A Bit of the El

@Rollo1 (16676)
Boston, Massachusetts
October 2, 2015 6:38am CST
Events recently as regards that other site have people lining up on "sides". Once sides are chosen, other relationships become secondary. People band together with those on their "side" and they identify as such. I am reminded of an ee cummings poem, one of my favorites even though the sentiments were probably not those of someone from my "side" in the conflict he references. It is the poem that begins "Plato told him" and continues to list the warnings throughout history that were given, but the subject of the poem only believes when "a nipponized bit of the old sixth avenue el" hits him in the head. The "el" is the elevated railway in NY and it was demolished, with the scrap metal being sold to Japan in 1939. The verse refers to the repurposing of scrap metal into ammunition for war, and used in WWII. And that is how I was back in January. I hadn't been hit in the head, not hit where it hurts, and so I defended peace at any cost, supporting the side, scoring one for the Gipper - all that. And then in June, I got a shot in the head. Now I am squarely on one side and others who haven't been hit by a chunk of their words that were sold on and used to fund parties by the pool, are on the other side. Sides don't work when everyone is a victim. I think integrity matters, and I want to be treated with respect.
[plato told] by e.e. cummings plato told him:he couldn't believe it(jesus told him;he wouldn't believe it)lao tsze certainly told him, and general (yes mam) sherman; and even (believe it or not)you told him:i told him; we told him (he didn't believe it, no
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
2 Oct 15
I agree that we should not take sides against each other. I believed in the site and I have continues for months. I had to see that something was fishy, why time by time some of us were not paid? Now that love is gone I see the defects.
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
2 Oct 15
@Rollo1 I have the same feeling. I am very sad that the site went all the way down, but I do not see people good enough to bring it back to the ancient splendor.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
2 Oct 15
@LadyDuck Back in January, I really thought that if we all pulled together and wrote lots of posts, that it would help. It wasn't enough.
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
2 Oct 15
@Rollo1 I also did my best, but to be helped, they had to help us.
@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
2 Oct 15
I too defended until I started disbelieving. My transition here was easy and is complete. I guess we all just wanted to believe in what we were doing.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
2 Oct 15
I did want to believe and I think a lot of us did believe we could make a difference. I think we are the only ones who cared. The owners didn't. See what they were up to at the sweeble party while not paying us.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
2 Oct 15
an 'if you aren't with us, you're against us' feeling.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
2 Oct 15
That's the feeling I think we need to avoid. We shouldn't be against each other.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
3 Oct 15
Sometimes even winning isn't winning, those who were right didn't win either. Everyone lost.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
3 Oct 15
You have to fight for what is right, but you may never win. Still worth fighting for what is right.
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@mom210 (9170)
• United States
2 Oct 15
Sometimes it is really hard to not take sides, it puts people in awkward positions too. We have friends going through marriage difficulties and boy what a tough spot for everybody
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
2 Oct 15
Best to take no sides in that case. They sometimes get back together and don't forgive the bad things you said about their spouses.
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@fawkes62 (1276)
• United States
2 Oct 15
It's hard to not take sides when you don't want to believe what one side is saying. By not believing it you ultimately take the side that isn't saying it.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
2 Oct 15
I just had a look at the party photos from the Sweeble party on their Sweeble Facebook page. They don't look like they are hurting for money.They decided where to spend it. I think we loved Bubblews more than the owners did.
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