Two out of three kids pissed me off this morning...

@dawnald (85135)
Shingle Springs, California
September 23, 2015 11:26pm CST
First it was Cary taking his sweet time getting out of bed in the morning. I woke him up, gave him 5 minute reminders, and he still didn't have his clothing on 5 minutes before we needed to leave. Tomorrow I swear I'm going in there with cold water. Then I found out he still hadn't turned his band stuff in. More on that later. So then I asked Dearra if she had taken care of getting a counseling appointment as her financial aid depends on her declaring a major. Nope. So I texted their dad, and he replied back that maybe she should just quit school and get a job. So I passed that message on, and she got really mad, started crying and said it was the anxiety. Felt bad, but just said, hey I love you, but you need to take care of this. On the way to school, I talked to Cary about the band stuff. He said he didn't think the teacher would accept it any more. I said, no he will accept it as it's mandatory, but he may not give you a grade for it. It's important that you turn it in so that he has our contact info, payment for band supplies, etc. Told him he needed to get all the teacher signatures by Friday and turn it in. If it's not turned in, I'm taking more stuff away from him. Sigh. Later, Dearra texted me that she had gotten an appointment set up for the school counselor. Yay. But it did kind of ruin my sweet disposition all day.
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• United States
24 Sep 15
bless yer heart, they can surely send'ja into a tailspin, those young'uns. 's fer that fella who dislikes gettin' up in the morn? frozen marbles do the trick 'n ya aint got a soggy bed to dry out later. jest ask me how i know.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
28 Sep 15
@crazyhorseladycx Did your momma have to use that tactic on you... lol's
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• United States
28 Sep 15
@sueznewz2 noperz, i confess to usin' such on one'f my own. only takes once! makes a believer outta 'em.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
28 Sep 15
@crazyhorseladycx sometimes we learn things quicker than others.. lol's..lol's
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
24 Sep 15
Wow, we had to handle the school junk by the end of the first week of school for my son to get his financial aid. I had to take a half day off work one day to bring him down to the city to get some paperwork filled out. But he had no problem picking a major. Are you going to let the boy quit band after this year? I find it really unfair that they force him to do band and he obviously has no desire to, and that you have to pay for it when it's a requirement to graduate.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Sep 15
Band is not a requirement, but he has to take an art. He chose band out of all the arts, so he has to suck it up now.
@rusty2rusty (6751)
• Defiance, Ohio
24 Sep 15
Kids can be real pain in the rump. I took both kids school ipad from them. As their chores were not done. They had no homework and were only playing on them.
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@vandana7 (98861)
• India
29 Sep 15
Nobody said being mother is easy. But eventually there are rewards to show - usually.
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@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Sep 15
Kids always find ways to give us more gray hairs - and they don't even know it! A Mom's job is never done!!
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
28 Sep 15
I am so glad that "those days" are behind us. I feel for you.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
29 Sep 15
kids, gotta love them
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Sep 15
Yeah being as it's illegal to kill them and all...
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
28 Sep 15
ooohhh .. I hope you regain your sweet disposition ... and peace returns to you and your home... sounds like the pep talk worked with Dearra...
@fawkes62 (1276)
• United States
24 Sep 15
Kids can be so frustrating at times, hopefully they are better for you today.