I am so scared to apply to a new job

@lady1993 (27221)
Philippines
August 26, 2015 8:20am CST
I really need to get over this fear or embarrassment, or i do not even know how you call it. We started job hunting today, like going from building to building in different places.. it was quite tiring but fun too since i had my friend with me. But i am quite embarrassed since i did not learn much in my previous job, so i felt that i am not qualified in the jobs that i am applying for. My resume is no very awesome, i just hope that some of them would give me a chance.
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7 responses
26 Aug 15
Don't be afraid! We all have to take chances in our lives sometimes. Just go for it and see what happens. You will never know unless you try!
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
27 Aug 15
I agree. Just send the message that you are willing to learn and are ready to do what it takes. Good luck.
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
27 Aug 15
@dashboardc33 thank you for your advice, i am taking chances right now. i do hope they bear fruit
@LadyDuck (502657)
• Italy
26 Aug 15
Do not feel embarrassed, trust yourself, you will learn very quickly. Try to have confidence.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
27 Aug 15
yes, that is one f the many things that i lack... i shall try
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
27 Aug 15
Everybody on every job had to start from the beginning. It's a learning experience for everyone so don't feel bad, you will learn everything that needs to be done on a new job. Good Luck!
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
27 Aug 15
yeah, i already had my new job experience too.. i guess every beginning is quite scary. thank you for your advice though
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@owstalaga (4825)
• Philippines
6 Sep 15
Well then just apply via online job sites so you'll have time to consider what companies to apply to and what you'll tell them before the interview. Good luck on job hunting!
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@owstalaga (4825)
• Philippines
7 Sep 15
@lady1993 Aw that's too bad... Hopefully you get a job soon. What job are you applying for?
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
7 Sep 15
@owstalaga mostly web developer, but what I wanted was a C or Java programmer, since that is what i have experience in
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
7 Sep 15
i did apply to a lot of them online, but almost none replied so we had to go to each company personally to apply
@etavasi (749)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 15
Relax and enjoy while you try find the job. When you interview or meet others just imagine that you are talking to your friend or cousin don't be nervous. They not going to eat you, they are human too. Unless you are applying random jobs which is not your expertise, this a bit hard cause you need confident and lie to them little bit haha. Just don't be afraid, just try and take the chances.
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@etavasi (749)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 15
@lady1993 good luck hope you get your job that you interview, maybe you can pray too so the nervous by get away and not disturb you.
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
7 Sep 15
@etavasi yes, i do pray every single day to land a job that will be fun
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
27 Aug 15
"They not going to eat you, they are human too" haha... thanks for this, i would definitely think of this while i am taking m interview. That is where i suck though, interviews... n matter how many times i take them i still get very nervous before and during the interview.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Oct 15
I think you just do not know the technique of interviewing for jobs. You cannot say that you did not learn much in your job. Even if you are just checking emails all day long, you can say that you have to file the emails, and to backup the emails. You have to sieve out the junk from the real emails. It is a matter of going through all the things you have done, and find lessons from there.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
18 Oct 15
thanks, i haven't looked at it in that way - how even the simplest things in a job counts i just got accepted in a company though, although I have not started yet
@jstory07 (148749)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Aug 15
Most places will train you in the way that they want you to do the job. So go ahead and apply for the type of job that you want.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
27 Aug 15
yes, i am counting on that too. But since i am not applying for an entry-level job (beginner), i am afraid that they might train me less.