Real Talk: Homeless And The Mentally Ill

@TLChimes (4822)
United States
September 12, 2015 9:25am CST
Real Talk: If you want to lower crime, make the world safer and do good for the world, I know just what you can advocate for..... Story Time: I know a man who is just a couple years below thirty. He lives on the street and sometimes with other folks. Most of his adult life has been spent that way. There have been jobs here and there lost due to his circumstances. When he was young they said he was dyslexic. When he was older they said he was bi-polar. One wasn't helped properly and for the other, there isn't enough help. He also presents as younger than his age. He has a hard time keeping track of things and numbers are lost. He has gone to jail a couple of times.... marijuana, stealing a pair of shoes, and the latest was stealing meat because he was hungry. The last time he was released it was to a halfway house that provided a social worker, urine tests, and a bed - but not food. No food for a people they know are at risk, have no money, and no legal means to get any until after a while. It was years into his years on the street before he started the heavier, more dangerous drugs. Self medication to keep the demons at bay so he could sleep is his story. He has lost a lot of family ties due to his behaviors. Back to Real Talk: Back to the original point.... 1. Make sure people an get food. Make sure people can give food. No reason to steal meat if you can get food. 2. If you don't want repeat offenders that offended for reasons like this man, address the issues while you have them in custody. Set them up with programs that address the needed issues. Yes, I know it costs money, but so does dealing with their crimes. 3. Set up safe places for the homeless to sleep. I don't mean "shelters" (they aren't all that safe and the homeless often avoid them because of it) Allow them to have a place where they can set up a tent or start building the "tiny Houses" Get them off the street, get them addresses and phones so they can get jobs if they are able. 4. The mental help that is needed by so many, is unavailable, scarce, and expensive. My insurances allows just 20, 45 minute sessions a year. That is not enough for people like the man above. We need to make mental health a priority because it is a huge reason why a lot of people get to the streets and stay there for so long. What do you think about the mental health situation? How would you help the homeless if you could?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
12 Sep 15
What a well thought out post. I know that alot of people on the streets are there through no fault of their own, but I really don't know what the answer would be.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
13 Sep 15
People always want to blame people who end up in tough spots not really realizing that there are a lot of ways to end up there that have nothing to do with "fault" I'm glad you see the truth of it.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 15
@TLChimes Yes, I wrote a poem on this subject oin the other site sometime ago. It could happen to any of us.
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@dawnald (85136)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Sep 15
My niece is bi-polar, got in trouble with the law, got sent to counseling and anger management on probation, which she has to pay for. She can't get a job because of the conviction, and her probation officer's helpful reply, "it's not my job to find you work". The system works against anybody who wants to try and get back on their feet.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
13 Sep 15
Yep. That is why the cycle just repeats itself. They set these folks up for failure and then complain about the outcome. Stupid government humans.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 15
Well thought of discussion. You have given very good suggestions to look after who mentally unstable and cannot afford to treat themselves. It is for the Government and may be for the Non Governmental Organisations (NGOs) to address the issue, else they will be homeless and will create nuisance to society. I feel that Governments of some of the countries look into this kind of problems and execute some plans to rehabilitate mentally challenged people, however, I feel that there is demand and supply gap, which is needed to be bridged.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
17 Sep 15
I think you are right... and I don't think there are enough people trying to find a way to get that gap taken care of.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Sep 15
@TLChimes - Yes, neither respective Governments nor NGOs are making efforts to bridge the gap. They must come forward.
@celticeagle (158876)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Sep 15
The mental health system stinks. This story you shared about this man sounds like my daughter's story. She has a slight learning disability which makes it hard for her to do things. The disability was just not enough to really show up easily and so she can't get help. Luckily we had a PSR worker for my grandson who saw her enough that the disability was seen and she was able to document it. So that was very helpful. My daughter is also bi-polar. Without the right medication she is like an irresponsible teenager. I live here with her and help her with her son who has ODD. I recently nearly moved out because it is tough and very stressful at times. But, I realized that if I wasn't here in the home helping her all would be lost. My GS would most likely be in a foster home and my daughter would be in a mental ward some where. I know that I am the glue that keep things together. If it weren't for me committing to stay here, a bit of luck, some good PSR work and living in an area that has good programs we would be in a world of hurt. We are lucky. Other places around the country do not have the programs. It is sad. A lot of homeless people can't get help unless they have an address and can't get that because of their situation. Unless they have advocates all along the way there is no hope for them to get the help they need. It is pathetic. The help is there in other areas but their rules and regulations make it difficult. It would take ALOT of money to go in and change things and no one wants to put up funds for it. It just isn't a priority.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
13 Sep 15
The cycle keeps going around. No matter the person wants it to be better, they can't find the help they need. I follow a page on Facebook of a teacher who lives as homeless so he can share the stories. It started out as a thing for his students but his experiences caused him to become and advocate. He graded cities on their police behavior toward the homeless, on the ease of services and help, on the quality of services and other things like that. He has talked to people in suits and appeared on tv. And not much has changed except more people know the reality.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
13 Sep 15
@celticeagle That's just stupid... they should get both.... if they were getting enough in a program they wouldn't need help from the public. It's like those rules against sharing food with the homeless. We have come up with a way around that.... Would you do this simple easy task and I will give you a pizza and drink.