)
• United States
18 Aug 15
sometimes it is hard to say sorry but like you said be sure mean it ,its pointless if you do not mean it
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
18 Aug 15
That is what sorry is for. It means that you really are and want to do something better
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
15 Nov 15
For some people, I find it hard to say sorry. Other people makes it easier to say sorry sincerely but now I can't seem to say the words to someone even if I want to. Oh my. This is a first, I think. As unintentional as my current fault may be I feel I have to apologize or else things would escalate further into something I don't want to happen. 
@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
19 Aug 15
For me saying sorry is very easy especially if I know that it is my fault and I really mean it.
@ACETY5 (174)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Aug 15
sorry , means yes i am wrong you are right.
and who would like to adimit self is doing a wrong thing, if so , does he or she is a stuip or doom ? but anyway , sorry is a way to know people's quality.
we might not easy to say sorry even in a bad feeling on something,and for long time it becomes a habbit no sorry in dictionary.
@birjudanak (14319)
• India
15 Nov 15
if you make mistake then you can sorry so it give you chance to improve your relationship and its you realized for what you do which you not want to do.
