Should i forgive a person who ditch me?

@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
September 29, 2015 12:13am CST
A person who only knows how to cheat and hurt but sometimes also can love, should i forgive this kind of person who also ditch me once? or i should leave this person forever?
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@sofssu (23660)
29 Sep 15
You need to forgive him so you can move ahead or move on as you decide to do. Harboring hurt and [pain hurts you. Forgive doesn't mean you have to take him back .. forgive means you hold no ill feelings and don't hurt yourself anymore.
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@sofssu (23660)
29 Sep 15
@SHOHANA Forgiving allows you to grow and adapt.. Yes if you do not want someone hurt you..its time to get him out of your life. Though its difficult to say without knowing the reality.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 15
@sofssu yeah its quite difficult but not impossible too
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 15
you are right, i forgive him but i can't allow him to hurt me again
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
11 Aug 16
@SHOHANA Honestly....yes leave this person be! Save yourself from a person who is like that please! If they have never shown any respect for you in the past, don't expect it to change in the future! I wish you all the best!
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
11 Aug 16
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
29 Sep 15
Much depends upon that person and you too. Usually, people forgiven start taking the relationship for granted. Unless the relationship is cemented for good, I would advice against it.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 15
yeah its depend on situation and also depends upon the person who was wrong and right now how much guilty he is.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
29 Sep 15
Well , that's for you to decide . If you think that he is your happiness despite what he has done to you , then follow your heart ,
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 15
you are right my friend, lets see others opinion
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Sep 15
Since I do not know the whole story you should decide for yourself. Do what is best for you.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 15
I need time to decide and instant decision is not good, right?
@bookbar (1609)
• Sudbury, England
29 Sep 15
You can't move on to a new life, with a handful of yesterday's old news!
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 15
But may be i have to move on
@stringer321 (5682)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
29 Sep 15
Cheating happens and the question is what one do about it. Cheating doesn't mean he wanted to hurt you. Shohana, I'm sure you can get any good guy that you want, and have a better and satisfying relationship. If you can live with it and it doesn't bother you, maybe you can forgive the cheater, and take him back. Be true to yourself and don't let it destroy you.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
29 Sep 15
Put it in the palm of your hand and blow it away!
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
11 Aug 16
Once a cheater always a cheater