shrinking populations ... what do you know

@Salamnda (476)
United Kingdom
September 24, 2015 5:41pm CST
the birth rates are declining , people are not encouraged with marriage and they dont want the commitment , men women , they find it easier and more fun to have partners and accidentally have baby without a marriage ,,, many see it as nothing wrong with , not getting married , looking at the costs and commitment ,,, will population shrink? will the kids without both parent's be the majority in the society ? is it something normal? not to have a family , the way family known to mankind ? many questions ,,,
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
24 Sep 15
Those that reproduce will flood into areas where they can reproduce freely, even if those from that area are slowing up. In time the intelligent and the wealthy choose to work rather than passing on their genes (unless they donate sperm or eggs) and the ones supporting the growth of the top cultures begin to slow. If the breeders over take the achievers, then education levels fail too. In time the population collapses due to events caused by the offspring of the breeders and the uneducated causing trouble. That would eventually decrease the population. Of course, wars and plagues work fast as well.
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
24 Sep 15
if things go normal , the achievers educate the breeders so they combine both sides to have a balanced societies , plus the better distributions of the wealth will help to but the part of that the reproducers will flood other areas , its already happening , from africa to eu , and that will change many things
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
24 Sep 15
@Salamnda In America too. Hispanic populations flooding in, bringing their own languages and culture and unwilling to assimilate. In Europe too, they come in as refugees but think they should keep everything about who they are the same. It's give and take, and people take more than they give back.
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
@OneOfMany every one who comes to a society will give, cos many of the new comers paying for the retirement of the aging people by working and paying taxes, their young mostly and in the working ages , and they do work
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
24 Sep 15
Perhaps look to China for that answer, not sure. Society is certainly changing. I wonder if the family unit is a thing of the past or will return. You are right in my area it is more common to see single parents than not.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
25 Sep 15
@Salamnda Will it all depend on how children are looked after? For some they don't receive the care they so desperately need. For others it becomes a community raise. Time is our proofs indeed.
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
@Bluedoll if we bring back the right natural system , every one will feel better ,
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
24 Sep 15
china values the family and marriage , more, but as in Eu and the US things are different , Uk is the best in the birth rate and still fall behind the average , yes single parents are seeing more and more , and i guess that will have a huge effect by time
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
25 Sep 15
i think the population is still growing... maybe even faster than before since many teens are getting pregnant right now, people are just careless it is heartbreaking to see kids grow up with irresponsible parents
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
26 Sep 15
@Salamnda it is hard to help teens when some of them just want to live their life the way they feel like
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
26 Sep 15
@lady1993 yes its hard when you dont raise them the right way when they are children , teenagers act with the base they already have when they where in the age of shaping their personality and self values, that is made by their parents and environment
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• Canada
25 Sep 15
Population is shrinking because we are over populated in certain parts of the world. In China, apparently one child per family is only allowed. Here in America, families are getting smaller, and a lot of people are either choosing not to have children, which can be deemed good in many ways, yet bad in other many ways too. So it evens out, good and bad. But there's also so many people who cannot have kids! The foods we eat, and bio weapons are all part of the government conspiracy.. in my opinion...
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@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
24 Sep 15
Things are hanging, not sure if it is for the better or worse. The family unit is important but the kind of family unit we are used to is changing. Perhaps it is a good thing that the population is declining as I am not sure how we will feed ourselves in the next 50 years.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
24 Sep 15
@Salamnda Water system! Lower the ocean and reclaim deserts, then there will be lots of agriculture to support more people!
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• Pune, India
25 Sep 15
Well the population is far from shrinking, so you must not worry about that. However more and more nations are facing the problem of infertility among couples ( nations with higher GDP and higher working hours ) due to their lifestyles which are unhealthy ofcourse and i don't mean it on just the physical level but also psychological. Kids without both parents are rising majority nowadays and this is something to worry about because such children have been shown to develop depression and other psychological ailments much more easily and early. Marriages not working out can be attributed to one thing only- Ego! To fix what is broken, why would you? When it is simpler to just change it without any social stigma involved. There is no longer a compulsion involved. You can debate all you want about the reasons but no marriage is a fairytale and all of them need some working, some more than others. Not getting married in the first place is completely fine, marrying and then breaking off is wrong ( except for the ones involving violence of any sort ), marrying and having kids and then divorcing- now that's just downright terrible!
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
and that requires us to think about fixing the system it self , to rase children and teach them from the beginning how to be a husband and how to be a wife, i know that in Malaysia they have the 3 months course for the people who are going to get married, so they teach them how really life is after marriage , and that helped reduce the divorce rate more than 40% and this is good, and no country is far better than the other since all humans have the same needs and same backgrounds as humans , things need to be addressed well,
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
@Kchitij2007 exactly as you mentioned in your last like "It would be very depressing to live in times when a complete and functional family is a privilege rather than a basic right that is always fulfilled." and its becoming reality
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• Pune, India
25 Sep 15
@Salamnda That indeed is a very good measure. Most men and women carry misconceptions about life after marriage or are just overwhelmed by the changes accompanying a married life. They need to be better prepared and yes the State can do a lot in this direction. A child's psyche is fragile and I feel the fracturing of it is the greatest threat the next generation faces. It would be very depressing to live in times when a complete and functional family is a privilege rather than a basic right that is always fulfilled.
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
25 Sep 15
Oh they should come by our country... the answer may be adoption. Too many kids in other countries can fill up all the needs of less reproductive countries. But then again if you're talking about infidelity and lack of commitment well, that's the loose morals of people nowadays. No sense of self control or too selfish maybe? Who knows what issues they have in their lives. People will get what they deserve anyway, karma is a b*tch. Responsibility should be something people don't play around with. And I could go on and on but I'd rather not.
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
its not just a matter of adoption , there is more values and losses in that
@vandana7 (98956)
• India
25 Sep 15
I think we Indians could do with some of that shrinking for sure. Don't worry, there will come a time when they will be jobless because there will be no demand for what they can manufacture or services they can offer. That is when they will rethink and come up with solution. There was a time when people were screaming stop over population. Nobody bothered to listen. So even if you have a solution, nobody wants it.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
25 Sep 15
Good question and not really sure, maybe it could.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
25 Sep 15
yes it's true that these days family isn't granted the importance that is supposed to. this is a tendency that can't bring anything good and I strongly believe that a child needs both parents in order to grow into a healthy adult
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
all of as need to work to active that in our life if we plan to have children
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Sep 15
Well, the world's population is still increasing despite common cases of marriage break ups and single parenting in the society.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
25 Sep 15
Its the last thing that would be normal.
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
imagine destroying the base of your structure ,,,
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@cahaya1983 (11120)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 15
I doubt that it would cause the population to shrink. At least not drastically. And to answer the question of what's "normal", I think everyone has their own definition of what's normal.
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• Avenel, New Jersey
25 Sep 15
i dont think this is accurate. the world population is always increasing and honestly, its good that people dont have kids becuase at some point there will be way too many people on earth to sustain anything.
• Avenel, New Jersey
25 Sep 15
@Salamnda not at the same rate, especially these days with medical advances.
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 15
but people do die to ...