Life is so unfair
By Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36987)
August 19, 2015 9:30pm CST
Life is so unfair
Life at the best of times is hard.
Love is so hard, to find that one true love.
When you find that one true love you’ve always been looking for only to be taken away isn't fair.
My true love the one I’ve been waiting for is currently 6,000 away. Until recently with been travelling back and forth which isn’t easy.
The cost of everything isn’t cheap. Now we have ran out of money and we are apart. I gave everything up for my true love, my home, my world in the UK for love and happiness.
Now it seems that it could all end, we don’t have finances to support us. We’ve tried and tried everything we could possible do.
Love is so hard, life is so hard.
I don’t know what to do now, where to go.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
20 Aug 15
Someone who is so far away could be a stumbling block and knowing that you two continued. What was going in your mind when you were in touch with each other in the sense what were your plans to reach your goal?
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
20 Aug 15
@kevin1877uk Excuse me for saying this. Some tools that are at hand could have helped you decide. What were they?
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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20 Aug 15
I guess we didn't look into it that much to begin with and thought like so many other people it would be ok
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
20 Aug 15
Kevin...are you saying your love is in the USA? and you are stuck in the UK?..Do you have jobs both of you?,,if not go get one..anything you are able to do and save save save so you both can be together again..so not fair to see anyone apart from the person they are meant to be with.
I had very strict parents that wouldn't allow me to be with the one i wanted to be with..so i married someone they approved of..when i finally got the nerve to leave this person, the one i wanted to be with couldn't take me with someone else so he killed himself.
Please do everything you can to be with your love!
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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20 Aug 15
Tell me about it, since I got back for the US 3 weeks ago it been very hard because we know it's very hard to do, harder then we first though.
I am doing I can, it really is a much longer story than I'm telling here and silly US rules,far too many hoops to jump through which all cost money.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
20 Aug 15
@kevin1877uk ok i presume one of you aren't an american citizen and have to apply for papers. Don't know if you are married to your love and that it isn't accepted..but i sure hope you are able to be together soon..hugs
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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20 Aug 15
@Rosekitty I'm from the UK and partner from the US. There are so many hoops, we almost got married however you need to go through the right hoop other wise it's a nightmare, it's a nightmare as it is just even more so.
If you don't have money then it's super hard to do.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
21 Aug 15
I sure hope it works out for you.. Just today someone was telling me how life in the days of Egypt, for example, they whipped their slaves to get the work done, then the elite/higher ups learned, no give them just enough freedom and let them earn just enough to stay barely afloat so they have to keep working long hours, etc.. Anyway, if nothing else, life's hardness is a spiritual conspiracy.. funny how it echoes the earliest religions which said 'the gods' created humans to do the manual labor.. que sera, sera.. or better yet, same old, same old.. barely making it is the status quo for so many.. then again, there's that other large population that has to seriously scrabble for a bite to eat each day.. hmmm, I'm a barrel of laughs this evening.. I do hope something turns up for you and your lady.. said a little prayer..
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
20 Aug 15
@kevin1877uk Pray for the relationship .
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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20 Aug 15
We have been however silly rules in the US, so many hoops to jump through and they all take money. I guess we didn't really think it through and thought it would be easier that it really is.
It really is a much longer story that I have said here.
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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20 Aug 15
@jstory07 So do I, I know it's hard, thank you, I just needed to write about it.
@jstory07 (148735)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Aug 15
@kevin1877uk I hope it will all work out for you.
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@sofssu (23660)
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20 Aug 15
@kevin1877uk Sorry about this. A tough situation no doubt. Hang on there things will work out.. don't give up yet. I believe that there is a time and season for everything.
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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20 Aug 15
I totally agree everything happen for a reason. I won't give in or just up hope.
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@sofssu (23660)
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20 Aug 15
@kevin1877uk Cheer up and keep looking for ways to get together. Sending prayers and good wishes your way..
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@kevin1877uk (36987)
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21 Aug 15
Thank you, you are right and I hope we can although the odds are stacked against us for now.
@kevin1877uk (36987)
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21 Aug 15
I hope so, but the odds are stacked against us for now.
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