Is life too long or too short?

@scheng1 (24650)
Singapore
October 3, 2015 12:16am CST
Sometimes I think that life is too long, and sometimes I feel that life is too short. When it is the beginning of the work week, and I see those kids in school, I start to wonder about their working life ahead. They probably have to work for 50 years before they can retire, since retirement age keeps on increasing. I feel that life is too long and too miserable. When I am in a great mood, I feel that life is too short.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Oct 15
I don;t think there is anyone of us who could say life is too long( or at least people who are in their right mind). most of us want to lvie as long as possible
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
3 Oct 15
When it is a bad Monday morning, I really wish that I have just 10 years of life left. I will surely quit and travel the world to enjoy life. I will not want to spend a single minute more doing data entry.
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• Romania
3 Oct 15
@scheng1 and why don't you do something to change this aspect of your life: enjoy your life a little bit more
• Vancouver, Washington
4 Oct 15
i think alot of us to want to live as long as we can enjoy some of the things you haven't been able to do
@joylol (148)
• Austin, Texas
3 Oct 15
I would say life on earth seems rather short while the after life God created seems super long since it is for our soul's eternity. ^_^
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
4 Oct 15
That is something I hate to think about. If there is really eternal life, it better not be eternal physically. I cannot imagine doing data entry work for 1000 years.
@joylol (148)
• Austin, Texas
4 Oct 15
@scheng1 Lol, I know what you mean by that statement, but I always was taught bibically that the eternal life is spiritually and not physically or flesh wise. There is no flesh bodily forms in the after life because what is on earth can not go to the after life. What is on earth is temporary. In the Bible, 2 Corinthians 4:18 reads,"So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." It's up to anyone to believe in a beautiful spiritual life.^_^ However, a physical eternal life where we still have to worry about if we got something done or not all the time like our jobs doesn't sound all that appealing.
@allknowing (130292)
• India
4 Oct 15
I never give a thought to this but enjoy each day as tomorrow never comes. Remember the song Domani by Connie Francis?
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
4 Oct 15
@scheng1 And add to that their childhood is also snatched away by always being with the adults with just a kid or two being there in any household.
@skysnap (20154)
3 Oct 15
When you are having fun then life is too short and when you are suffering then it is too long. That is what I have realized and also found out to be true so far.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
3 Oct 15
Many of us do not really like our job, so the reality of working for more than 50 years is a nightmare. This is the reality that young adults are facing.
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 15
tooo short ,,, you can feel it when you try to remember old times
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
4 Oct 15
When it is Sunday afternoon, I do feel that life is too short. Actually weekends are too short. I just wish that we can work part time, and enjoy life more.
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 15
@scheng1 yes when we have nothing to do , time feels different
@yeezermac (145)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Oct 15
Indeed. The length of life is quite dependent on how satisfying we find life to be. And our satisfaction is in turn dependent on how we compare our lives with the lives of others, or with what we had before, or what we could possibly have. Happy with life = life is short, too little time to carry on enjoying it. Dissatisfied with life = life is long, can't wait to get out of it. At times we're not actually doing that badly, but because we've had something better in the past, or we are too ambitious, or simply because we're too jealous of another person, we begin to get dissatisfied with our life. That's called "relative dissatisfaction", as opposed to "absolute dissatisfaction".
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
23 Oct 15
Yes, that is true. i think in places where everyone is poor, then everyone is happy. That is because they do not have to feel jealous or anything, and they are all dirt poor that they do not have to worry about losing their possession. I think that is part of the reasons why Singaporeans of our grandparents' and parents' time were much happier.
• Singapore, Singapore
26 Oct 15
@scheng1 As it is taught in Buddhism, having possessions equates to suffering, because humans are always comparing between themselves and others. When humans have nothing, they have nothing to compare themselves to
@vandana7 (99102)
• India
3 Oct 15
I don't think about life's length at all now. Earlier I used to. I mean, I have to plan for 40 years ahead, food, clothing, shelter, medicines, loans, indebtedness, charities, blah blah. Now that I am closing in on 60 the 40 is fast becoming less than 20 presuming I will survive till 75. That makes me feel good.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
4 Oct 15
I think you should plan up to 90. The medical advancement makes it possible. It is a horror to outlive your money. I think many retirees fear living too long.
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@vandana7 (99102)
• India
4 Oct 15
@scheng1 ..90? No way! Who will look after me? I would rather opt for euthanesia when I feel enough is enough.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
3 Oct 15
Let's think of it as just about right - not too long nor too short either.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
4 Oct 15
If we are in good health, and we have enough money to do the work that we enjoy, life is great. I think nothing beats having great health, and having enough money to live life the way we like.
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@gudheart (12659)
3 Oct 15
Time does go by really fast, but at the same time when we are having a tough time it can seem life is dragging.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
3 Oct 15
I pity the young people who have just entered the workforce. They probably do not realize that they have to work for the next 50 years or more. Life is really too long when the workplace is so stressful.
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@gudheart (12659)
3 Oct 15
@scheng1 It know what you mean. I am finding work stressful right now!
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