Once it Would Have Been Considered a Sad Sight

By Val
@valmnz (17095)
New Zealand
September 14, 2015 8:19pm CST
I sat in the corner of my favourite cafe this morning, working on a piece of writing I've been trying to sort out. I sat alone with my coffee, my pages and a pencil, engrossed in what I was doing. I wasn't the only person sitting alone this morning. Two others sat at two different tables, each appearing to be working as I was. There's no wifi at this cafe, so they were no doubt working, as opposed to interacting online. Once someone sitting alone in a cafe, especially a woman, would have been considered a sad sight. But not any more. It's quite a common sight in cafes here these days. I personally can get quite a bit of work done when I step away from the house like that for a while. I enjoy the solitude and the coffee. How about you? Do you sometimes go to a cafe alone, for whatever reason, and make the most of your time there by working on something important to you?
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• United States
15 Sep 15
I have never been in a coffee shop and I never go anyplace alone.
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
15 Sep 15
We lead a quite different life style
• United States
15 Sep 15
@valmnz We have one car, we are together 24/7 and I hate to drive - I love this lifestyle.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
15 Sep 15
Yes, sometimes I do. There is a nice cafe in front the hospital where my husband goes two times a week for a treatment. I wait him there, reading a book or taking notes, while I enjoy a cappuccino.
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
15 Sep 15
What better way to spend time alone
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
15 Sep 15
@valmnz It is depressing to wait in the hospital waiting room, while in the cafe it is a relaxing moment.
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
15 Sep 15
No, I've never done it. It's many years since I've been to a cafe alone. I don't get any work done at cafes, but while I'm waiting for my order I'll often bring out my camera and look for something interesting to shoot.
@Inlemay (17712)
• South Africa
15 Sep 15
I have never felt strange sitting along having coffee in my favorite place - I believe it takes a strong person to be ALONE and be content with that feeling. Because we are not ever really alone - our thoughts are a magnitude of Crowds flooding our minds.
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
15 Sep 15
Good to know you're one like me a couple of my friends couldn't do it.
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@xFiacre (14786)
• Ireland
15 Sep 15
If I stopped sitting alone in cafés the Belfast economy might go bust! Yes - I'm still at it.
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
15 Sep 15
Great! I'm glad we can continue to share café experiences. Looking forward to your first discussion here. Come on, be brave, just do it. I need to go to sleep soon
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